Dear GhanaWeb: A woman I had an affair with nearly strangled me to death

Dear GhanaWeb,

I invited a lady over for the first time last week but something happened after we had sex; I got scared and haven’t had the urge to call her again.

She came over for the first time, not to sleep over though. She told me she would return in the evening. I know how important a first impression is, so I decided to use ‘delay spray’ so I could last longer.

We had sex for over an hour. Then she suddenly grabbed my neck so tightly with both hands and froze. She actually froze, like she became very hard and was just shaking while suffocating me.

She became so strong that all my efforts to free myself were fruitless. I struggled to breathe and I kept trying to remove her hands from my neck but she held me so firmly. It felt like I’d been grabbed by a military man.

She couldn’t even see or hear me. I tried and the harder I tried, the weaker I became. I cried and actually regretted inviting a woman over before going blank. I thought I was actually going to die. I was regretting so many things but the woman in me was what I regretted more.

About an hour later, I woke up and saw her sitting next to me all dressed up. She smiled when I woke up and said, “You passed out while I was cumming, or were you cumming too? Was it because I choked you?”

So she actually strangled me so I passed out and called it, “choking”. I felt really bad. I prayed in my head and shed tears of regret before going off. It could have been my last moment on it.

When she left, I asked her what that was and she responded that, “that is how I am when I am cumming, you shouldn’t have let me hold your neck”.

So she blamed me for allowing her to hold my neck when I didn’t know anything like that was going to happen.

Whatever it was, I just thank God so much that I survived. I honestly don’t want to have anything to do with her again. I think it was just a miracle that I made it. I could have been dead.

I feel ending things with her is the best thing. Now that I have a second chance to life, I think I’m just going to focus on developing myself and getting a woman who is responsible to marry.

I’ve blocked her but she’s been texting and calling with other numbers. She doesn’t want to let me go. She shows up at my house uninvited. What should I do to avoid her? I need your advice, please.

FG/EB

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