Fight envy in yourself if you are a good leader

Dag Heward Mills Creativity Presiding Bishop of the United Denominations of the Lighthouse Group of Churches, Bishop Dag Heward

Tue, 3 Apr 2018 Source: Dag Heward-Mills

A happy Easter to you all! It is Easter time and our thoughts are on Jesus and the Cross. The Bible says that Pilate knew that the Chief Priests had delivered Jesus because of envy. Envy drove the leaders of the church to perpetuate acts that brought the death of our Saviour. Beware of envy if you are a leader! Envy is a feeling of discontent or covetousness with regard to another’s advantages, success and possessions.

The Greedy Man and the Envious Man

A greedy man and an envious man met up with a great king who was pleased with them for their good works. The king said to them, “I desire to reward you for your efforts in the kingdom. One of you may ask something of me and I will give it to him, provided I give twice as much to the other.”

The envious person did not want to ask first for he was envious of his companion who would receive twice as much. The greedy man also did not want to ask first since he wanted everything that was to be had. A great argument ensued and the king left the two workers to sort themselves out and decide who would make the request first.

Finally the greedy man pressed the envious man to be the first to make the request. The greedy man was happy that at last he had won over the envious man and would have twice as much of the reward that was coming to the envious man. The two men got ready to see the king and presented themselves before the throne to make their request.

The envious man spoke as agreed and said, “O great king we are thankful for your generosity and kindness towards us. This shall be our reward and it will suffice for the rest of our lives. O great king, please pluck out one of my eyes. This is something I cannot do for myself and it shall be a sufficient reward for the rest of my life. The greedy person could not believe his ears as he heard the reward that the envious man had chosen. Immediately, he knew that the envious man had done him in. “I am going to lose both of my eyes,” he wailed. “Why was I so greedy? Why did I want twice as much? Why did I trust my life to an envious and cruel man? Indeed, he had trifled with the envious man. He never imagined the cruelty that could come out of the envious man.

The envious man in his cruelty wanted the two eyes of the greedy man to be taken out to punish him for getting twice as much. The envious man was prepared to lose one eye so that his enemy would be blind. What kind of mindless and senseless wickedness was this? Indeed, you must fear the envious, for their cruelty is more than the grave! The greatest sin of men to crucify Jesus Christ was committed because of envy.

Three Lessons on Envy

Envy is a negative trait that destroys a person from within.

A sound heart is the life of the flesh: but ENVY THE ROTTENNESS OF THE BONES.

Proverbs 14:30

The scripture calls envy rottenness of the bones. Envious people are destroyed from within. They may have everything but will be focused on what others have and what others are doing. Envious people are not content. They may look happy on the outside but their hearts are thinking about what others have and what others are doing.

Happiness to an envious person is about what another person has or does not have. The soul of such a person is defective and the person is unwell. I have watched envious people live their lives as though they were on a crusade against their own personal happiness. They do not want to be happy! They only want to focus on the existence of another.

Accept your lot and focus on what God has done for you. Your envy is self-destructive and the cruelty of your envy is eating you up.

Envy is a negative trait that is as cruel as the grave.

… JEALOUSY IS CRUEL AS THE GRAVE: the coals thereof are the coals of fire, which hath a most vehement flame.

Songs of Solomon 8:6

Anyone who has attended a funeral of a young person cut down in the prime of his life will understand the meaning of the phrase, “as cruel as the grave.” Attending the funeral of young fathers, mothers and friends, only leaves you with desperate feelings of pain.

A great desolation falls on those left behind and a gnawing and persisting pain consumes them. Can there be anything as cruel as the grave? But the Bible says that jealousy is as cruel as the grave. Jealousy is indeed a very evil thing.

Envy is a negative personal trait whose evil effects are worse than anger and cruelty combined.

Wrath is cruel, and anger is outrageous; BUT WHO IS ABLE TO STAND BEFORE ENVY?

Proverbs 27:4

What can be worse than cruelty? Remember that Jesus Christ was crucified because of envy (Mark 15:10). Envy is worse than cruelty because it is a mindless force that drives an individual to eliminate another without mercy or good reason. Envy is a monster that I pray you will not have to contend with it!

Columnist: Dag Heward-Mills