Lifestyle: Women only choose successful men - Counselor Adofoli

There is nothing like “behind every successful man is a woman”. This is one false statement people have believed in ages. The truth is women only go for men who are successful. It is only girls who go for boys who are not successful and try to make him successful overnight, then end up in disappointment.

Women are naturally helpers, God said, “It’s not good for the Man to be alone; I’ll make him a helper, a companion.” - Genesis 2:18 (MSG). That's how they are created, a woman can only help a man who has something, and that man is a man who is successful. What the man has might be invisible but the woman sees it as visible. It might just be a seed but the woman sees a harvest and this is why she will agree to marry him. The man might have only a vision yet the woman sees the end product.

A woman cannot help a man with no vision; a man who is good at doing nothing; no matter how she much resource she wastes on such a boy, he will never become what she wants. No wonder many women cry over helping a man to become successful and such men left them for another woman. Such man was never with you from day one. Someone who saw him as successful came for him.

When a woman finds a successful man, she multiplies everything he gives her. If he gives her a word, she will give back a sentence; if he gives her a sentence, she will give back a paragraph, if he gives her a paragraph, she will give back a book; if he gives her a dime, she will give back a meal, if he gives her a house, she will give back a home, if he gives her a sperm, she will give back a baby and if he gives her trouble, she will give back a hell. Women are powerful helpers. They never give you back in the same quantity they received.

It is true you always see women with successful men but the truth is, they didn't make the man successful, rather they only choose men who are successful.

Women are natural followers; they need a man who is an initiator, who takes the steps so they can follow. Women don't want to follow a fool. They are too smart for that; they don't want to get lost. They want the one who can see far and take decisions about the future, one who is planning ahead of time.

Women want to be provided for; they want a man who is sensitive to them and their needs, such as paying the bills, ensuring they are safe and protected. She wants a man she can call her hero. And that man can only be a successful man.

The success of a man depends on God. A man needs God to be successful, not a woman. Take God out of a man's life and see how a woman can help him become successful. Can the woman give man life? If that were possible widows will bring back their dead husbands.

No woman knows the purpose of a man. A man in the presence of God knows his purpose. That's why you need God in every single moment of your life as a man. That's why you have to lead your wife to God. A lost man can never lead his wife to God.

An unsuccessful man cannot pay for the bride price of a woman; he doesn't know the worth and value of a woman. If he is successful, he sees the value of the woman and can lay down his life for her.

In conclusion "For a husband is in charge of his wife in the same way Christ is in charge of his body the Church. (He gave his very life to take care of it and be its Savior!" - Ephesians 5:23 (TLB).

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