Cheating men still love their wives - Rosalind Umar

At 73, fitness enthusiast Rosalind Umar stands as a living testament to the enduring power of commitment and adaptability in marriage.

Appearing on Nedu Wazobia’s popular Honest Brunch podcast, Rosalind shared heartfelt reflections on her 50-year marital journey, offering listeners a masterclass in navigating the complexities of love and loyalty over time.

“It hasn’t been an easy road,” Rosalind began with a serene smile. “But I’ve learned that understanding your partner and adapting to the realities of marriage is what makes it last.”

During the engaging discussion, Rosalind delved into one of the most sensitive topics in relationships: infidelity. For many, it’s an immediate dealbreaker, but Rosalin’s perspective is grounded in experience and wisdom.

“A younger woman might choose to end her marriage at the first sign of cheating,” she admitted. “But for someone like me, you think deeper. Infidelity doesn’t always mean a man doesn’t love his wife. Sometimes, the reasons go beyond what we see.”

Her story revealed a profound level of self-reflection. Despite her tireless efforts to enhance her marriage—including travelling to master new culinary skills and improving intimacy — Rosalind’s husband still engaged in infidelity.

“I went to great lengths, learning to prepare dishes from different countries because I believed it would strengthen our bond,” she shared. “I worked on every aspect of myself to be a better companion. Yet, those efforts didn’t stop him from straying.”

Rather than dwell on anger or resentment, Rosalind chose to examine herself, seeking to understand whether there were areas in her personality or actions that could be improved.

“Marriage is not about perfection,” she emphasized. “It’s about growth and effort—on both sides.”