Dear GhanaWeb: My 'friends with benefits' partner wants me to leave my fiancé

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Teddy 7 months ago

Why would you leave your boyfriend who has proposed to you for a player who is interested in the sex he is getting from you and wants to continue. Be wise and stay with your dedicated boyfriend. This guy is not good for your ...
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Why would you leave your boyfriend who has proposed to you for a player who is interested in the sex he is getting from you and wants to continue. Be wise and stay with your dedicated boyfriend. This guy is not good for your future. He will leave you for another woman.
Kojo Yankee 7 months ago

Friends With Benefits, slay queens lingo translated “ whoever I sell my Toto to!”.

Friends With Benefits, slay queens lingo translated “ whoever I sell my Toto to!”.
BE_FAITHFUL 7 months ago

You're simply an idiot. One way or the other, you'd eventually lose both. That's the price you'd pay for not faithfully treating your partner with the same honesty, truth, and faithfulness he's given you over the past 3 years ...
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You're simply an idiot. One way or the other, you'd eventually lose both. That's the price you'd pay for not faithfully treating your partner with the same honesty, truth, and faithfulness he's given you over the past 3 years. Go ahead and have a child with him. YOU IDIOT BRINGING NONSENSE TO OUR DOORSTEP.
The Spear 7 months ago

Idiot? She's the height of evil, she's satan incarnate! She talked about someone who treated her with love and respect over the years and went ahead cheating on him for all that period...What a scumbag!

Men never learn. I ...
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Idiot? She's the height of evil, she's satan incarnate! She talked about someone who treated her with love and respect over the years and went ahead cheating on him for all that period...What a scumbag!

Men never learn. I hope reading these would open the eyes of men so they'd not believe the "humblest" lady they're in relationship with. Who knows, she may be a witch like this trash.

This is not fake, these things happen in real life.
Nana marfo 7 months ago

Here we go sit there n fool over a simple decision u are thinking of a sex addict over yr life n future of kids up to you

Here we go sit there n fool over a simple decision u are thinking of a sex addict over yr life n future of kids up to you
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Kaybee 7 months ago

The fact that you're having these thoughts tells me you're not serious with your life. Why do you want to leave your fiancé for an idiot who only sees you as a sex toy and is only professing his love now that you're engaged. ...
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The fact that you're having these thoughts tells me you're not serious with your life. Why do you want to leave your fiancé for an idiot who only sees you as a sex toy and is only professing his love now that you're engaged. He's saying that because he knows that he'll not get free sex when you get married
fori 7 months ago

those insulting her, don't fully understand her dilemma. she loves the second guy more than the fiancé, and fears going into a marriage with someone she doesn't love. she fears divorce and to avoid it, she wants to know if s ...
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those insulting her, don't fully understand her dilemma. she loves the second guy more than the fiancé, and fears going into a marriage with someone she doesn't love. she fears divorce and to avoid it, she wants to know if she should breakup with the fiancé now.
best advise is for her to wait it out, and ask the second guy to show more seriousness about marriage. he should start by breaking up with her other girlfriend, develop a timeline for marriage and commit to it
Nana 7 months ago

You are not matured at all, imagine she is your sister of ripe age and one guy is chopping her rough without any future plans and commitment and another who is more family oriented. At times in life its not about love but the ...
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You are not matured at all, imagine she is your sister of ripe age and one guy is chopping her rough without any future plans and commitment and another who is more family oriented. At times in life its not about love but the future and the necessary thing to do.
The Spear 7 months ago

Who forced her in the relationship with the guy who wants to marry her? She doesn't simply know what she wants. She's the kind of person who thinks it's possible both eating something and having it.

IN the end, She doesn' ...
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Who forced her in the relationship with the guy who wants to marry her? She doesn't simply know what she wants. She's the kind of person who thinks it's possible both eating something and having it.

IN the end, She doesn't even merit the person who wants to marry her, and I pray she leaves to marry the lustful guy taking a hit on her secretly.

Actions have consequences, and she's in for a nice one. If you hurt someone secretly, the laws of the Universe will still get back at you at the appropriate time.

