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Homosexuality & Lesbianism (Part I)

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Mon, 24 Jan 2011 Source: Onipa Ba

Homosexuality & Lesbianism (Part I): Not Innate, The Possible Causes Examined.




Homosexuals and lesbians (gay people) maintain that their sexual orientations are inborn. This is an excuse they use to get societal sympathy. My observations over several years in the United States would totally debunk this notion that homosexuality and lesbianism are innate traits. The romantic attraction of two matured persons of opposite sex, towards each other invariably culminates in sexual intercourse. From my observations, I have noted well defined reasons why a person of age may not be interested in having a sexual relationship with another person of the opposite sex. Unfortunately, instead of addressing and eliminating these obvious learned causes of homosexuality and lesbianism, sectors of the society are giving in to the gay campaign that same sex orientations are innate.





My goal in posting this article is to educate others about the learned practices that gay people indulge in which ultimately results in same sex orientations. My message is aimed particularly at the people of Ghana where homosexual and lesbian practices are completely unacceptable and are foreign to the culture. I feel that with the recent influx of foreign homosexual criminals into Ghana, to commit unlawful and socially unacceptable acts, it is important that the Ghanaian understands the mental, cultural and the behavioral make up of these criminals as well as the practices that they possibly engage in, in their home countries that have culminated in their homosexual and lesbian features. Although the claims I have made in this posting are based on my observations in the USA, I feel that they may be applicable to the global homosexual and lesbian community at large.



The causative factors I will present here fall under three categories. The first factor is the culture of using illegal drugs and improper use of legal drugs. The second factor is evidence that exposes the outright lies by the gay people that their sexual orientations are inborn. The third factor is the unconventional and unacceptable sexual practices among certain persons which could even fall into the domain of criminality.





Very hard evidence abound which not only refutes the claim by gay people that they were born with their sexual orientations, but it also calls into disrepute their honesty and integrity. Recently, stories have surfaced in the news about persons who came out in the open to reveal their homosexual tendencies. Implied in this proclamation is their claim that they were born with no sexual desires towards the opposite sex. The irony is that these persons invariably stayed married to persons of the opposite sex for several years in relations in which sexual intercourse was a part as is evidenced by the birth of biological children in the relation. A classical example of this situation is that of ex-New Jersey Governor Jim McGreevey, who after several years of marriage to different women, at different points of time in his life and having had biological children with these women, one day came out to announce he was gay, which precipitated his resignation of the governorship. As a second example, an accomplished member of my church recently mounted the pulpit and in her preaching told the story of how her husband for twenty eight years with whom she had had children, would one day tell her he was a homosexual and so he was leaving her. There are many more of these examples.





In all such examples, a careful analysis shows that these persons were not born with apathy to sex with members of the opposite sex. There is something that drives these persons towards same sex relations. That “something” is invariably an incentive to be derived by one of the same sex partners. In the case of Jim McGreevey, his homosexual partner was reportedly well connected in political and probably intelligence circles elsewhere. Therefore, the driving force would be the incentive in the form of political benefits that McGreevey’s partner would derive from the relation. In short, Jim McGreevey may have failed in applying his counter-intelligence acumen and to save his face from the ensuing embarrassment, his only bargain was to feign homosexuality. In the case of the ex-husband of my church member, the incentive could be assumption of homosexuality as a tool for getting acceptance into some wrongly focused “all-male” social enclave. There are lots of these associations.




