Dear GhanaWeb: I always fake orgasm for my boyfriend to feel better

Dear GhanaWeb,

I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now. My boyfriend’s manhood is very small. He is very tall and handsome. He’s every woman’s crush until they get in the bedroom.

This guy is a good person, I don’t want to lose him. He has said most of his relationships didn’t work because of it, but I’ve been through a lot at the hands of men.

I’ve done abortions for about 4 men, loaned money to some, and even rented for some, but all those relationships didn’t work.

I don’t want to leave this guy for someone who may later hurt me again. Now I want to settle. It’s not all about sex, I know.

I want to build with this guy. I want to manage what he has, but it’s not enough for me at all. Sometimes I feel nothing, but I just have to make fake moans to make him feel good.

All these times being in a relationship with him, I’ve never reached orgasm during our intercourse. I sometimes pretend and shake my legs and my body for him to think that I’m enjoying it or I’ve reached orgasm, but never.

Please can anyone recommend some effective things or drugs he could use to increase the size? I’ll buy them for him myself as a surprise.

I’m serious about him. I want to stay with him. He’s the man for me, and I want to do this without even missing anyone from my past or wanting to cheat on him.

He’s doing well for himself, and he’s a provider, but many ladies took advantage of him. They just spend his money and go away. I want to stay and make him feel enough without ever making him feel insecure.

I’m 29 and I’m growing. He has started discussing marriage already, so I honestly don’t want to break him or disappoint him. I love him deeply, and so far, that’s the only problem I have in the relationship.

I want to get a solution for him so that we will both be happy. How should I go about this? Will he be happy if I help? What should I do now?

FG/EB

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