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No matter how holy or anointed you are as a man, if you descend low to sleep with a prostitute, you are as worse as a prostitute. You are not better off. If you are ready to sleep with a woman who slept with a thousand men, you are as bad as her. You just equalized her record.
Many at times when men meet ladies, they are inquisitive to find out if they are virgins or not, and once they realize she is not, most men are tempted to also have their share of what they call the universal cake. And when such relationships come to an end on a bad note, the men especially are quick to call these ladies names such as "a whore". Well in case you don't know you just degraded your status to that of hers.
A good woman is not defined as a woman with no past sexual records or a virgin. As long as premarital sex is a sin, a lot fall for this temptation when they mistaken lust for love. Others do that out of curiosity, whilst some do so because of peer pressure. But whatever the case is, this is something between them and their Maker.
Even the bible says in 1 John 1:9 (TLB) "But if we confess our sins to him, he can be depended on to forgive us and to cleanse us from every wrong. And it is perfectly proper for God to do this for us because Christ died to wash away our sins".
If you are a man and you find a woman you are interested in and want to marry, but not sure if she has a disease due to her past sexual life, or you are not sure if you will enjoy sex with her when you get married to her, please take her to the hospital. There are trained professionals who will examine her. But don't use her as an experiment.
Young woman with past record of sexual activities, it's not too late to become a better person; ask God for forgiveness and desist from such acts. Become a secondary virgin; make a vow not to have sex with any man again till your wedding night with your husband. Don't be in a hurry to give yourself as a test case for experiments. Be patient, for everything comes to you in the right moment. Strive hard to keep yourself free from needless relationships.
If a man is serious with you, sex is not a proof; your past is not what he is interested in but how to build the future with you. Listen to God, depend on Him. Every other thing a man gives you will come to nothing, every other thing you try on your own will fail. Let God guide you for He is faithful whilst man is unfaithful. Put God first and you will never be last. He will make a way when there seems to be none.
Be with someone who is proud you are in their life, and be careful of the choices you make for a life partner, else in the end your choices will unmake you. And no matter the situation you find yourself in, never let your emotion overtake your intelligence.
In conclusion "And don’t you know that if a man joins himself to a prostitute she becomes a part of him and he becomes a part of her? For God tells us in the Scripture that in his sight the two become one person" - 1 Corinthians 6:16 (TLB).
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