Hypocrisy Disguised As Patriotism
By Dr. Samuel Adjei Sarfo
The recent announcement by the British Prime Minister, David Cameron that his country will reduce aid to African countries which suppress gay and lesbian rights has generated some furor in Ghana. This article does not focus on the merits or otherwise of Mr. Cameron’s threats to anti-gay countries. Rather, it examines the wisdom in the mass hatred for gays and juxtaposes this phenomenon with the evolving acceptance of gays and lesbians in other countries.
Sodomy laws existed in the State of Texas until the Supreme Court decision in Lawrence v. Texas, 539 U.S. 558, (2003). In this seminal case, the Houston police were dispatched to Lawrence’s apartment in response to a reported weapons disturbance. The officers found two males, Lawrence and Garner, engaged in a sexual act. Lawrence and Garner were charged and convicted under Texas law of “deviate sexual intercourse, namely anal sex, with a member of the same sex.” Lawrence and Garner challenged the statute as a violation of the Equal Protection Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment. The Court of Appeals considered defendants’ federal constitutional arguments under both the Equal Protection and Due Process Clauses of the Fourteenth Amendment. After hearing the case en banc, the court rejected the constitutional arguments of the defendants and affirmed their convictions. The court held that Bowers v. Hardwick was controlling regarding the due process issue. Bowers v. Hardwick, 478 U.S. 186 (1986) is a United States Supreme Court decision that upheld the constitutionality of a Georgia sodomy law criminalizing oral and anal sex in private between consenting adults when applied to homosexuals. The Supreme Court granted certiorari. The issue before the Supreme Court was whether a statute making it a crime for two persons of the same sex to engage in certain intimate sexual conduct violates the Due Process Clause? The Court held that yes, a statute making it a crime for two persons of the same sex to engage in certain intimate sexual conduct violates the Due Process Clause. The Supreme Court, speaking through Justice Kennedy, stated that liberty protects the person from unwarranted government intrusions. Freedom extends beyond spatial bounds. Liberty presumes an autonomy of self that includes freedom of thought, belief, expression, and certain intimate conduct. The defendants were adults and their conduct was in private and consensual and therefore legitimate. Thus seventeen years after Bowers v. Hardwick, the Supreme Court of the United States directly overruled Bowers in Lawrence v. Texas and held that anti-sodomy laws are unconstitutional. In overruling Bowers, the Supreme Court stated that "Bowers was not correct when it was decided, and it is not correct today."
To deal with the gay/lesbian issue without the taint and paint of passion requires a quantum of self-control and discipline. How two same-sex adults can have erotic feelings for each other is something beyond my understanding and that of many others.
But who am I to question the legitimate feelings of others? I came to the USA at age thirty-nine, thinking that I had seen or read all that there was to see and read. I was determined to accept the gay concept in order to feel adequately enlightened, until a seventy-five old man directly hit on me. Then the import of the gay thing also hit me hard; so it actually meant having another person insert his phallus into your posterior region….the thought itself appalled me so much that I was traumatized for days. Beyond this shocking realization, I daily grapple with the question of how necessary it is for anybody to identify themselves by how they have sex, let alone go to the extent of instituting a lifestyle and cultural movement based on sexual orientation. It sounds to me like the Liliputian argument of which side of an egg to crack. But again, who am I to tell others how to have sex? The whole question sounds to me like a voyeur’s indecent intrusion into another’s erotic conduct. Why should I even want to peek into somebody’s window to find out with whom he/she chooses to have sex? It shouldn’t be my business at all, but I see that it is the fixation of others.
Our religion has turned us into hypocrites because instead of making us loving, honest and generous individuals, it has turned us into crass puritans who daily measure the sins of others in order to feel righteous in spite of our own. It is an act of moral grand-standing to finger-point what one personally views as the sins of others; it surely leads to glossing over one's own sins in order for one to have a false sense of one's own righteousness. That is what Pharisees do best. The truly good individual is the one who constantly searches himself or herself for traces of flaws, not the one pointing fingers at others for excuses to hate.
In the matter of gays and lesbians, Ghanaians, who are rarely united over anything, are now united in their hysteria because the gay issue gives them the fodder for uninhibited hatred. The typical Ghanaian bigot appears to have a certain orgasm titillated by raw hatred for the “evil” other. He begins as a hater for someone else not of his ethnic group, then finds a comfort zone against someone else not of his nationality, then graduates to hate someone else not of his color, and finally ends up hating someone else not of his sexual orientation. In one fell swoop, the typical Ghanaian bigot traverses the bounds of ethnocentrism to nationalism to xenophobia to racism and homophobia, while still latching on to the religion that asks him to love all sinners unconditionally. We forget all about our lives as pedophiles, rapists, sadists, adulterers and fornicators in order to focus on the innocuous conduct of the gay and the lesbians. We forget about our lives as religious charlatans and crooks, thieves, cheats, confident tricksters and corrupt politicians and rather hate those whose acts do no harm to us and about whom we know nothing. We bunch together to audit the lifestyles of people of different sexual orientation who we have never met, to demonize them, to ostracize them and to get ready to lynch them. After that, we approach the altar of God like the Pharisee and cry out in self laudation: Thank God we are not like these sinners, for we go to church, pay our tithes and pray every day.” But our mode of worship and most intelligent brainwave are stuck in medieval darkness, defying the current gravity towards progressive thinking.
All over the world, gay and lesbian rights are being recognized. There is a paradigm shift away from anti-sodomy laws as encapsulated in Bowers v. Hardwick towards the better reasoning articulated in Lawrence v. Texas. Liberty protects the person from unwarranted government intrusions. Freedom extends beyond spatial bounds. Liberty presumes an autonomy of self that includes freedom of thought, belief, expression, and certain intimate conduct. The laws on the books in Ghana are therefore archaic, and must be repealed to give full meaning to the privacy laws as enshrined in Lawrence v. Texas.
Furthermore, as somebody has noted elsewhere, there are purely pragmatic reasons to support homosexual conduct: Firstly, with the growing world population likely to make us incapable to feed ourselves, the benefit of homosexual/lesbian relationship that produces no offspring but encourages adoption is worth considering. Secondly, with the number of eligible spinsters outnumbering the eligible bachelors leading to many women being out of viable relationships, what sort of union would our sanctimonious social moderators recommend for the desperate others besides same sex relationship? Thirdly, with many marriages ending in divorce and polygamy eroding from both African and western societies, there are many bachelors and spinsters threatened by solitude. To these, same-sex relationship offers another window of opportunity. The foregoing reasons need not be over-emphasized before anyone could see the benefits of same sex relationship as a pragmatic sexual behavior.
Finally, people should rather be bothered about what they can do right for the country, how honest they are at the work place, how punctual to work, how friendly and hospitable they are to minorities and not how others have sex in the privacy of their bedrooms. That, to me, has no relevance in Ghana's socioeconomic development. Know that hypocrisy disguised as patriotism is never a building block to human progress. Let us stop the hate and live!!!
Samuel Adjei Sarfo, Juris Doctor, lives in Austin Texas. You can email him at sarfoadjei@yahoo.com
