Your partner is not there to complete you, work on yourself first - MsTooknow

A panelist on Ghanaweb TV’s Moans and Cuddles has advised that people should be self-fulfilled first before they enter any relationship of any kind, especially long distance relationship.

MsTooknow says she finds it difficult to understand why people go into relationships hoping to feel accomplished by the other person.

According to her, people usually go into relationships to add on to what the other person is, not to complete them.

For her, because most people do not find fulfillment in themselves, but rely on their partners, it becomes difficult for the other person to please them, because they have a yardstick with which they rate their partners.

‘’I always say this everywhere that nobody is responsible for your happiness but you, that’s why you don’t get into a relationship hoping that the person will come and complete you, you have to be complete yourself , so when he is coming, he is coming to add on. When he/she leaves, you are still left with what you had, you are hundred percent, nothing is missing, you better go and get a shrink to sort you out, because when you do that no matter what the person does for you, you will always find fault because you are not whole’’, she said

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