Bismark 7 months ago

My dear please be serious for once. Someone has good intentions for you and has even proposed while you prepare for your wedding, why will you risk it for the later? Personally I don't think that friend with benefit guy has a ...
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My dear please be serious for once. Someone has good intentions for you and has even proposed while you prepare for your wedding, why will you risk it for the later? Personally I don't think that friend with benefit guy has any good intentions for you 'çause why will he wait till he knows you're getting married before telling you this shit? While he continued having sex with you all these while. If you ask me I'll say you should cut ties with him, the one who wants to marry you loves you more and that's more important.
Prof 7 months ago

@Bismarck, NO!
The man ready for marriage deserves better than such a useless and a cheap slut! She should stick to the one who has been chopping her for 3 years without any plan, they both deserve each other!
Hahaha, I c ...
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@Bismarck, NO!
The man ready for marriage deserves better than such a useless and a cheap slut! She should stick to the one who has been chopping her for 3 years without any plan, they both deserve each other!
Hahaha, I can't think far oo!
Yao 7 months ago

What you want to do though will be painful to your serious boyfriend, is actually the right thing to do because seriously, you don't deserve a man like him. That guy deserves a woman of integrity, a wise, God fearing, princip ...
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What you want to do though will be painful to your serious boyfriend, is actually the right thing to do because seriously, you don't deserve a man like him. That guy deserves a woman of integrity, a wise, God fearing, principled, classy and descent woman with good morals. You are nowhere near any of this. You and your friend with benefits perfectly deserve each other. Please hurry up and leave your serious boyfriend and if you don't, trust me karma will expose and pay you back so your serious boyfriend won't innocently marry you and mess up his life. There is a living God and don't think you can get away with this if you go ahead to marry your serious boyfriend whiles having an affair with your friend.
Od 7 months ago

Don't waste our ears with your stupidity and idiocy, abaa u no know sey u fool pass turkey

Don't waste our ears with your stupidity and idiocy, abaa u no know sey u fool pass turkey
Ghana 7 months ago

There nothing like boyfriend.. The sin you get for sleeping with your boyfriend is the same sin you get sleeping with any person.. So marry n stop the fornication..

There nothing like boyfriend.. The sin you get for sleeping with your boyfriend is the same sin you get sleeping with any person.. So marry n stop the fornication..
Charles oppong 7 months ago

Quit with ur friends with benefits fast,& Sit ur fiancee down & honestly tell him ur story abt d other guy,if he truley loves u he "ll understand u,otherwise that guy "ll blackmail u whn u get marriage with ur fiancee.all d b ...
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Quit with ur friends with benefits fast,& Sit ur fiancee down & honestly tell him ur story abt d other guy,if he truley loves u he "ll understand u,otherwise that guy "ll blackmail u whn u get marriage with ur fiancee.all d best
Frisky Beero 7 months ago

Don’t leave your current boyfriend for him. He will never trust you knowing how you cheated on your partner while you are still with him. I would suggest you cut all ties with him and give yourself to Christ.

Don’t leave your current boyfriend for him. He will never trust you knowing how you cheated on your partner while you are still with him. I would suggest you cut all ties with him and give yourself to Christ.
Clement 7 months ago

You will lose both soon for your unfaithfulness.

You will lose both soon for your unfaithfulness.
Kwaku 7 months ago

Confirming what I have been told about women.
I am told that what you are holding on to is the most important thing for women.
To us who strive to be decent, very unfortunate and regrettable indeed.

Confirming what I have been told about women.
I am told that what you are holding on to is the most important thing for women.
To us who strive to be decent, very unfortunate and regrettable indeed.
kukua 7 months ago

is this is real, all she needs is some good slaps to help shift her brain back to its right position

is this is real, all she needs is some good slaps to help shift her brain back to its right position

Kofi 7 months ago

Idiot

Idiot
King B 7 months ago

It's amazing how low valued we've suddenly become .
May God show us mercy
Eiii!!

I only pray for your sincere bf to just pray hard so God reveals it to him who you really are..Cos I just feel for him cos he's going to b ...
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It's amazing how low valued we've suddenly become .
May God show us mercy
Eiii!!