The last but not the least example of incentive as a driving force for homosexual relation/intercourse is in Ghana right in front of your nose and this is perpetrated by foreign nationals against young and often inexperienced and unsuspecting boys in Ghana. Recently, the Ghanaian news has reported stories of foreign homosexual criminals who come to Ghana and engage these young and innocent boys in homosexual activity using the lure of money and/or promises of securing visas for the young Ghanaian males to travel to Western countries for greener pastures. It is quite evident that these young and unsuspecting Ghanaian boys are not born homosexuals, but they are lured into this practice by foreign homosexual criminals with promises of money and visa acquisition. The poor innocent Ghanaian boys become vulnerable because of the unfortunate economic environment in which they live, but not because they were born homosexuals. Most of these boys may not even understand the social implications of the unlawful acts perpetrated on them by these foreign homosexual criminals. Therefore, the actual architect of the major incentives and the prime beneficiaries thereof, are the foreign homosexual criminals. The foreign homosexual criminal derives the major incentives out of the unlawful acts and these incentives constitute the driving force for his actions and he does not do it because he was born a homosexual. When the foreign homosexual criminal is arrested in Ghana invariably he carries gadgets for video recording of homosexual acts on these innocent boys and he obviously would sell these videos in his home country. Thus, for the foreign homosexual criminal, the driving force for such unlawful acts on Ghanaian boys is financial gain; he might not have been born to have no sexual desire towards women. A typical example is the case of the Austrian homosexual Thomas Wild, who was arrested and tried in Ghana for such unlawful act in 2006 (see Ghanaweb news, March 10th, 2006).





There are concerns over “soft drugs” or legal substances such as stimulants (e.g. caffeine from coffee), nicotine (from cigarettes smoking) and alcohol with regard to heart performance, blood pressure and sexual performance. The rationale is that these substances probably affect the balance of hormones in our body and our whole driving force for sex depends on the balance of these hormones. Therefore, if these “soft drugs” can degenerate our sexual desires then hard and illegal drugs such as cocaine, marijuana, heroine etc, can cause even more damage to our sexual desires. In this realm also falls the improper use of lawfully prescribed drugs. Illegal drug use is a very serious problem especially here in the United States. Illegal drug use can destroy one’s desire for sex. When a group of persons destroy their sex lives through illegal drug use, they would get together and form some same-sex social enclave and this is a common trend.



Some males in USA, especially the naughty headed ones always want to acquire over-sized penis. Ideally the civilized practice of sex would involve the mutual derivation of pleasure by both participants. It should not be an encounter, in which one participant intentionally inflicts excruciating pain on the other, but this is exactly the method of operation of the idiot with an oversized penis and even in most cases this cruel act falls in the domain of criminality. The over sized penis produces a two-way effect. While it could drive the poor woman victim to lesbianism, it could lead the male carrier to homosexuality. Besides visiting mayhem on well-brought up women in bed, the oversized penis imparts to the woman a very big vagina and she consequently endures the gross disadvantage whereby she is not able to win any more male partners because of her oversized vagina, especially if that oversized male idiot she has been sleeping with does not marry her. A woman’s virginity is very important in her relationship with a man





In the current paragraph, I wish to illustrate the adverse effect of the oversized penis on the woman and how it possibly drives the woman into lesbianism. I recently found out that there is available on the market, an artificial penis for which some women opt in place of sleeping with a man. A few years back a woman was on US TV, claiming that she chooses to use the artificial penis because her heavy workload leaves her no time to interact with men. Reportedly, a model of this device is designed as a belt which one ties around the waist and the front bears a penis-like protrusion. Supposedly, this is a device used by two women to have sex with each other whereby they take turns wearing the belted penis, lying on the other partner and playing the role of a man. Suppose that a woman has been made afraid of hetero-sexual intercourse by the actions of abusive idiots with over sized penis and she finds another woman who is equally placed. The two of them would buy this belted device with a frontal pennies protrusion of a dimension that they would feel comfortable with and they would take turns sleeping on each other wearing the belted penis and playing the role of a man. My friend what would you call this? IT IS A LESBIAN RELATIONSHIP. Is it lesbianism from birth? No, it would be lesbianism artificially induced by fear of over-sized penis. It is a lesbian relationship imparted not by birth, but out of fear of oversized penis. The same lesbian relationship could result between two women to whom oversized idiots have imparted big vaginas so that they cannot win male partners, when the oversized and abusive fool has left them as is the modus operandi of these fools. I wish to end this paragraph by further substantiating my claims in the paragraph, with a personal experience. I make my stance on homosexuality and lesbianism well known in any situation, as illustrated in this piece. Recently, I had a casual opportunity to voice out my opinion on this issue in a discussion with some colleagues. The following day, a very beautiful young lady of a different ethnic background, would ask me: “Why should I sleep with somebody and have him rapture my vagina?”. So you see another evidence of how the activity of the oversized idiot drives women away from heterosexual relation and possibly drives them into lesbian relation?





