Dear GhanaWeb: My boyfriend can’t say no to me

Dear GhanaWeb,

I know every lady desires to be with a man who will do her bidding but I feel weird with how my boyfriend says yes to every demand I make.

At the beginning of the relationship, I saw it as romantic because it depicted how my man was madly in love with me.

But as time goes by, I see his actions as weird.

He has never said no to any request I have presented to him. As a result of that, I deliberately decided to make a request, which I thought would be difficult for him to grant, but he said yes and further asked for details.

When Salma Mumin was trending some time ago because she announced the arrival of her new baby (a car), my boyfriend was around, and I intentionally showed the post to him.

After he had viewed the post, I told him if I got the same car but in a different colour, I would be happy.

He looked at me and asked what colour I wanted. He continued that he would ask his friend if he had that car type and promised to buy it for me by September.

I was in awe when he said that, and since that day, I have been having mixed feelings. I do enjoy the pampering, but I feel it's too extreme.

It’s troubling that he can’t hold his ground and say no to me.

Is there any way I can change him?

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