Selly’s 'fornication'…God must be left out - Fan

We read a recent article wherein Selorm Galley a.k.a. Selly was quoted as, “Since my return, I have been praying to God to intervene and to restore my damaged image but in God’s own way, He vindicated me. Even before Nando was expelled, I was talked out by the organisers of Big Brother not to pursue any legal case against him and I wondered how I could clear my name and restore my damaged image but God had his own plans for me. That may have been Nando’s game plan to get me out as a strong contender but God who knows best did not put me to shame”.

From our end, we have pondered on her repetitive usage of Deity as playing a key role in the Big Brother Africa activities with regards to her sexual involvement with Nando and the subsequent outcome; hence since she has decided to employ the most High in a frivolous matter, we have decided to set the record straight for her.


We have spoken to many people on this subject especially those who do not like the Big Brother Africa concept. Many feel that it is a devilish tool where immorality is exhibited like the days of Sodom and Gomorrah.


We remember speaking to Selly's mother on the day her daughter met the press and she revealed to us (which we have on records) that she was thinking at a point when her daughter was in the house that she was possessed of evil spirit. That the things she was seeing her do was amazing to her. We then wonder the thoughts of other parents who equally watch their children unleash their manhood and sacred body before the global audience.


This is entertainment but we shall implore sometimes a spiritual undertone since our beloved Selly acknowledged God in this kind of wickedness or call it immorality as the case may be.


Selly may claim whatever she likes, she can use any social terminology but if truly she believes in God, then what transpired between her and Nando should be given her biblical interpretation, which is ‘fornication.’ If she was married to Praye, then she committed ‘adultery.’ Now if she is sexually involved with Praye outside marriage, then she is also committing ‘fornication.’


God is not a respecter of persons but when you are chaste, He uses you for good purposes, of which in the case of Selly's act in the BBA, and it is more grievous than the case of DKB because God delights in the chastity of women. Usually it is difficult to judge a case of immorality done in secret since most intercourse requires privacy but in the Big Brother House, immorality is magnified, hence transferring judgment from above to beneath.

Another evidence that Selly does not understand the operations of God and may still be under the presumed influence of evil spirit as revealed by the mother is the heart of vengeance manifested in her statement below:


“I will never forgive Nando for not only embarrassing me but my family, country and boyfriend who has suffered all the backlash and humiliations all this while. He has really caused harm to my reputation and what he did is just unpardonable.”


One who loves God will show it by obeying His commandments, if not the person will only be serving a different Master. It is a requirement for us to obtain forgiveness from heaven to forgive others who sinned against us on earth. Stating emphatically that she will never forgive Nando indicates her position as opposing the will of God whom she claims vindicated her.


Finally, it is very sad for Selly not to pray for forgiveness for her wicked sin of fornication but that God should restore her damaged image. Her pride was more important than pleasing her Father in heaven. Hence we doubt that God played any role in her entire story.


Selly must acknowledge her sins before her Maker, and instead of transferring to Nando the responsibility of causing her, family, country, and boyfriend embarrassment should take it upon herself. Then wisely forgive Nando, and in the name of the redeemer ask that her burdens be lifted and she will be made whole.