LIFESTYLE: ‘Who comes first, mom or wife?’

The age-old debate of who should be the priority, mother or wife has reared its head once again.

A Twitter user posted a question to whomever willing to answer concerning his wife and mother.

Apparently, his partner was upset as she felt neglected because he prioritized his mother’s needs over hers.

So, in this case, who is right? Let’s examine your thoughts, leave them in the comments section.

Read some reactions on Twitter here:

Water y’alls thoughts on this? I’m curious???????? pic.twitter.com/MDc5pr2f3s

— Snow Black Cindy (@Ebony_QT) April 23, 2018

This is correct. My wife comes first. My mom has a man.... my father. I can do what I can but after my wife is taken care of.

— the guy from the work husband meme. ???? (@GawdBodyHooper) April 23, 2018

This is correct. My wife comes first. My mom has a man.... my father. I can do what I can but after my wife is taken care of.

— the guy from the work husband meme. ???? (@GawdBodyHooper) April 23, 2018

Yes. All of the yes.

— Snow Black Cindy (@Ebony_QT) April 23, 2018

well... average marriage last around 8 years sooooo if y’all think ima put my “wife” before my moma when she gone end up fucking some other nigga and taking half my shit... shuuu id rather invest in a cat my guy

— jæmš (@momojamesv) April 23, 2018

lol . that’s called insecurity hun .. but with your mindset , i’m sure you’ll never even have a wife to choose between so its fine .

— mikey (@mikeytheangel_) April 23, 2018

insecurity?? lmaoo nahh ima get married my g. when i’m financially set and she sign that prenup ????

— jæmš (@momojamesv) April 23, 2018

Who goes into a marriage expecting it to fail??? Lmao

— Tiffany Meeseeks (@tiff_thegiraffe) April 23, 2018

1a. Wife
1b. Momma

Mom’s will never be “number 2” but she doesn’t hold the top spot either

— ???? (@LxnWolf) April 23, 2018

I think this topic old. Shake it up and ask the wives who they put first

— Anyone But You, Roman? (@KingBinaca) April 23, 2018

My husband. Period. Not a second guess to it.

— ?? (@Ray_Oshun) April 23, 2018

Wife first. The family you choose should come before the one that you was birthed in, that's the one you're held accountable for. Any parent with intelligence will teach their children the same, take care of your home first.
Everything else should be done with reason and context

— Sith Lord Moor (@dirtymikell) April 23, 2018

my mom always taught me that ur spouse comes first but idc…My moms gone come first forever !!! I can get a new spouse, I can't get a new mom.

— ?pinky tuscadero???????? (@gypsysxvl) April 23, 2018

But dont go in with a corrupt mindset

— Jadé ????? (@GlossyQueenJ) April 24, 2018

Question... would y’all have this same energy if your dad put your step mom first when you’re a child??

— Big Daddy Fat Stacks (@KalinBuggs) April 23, 2018

It depends on the situation yo. You just can't broadly say one comes before another and that's it. There's different circumstances that comes into play when choosing sides if need be

— big dawg (@_blarence) April 24, 2018

I found the one person in the comments with common sense!

This whole “first” business is nonsense. The person who has the deepest need at the time comes first. Any non selfish should understand this regardless of their title in your life.

— Ki ?????? (@LowKiLux) April 24, 2018

Y’all women disagreeing with this be the same ones complaining about your man being too much of a mamas boy. Make up your mind ???????????????

— ??????????????? (@Brandi_ayanna) April 24, 2018