Lifestyle: Best sizzling foreplay games to get the night rolling

If you want to have a sex-filled night but aren’t sure where to start, these naughty foreplay games get things moving in the right direction.

If there’s one thing that makes the biggest difference in your sex, it is the foreplay. Foreplay has such a huge importance that skipping it means the difference between finishing or falling short at the end of the night. And foreplay games also help make sex all the more satisfying and fun.

However, some couples have a difficult time really getting into foreplay and can be completely clueless as to what to do in order to get all geared up for sex. Lucky for them, we have just what they need to make the most of their night by playing different foreplay games.

Why is foreplay so important?

Some people—mostly guys—have a hard time understanding why foreplay is actually so important in a healthy sex life. The truth is, it’s not just about pleasing each other and making sure you’re both ready for sex. It’s so much more than that.

It’s about getting in the right mindset. It’s about ditching the distractions and finding a special connection with your significant other before opening yourselves up to sex. It also helps relax women and get their pleasure started, so they’re more likely to finish during actual intercourse. [Read: 10 really fun sex games to play with your boyfriend in bed]

Different foreplay games that get your night rolling

Even though many people know the importance of foreplay, they still have a hard time actually doing it. They make excuses about it being time-consuming and even that it “doesn’t do anything” for their big event.

Foreplay is so important that you should dedicate an entire night to foreplay—and, of course, sex afterwards. In order to reawaken the foreplay god or goddess in you and get your night moving in the right direction, play these fun foreplay games.

#1 Strip poker. This game is a classic but still ridiculously fun. As long as you know how to play poker and are capable of removing your clothes, you can play. The object of the game is to win, so your partner ends up completely naked.

Trust me, after spending a long time watching your partner slowly get naked you’ll be ready for sex in no time. Add a naughtier element by making a wager on whoever wins or loses. The loser has to do whatever the winner wants to them without protest. [Read: 20 things that are best done naked at home]

#2 First one to break. I enjoy playing this game because it’s one you might not even realize you play on a regular basis. Most of mine and my boyfriend’s foreplay is this game except we never usually make a wager.

All you have to do for this game is take turns pleasing each other. The first person to ask for sex is the loser. There’s really only a few rules to play this game fairly. First, your underwear has to stay on and second, no oral. Whoever begs for oral or sex first is the loser.

#3 Role playing. I’m sure you all have a certain fantasy that immediately comes to mind when you see the words role playing. Personally, I always think about a professor and his naughty student. Whichever fantasy you and your partner choose works perfectly for this game.

The object of this role playing game is to NEVER break character. If you’re a sexy nurse and you have to “treat” your injured “patient,” then you never for a minute revert back to your true self. If you do, you lose the game. Whoever wins picks any position they want for the sex, even if it’s something you two have never tried before. [Read: 12 arousing sex fantasies to try in real life]

#4 Time bomb. This foreplay game is specifically designed to make sure you don’t skip right to sex the second you get horny. Set a timer for, let’s say, 20 minutes. Next, the two of you do whatever you want to the other person with the goal of making them actually climax within that 20-minute time frame.

This game is especially useful for when you want to make an entire evening of getting down and naughty with your significant other. It’s all about pure pleasure and gearing you up for sex by making sure the foreplay actually happens beforehand.

#5 Massage oil madness. This is one of my favorite foreplay games there is. First, lay a couple towels on the bed or couch or wherever it is you want to get frisky at. Next, get some delicious smelling oils and lube each other up really well.

Now, massage each other anywhere you want, except each other’s genitals. You can massage around them but never touching them. This is a perfect way to relax you both and create anticipation for sex that will make for a mind blowing romp in the sheets. [Read: How to give a good sensual massage and work your magic]

#6 Naked Twister. I’m sure you’ve all heard of the game Twister. But just in case you haven’t, I’ll explain the rules of the game. One person spins a dial pointing to a color and says which hand or foot you have to use. Then you have to touch that body part to whichever color is selected.

This is not only a fun game to play, but when you do it naked you end up intertwined with your bare body parts pressed up against each other. If this doesn’t turn the two of you on, I don’t know what will. You can also make a wager for whoever wins or loses. [Read: The sexiest texting games you can play to have fun all night long]

#7 Kinky cards. This game gets rather complicated, but it’s also REALLY fun. Use a whole deck or limit the deck to only a few cards of each suit. Next, make a list of all the number and suits and write descriptions.

Each suit will be a different means of touching your partner. You can label these as hands, lips, tongue, etc. Each number in the suit will be a different body part. So when your partner draws a card they have to either touch, lick, or kiss you on whatever body part the number of that suit says to. [Read: Freaky sex: 15 freaky things you can easily try together]

#8 Sexy truth or dare. Truth or dare is always fun, but it’s even more fun when you get to play with just your partner. If they say truth, ask them about all of their dirty fantasies bound to make them get all hot and horny.

But if they choose dare, you have the ability to make them do whatever you want them to do to you. This game gets risky, but it can also bring the two of you closer together as a couple.

#9 Sexy Simon says. This is another game that is really fun for me. Someone gets to be Simon and their job is to tell their partner what to do to them. For example, you can say, “Simon says, kiss my neck,” “Simon says, lick my nipple,” etc. Whoever is the first person to lose and do something without hearing the magic, “Simon says,” has to give the other person a long, sexy massage. [Read: 10 naughty sex games for couples to feel horny again]

#10 Utter silence. The object of this foreplay game is rather simple. One of you lies blindfolded on a bed while the other is allowed to spend 10 minutes doing whatever they want to you. Set a timer in order for this to be fair because there’s a catch.

The person who is blindfolded isn’t allowed to make any noise. The person who does fun and sexy things to them has to spend their 10 minutes trying to get their blindfolded partner to moan or make a sound of pleasure. Whoever goes the longest without making a peep gets dessert fed to them—or anything else the two of you agree on.

Foreplay is a really fun part of sex. You get to experiment, see what turns on the other person, and just gear up for the main event. And these foreplay games are perfect to make time for foreplay and live in the moment.