In this paragraph, I will point out how the oversized penis also leads the idiotic male carrier himself into homosexuality. After “destroying” the vagina of the woman so that it is no longer enjoyable to him, this idiot resorts to anal sex on the woman. The make-up of a man’s rectum is identical to that of a woman. Therefore, if the oversized fool would perform anal sex on a woman, he could do the same act on a man. The incidence of anal sex practice supports my long held argument that pedophilia which is prevalent among certain men in USA probably culminates in homosexuality. My argument is that the stench of the under age vagina is a natural protection against sexual abuse by grown up men and it is a barrier that a self-respecting and normal man should not cross. The stench of an underage girl and that of the male rectum are identical, and if a man is an idiot enough to cross one barrier he would certainly cross the other as well. This whole discussion of abuse by the oversized idiot, would best be evidenced and illustrated by a case that took place in Manassas (State of Virginia) a few years ago and it was all over the news in USA. In that incident some oversized and abusive idiot had sex with a young woman and caused her to bleed profusely from her vagina. The wicked idiot then turned the woman over and performed anal sex on her. In retaliation, the woman grabbed a kitchen knife and literally slashed off the penis of the idiot completely from his body which was later attached by surgery. In my opinion, the woman did the right thing. As a second example, there is an abusive and wicked fool who goes around making and starring in porn movies. Probably that is some no good high school drop-out who never took his education serious to earn a decent skill, to earn a living but banked on abuse of women as a safety net. This guy lured a Canadian lady to go to Brazil to star with him, in a porn movie he wanted to make. The account of the horrific ordeal that the guy and his gang of oversized idiots visited on the lady was too much to even view and hear on the TV. According to the lady, this wicked guy drugged her into some body state and had multiple men inserting oversize penises into her mouth, her vagina and her anus simultaneously, and when the effect of the drug went away, she was in a state of pain that she could not endure. Would you like this to be done to your daughter, sister or niece?




In the preceding paragraphs, you have seen how certain practices by abusive and cruel men possibly lead innocent women into lesbian relationships and these practices also lead the men themselves into homosexuality. Some of the things I admire most about the USA include the tough laws against rape and the heavy sentences the laws mete out to rapists. However, in my view these laws must go a few steps further and women’s rights proponents must push for this. When we talk about rape, most people think about a female forced into a sexual act under threat of violence by a male. At least in such instances the woman can put up some resistance and could possibly escape. When an oversized idiot has lured a women into bed and is inflicting mayhem on her, at the moment the idiot has the naked woman in his arms and in bed, the woman has no way of escape. In my view the activity of this abusive oversize idiot is a much worse case of rape. The rape laws must be extended to check these abusive, cruel and uncivilized practices as well. They constitute criminal acts. The cases in Manassas (Virginia) and Brazil which I mentioned earlier and many similar abusive cases, would fall under this category





Enough evidence has been presented in this posting which shows that homosexuality and lesbianism are not inborn but they are learned practices and therefore they can be corrected by counseling in the same way as other acquired negative practices such as illegal drug use and alcoholism are corrected. This posting would hopefully educate the people of Ghana on the cultural, mental and behavioral make up of the foreign homosexual criminal when he is arrested in Ghana for perpetrating unlawful and socially unacceptable acts in the nation. This posting should also help the people of Ghana understand the causes of homosexuality and lesbianism in the world outside Ghana. Although the claims I have made in this posting are based on my observations in the USA, I feel that they may be applicable to the global homosexual and lesbian community at large.

Columnist: Onipa Ba