I only pray for your sincere bf to just pray hard so God reveals it to him who you really are..Cos I just feel for him cos he's going to be utterly destroyed when he finds out.And then unfortunately,if care is not taken he also becomes very hardened and pass on the same treatment to an innocent girl and boom the cycle continues.

Your seeds would follow you trust me.
To be able to sleep with someone for three years whilst in a relationship and be able to look into your bf eyes is very scary.
What have we youth become!!?
What do we really want in this life
Sigh may God help this generation.
You are idiot, Be wise, Don't be a stupid fool 7 months ago

That guy does not love you
Be wise

That guy does not love you
Be wise
Nabila 7 months ago

You are the devil that they have been talking about. Please kindly leave the poor and innocent man alone, for you certainly don't deserve him at all. What do girls want at all in this life? This is disgusting!

You are the devil that they have been talking about. Please kindly leave the poor and innocent man alone, for you certainly don't deserve him at all. What do girls want at all in this life? This is disgusting!
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Eli 7 months ago

Please break of the relationship. You fiancé does not deserve a cheating woman like. He'll be miserable marrying you.

Please break of the relationship. You fiancé does not deserve a cheating woman like. He'll be miserable marrying you.
Eli 7 months ago

Please break off the relationship. Your fiancé does not deserve a cheating woman like you . He'll be miserable marrying you.

Please break off the relationship. Your fiancé does not deserve a cheating woman like you . He'll be miserable marrying you.
Bright 7 months ago

Is only a fool who will think of leaving a serious and loving guy for a stupid and wayward guy who can only offer sex.
Will u be happy if your serious boyfriend decides to leave you for stupid girl? Only fools will ask for ...
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Is only a fool who will think of leaving a serious and loving guy for a stupid and wayward guy who can only offer sex.
Will u be happy if your serious boyfriend decides to leave you for stupid girl? Only fools will ask for advice in such situations
Kernel 7 months ago

Why Settle For Less When You Can Have The Best. Don't Be a Fool.

Why Settle For Less When You Can Have The Best. Don't Be a Fool.
Nana Poku 7 months ago

The jezeb you are...You are asking us to be a part of this diabolic and shameful acts of yours,that doesn't merit logical pr emotional sense.....YOU ARE SHAMELESS girl....REPENT WAII

The jezeb you are...You are asking us to be a part of this diabolic and shameful acts of yours,that doesn't merit logical pr emotional sense.....YOU ARE SHAMELESS girl....REPENT WAII

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GENERAL BUTT NAKED 7 months ago

Please don't try it at all, steak with love you, this so call friend of benefit is not real, am a man I know what am saying, the way some of you the lady's play we the men so we the men also sometimes play the lady's aswel ...
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Please don't try it at all, steak with love you, this so call friend of benefit is not real, am a man I know what am saying, the way some of you the lady's play we the men so we the men also sometimes play the lady's aswell
Abi 7 months ago

Sis leave the one with benefits and stick to the one who loves you.change ur job and you will forget about him then u will concentrate on building ur love for life.if he love you he should have proposed first.

Sis leave the one with benefits and stick to the one who loves you.change ur job and you will forget about him then u will concentrate on building ur love for life.if he love you he should have proposed first.
Patrick 7 months ago

Leave him ,no better advise than this ,don't ask for explanation, concrete advise we, Don't advise a fool so that you would be like him or her

Leave him ,no better advise than this ,don't ask for explanation, concrete advise we, Don't advise a fool so that you would be like him or her
chief vandal 7 months ago

go to hell

go to hell
Sirsey 7 months ago

Some women, you can understand them. Simple, go drink acid to end it all.

Some women, you can understand them. Simple, go drink acid to end it all.
U Can't Complain 7 months ago

"Friends - with - benefits", you see how you have given your foolish unfaithful lust a good name just to make it attractive, you will get married and you will start disturbing your husband. I pity the one who will marry you.

"Friends - with - benefits", you see how you have given your foolish unfaithful lust a good name just to make it attractive, you will get married and you will start disturbing your husband. I pity the one who will marry you.
Joe Dude 7 months ago

Ghanaweb, are these really true stories or just made up stories?

