Dear GhanaWeb: 'He found my chats and is kicking me out'

Dear GhanaWeb,

I’m writing this with so much frustration especially because I have nowhere to go. My husband is kicking me out.

I’m seven months pregnant and I already have two kids. The younger one is 3 and the older one is 5 years old. We have been married for 6 years.

My husband is kicking the kids and me out in this condition just because he went to fix my phone and saw messages between an old friend and I. The messages were old messages, but he wouldn’t understand.

I slept with the guy a few times in an uncompleted building just around where we stay. He stays far away, so I made him come around at night, and then I go and meet him inside the building.

I would have deleted those conversations I had with the guy when we were having those escapades but the phone got spoilt before I could.

It started last year but ended this year after I found out I was pregnant for my husband. My husband says he doesn’t believe the pregnancy and the children we already have are his.

This pregnancy and my children are all for my husband. He said he won’t waste his money on DNA when his wife is promiscuous so we should leave.

He has given us till tomorrow to park out. I could go to my parents or any of my siblings for now but I don’t want anyone to hear of this.

What reason will I then give them that I was coming to them with all our luggage? I have little savings but I can’t rent and this means I’ll have to take care of myself throughout till I deliver so I have to spend wisely.

I have no helper, I’m so devastated. My husband wouldn’t listen to anything I say. I’ve been pleading for him to forgive me, but he said he can’t.

I don’t want anyone who knows us get to get involved in this. But then again, who can help me solve this? I promise that I will never let this happen again.

What should I do for my husband to reconsider his decision? I need your suggestions, please.

FG/AE

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