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Dear GhanaWeb,
I am 45. I met a lovely man that has all the qualities I like, and I had sex with him, but it was a huge letdown.
No foreplay, no buildup. He basically just mounted me. Yes, he was probably nervous and anxious, but when I addressed this with him, he was clueless about what I was talking about.
He didn’t own it at all. If he said this one more time “This had never happened to me before,” I was going to lose it.
That was a deal-breaker for me. Am I being too picky at my age? I have no interest in teaching an older man how to make love.
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