Ghanaweb, are these really true stories or just made up stories?
Tommy 7 months ago

You are going to break his heart either way, so Please do the guy a favor and break his heart now, than later. He can survive it now, but he may not survive it later on in life. Thank you Evil Lady.

You are going to break his heart either way, so Please do the guy a favor and break his heart now, than later. He can survive it now, but he may not survive it later on in life. Thank you Evil Lady.
Mensah Patrick 7 months ago

I pray you lose both of them, because the good Lord won't allow his son(your boyfriend if only he is faithful man)to settle with a prostitute. You are a Harlot a big one of cause!!

I pray you lose both of them, because the good Lord won't allow his son(your boyfriend if only he is faithful man)to settle with a prostitute. You are a Harlot a big one of cause!!
Foolish girl 7 months ago

Foolish girl did u ask our opinion wen u were going have sec with him. U dont think enough. I wish i know ur serious boy then the day u wil get married that day he wil divorce u

Foolish girl did u ask our opinion wen u were going have sec with him. U dont think enough. I wish i know ur serious boy then the day u wil get married that day he wil divorce u
Gideon 7 months ago

I would advise u to staywith ur boyfriend

I would advise u to staywith ur boyfriend
kk 7 months ago

U ARE SUCH A FOOL THINK OK

U ARE SUCH A FOOL THINK OK
Livingstone 7 months ago

These are the exact type of women we have in this world now oo!
You have a man in your life working very hard to marry you. H has investd his time and energy in you only to realize that you are having sex with another man se ...
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These are the exact type of women we have in this world now oo!
You have a man in your life working very hard to marry you. H has investd his time and energy in you only to realize that you are having sex with another man secretly aside him. If another lady does that to you or your son, would you also like that? They should both be having sex with you extensively. You don't deserve marriage, for the the marriage is a respect given to women of value. Not to women of no value and vague identity. Marriage is not for women who enjoy life up-down, left-right. You have forfeited the respect in marriage. Continue your journey to the end of life.
Hmm 7 months ago

So all this years at the university and work of experience in life you never get smart

So all this years at the university and work of experience in life you never get smart
Hannan 7 months ago

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Havoc 7 months ago

You are a deceitful greedy ungodly fool. You will lose both and suffer for your dishonesty and stupidity. Greed is the root of all evil!
99.99% of Ghanaian women are in this double game, the only difference is most are sugar ...
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You are a deceitful greedy ungodly fool. You will lose both and suffer for your dishonesty and stupidity. Greed is the root of all evil!
99.99% of Ghanaian women are in this double game, the only difference is most are sugar daddy and an innocent young man who has no idea he is living with and marrying a devil.
T K Debrah 7 months ago

Don’t leave your fiancé. If your friend with benefits is serious, he should leave his girlfriend first. You should cut contact with your friend with benefits, because it will only end up with you in disgrace and ruin.
If ...
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Don’t leave your fiancé. If your friend with benefits is serious, he should leave his girlfriend first. You should cut contact with your friend with benefits, because it will only end up with you in disgrace and ruin.
If he genuinely loves you, for 3 years he would have told you so before you got engaged.
Sefah 7 months ago

Daughter of Jezebel

Daughter of Jezebel
Ghinstigator 7 months ago

Honestly, you're a f***ing piece of s***. You're nothing but a slut & a whore. This proves that women in general don't like men that are responsible, stable & treat them well. Women cheat on men like this all the time for men ...
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Honestly, you're a f***ing piece of s***. You're nothing but a slut & a whore. This proves that women in general don't like men that are responsible, stable & treat them well. Women cheat on men like this all the time for men that treat them like sex objects. Break up with your boyfriend so that he can find a better woman who won't open her legs anyhow & actually be faithful to him.
Silly woman. Commot for there.
Joe 7 months ago

No my dear don't make a full of yourself. His love for you is conditional.

No my dear don't make a full of yourself. His love for you is conditional.
Joe 7 months ago

No my dear don't make a fool of yourself. His love for you is conditional.

No my dear don't make a fool of yourself. His love for you is conditional.

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