Marriage dimmed my vision; take precautions - Esther Smith advises Delay

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New order 1 week ago

When you dry up at old age then you will remember how silly you sound

When you dry up at old age then you will remember how silly you sound
prophet mohammed was a sick dog 1 week ago

Say no to islam and convert to a real religion.
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Say no to islam and convert to a real religion.
Allah is satanic scum and qur'an is toilet paper. Search online for ways to move away from evil islam.........You can join ex-muslim groups online and be safe............You are not alone...........Burn the qur'an and kill muslims.
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Akiti 6 days ago

Just you wait small. With this her posture, her life will be even more miserable than what she has gone through already. Women like this, never ever learn. First of all, they get involved with the wrong type of men for the wr ...
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Just you wait small. With this her posture, her life will be even more miserable than what she has gone through already. Women like this, never ever learn. First of all, they get involved with the wrong type of men for the wrong silly reasons such as wealthy or tall men. Then when they belatedly realize their foolish mistake, they then begin to blame the shortcomings of the man for a rocky marriage. A woman who has not been brought up to be enlightened or intelligent enough to figure out the right kind of man to settle down with, will always suffer this kind of marriage-crash. This goes for men as well.
Truth 6 days ago

The women who get with you because you are broke ,don’t you later leave them for slay queens

The women who get with you because you are broke ,don’t you later leave them for slay queens
We beg Ghana was not part of…he want please Donald trump 1 week ago

You have to be very careful when dealing with a woman …Adam and the fallen angels suffered because of the taste in women.

You have to be very careful when dealing with a woman …Adam and the fallen angels suffered because of the taste in women.
James Asempa.USA 1 week ago

Sister DELAY, please kindly think positive and negative about what people say about marriage.Sister by the Grace of God you're leaving okay in life,but don't forget your olding days to come.Yes you have enough for your future ...
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Sister DELAY, please kindly think positive and negative about what people say about marriage.Sister by the Grace of God you're leaving okay in life,but don't forget your olding days to come.Yes you have enough for your future but what about your respect in public.Any woman without husband losses respect because any man who even have to come to your way will come and say something about love.Will you be happy if that happens to you my dear.
Maggie 6 days ago

James Asempa!!! Your English is soooo bad!!! Why do you even bother to write? Just stick to phone in to twi-speaking Onua programs okay? Living not leaving;, olden not olding…chale free SHS oooo

James Asempa!!! Your English is soooo bad!!! Why do you even bother to write? Just stick to phone in to twi-speaking Onua programs okay? Living not leaving;, olden not olding…chale free SHS oooo
Detector 6 days ago

Well, you still understood the import of his message, Madam Grammar Corrector!

Well, you still understood the import of his message, Madam Grammar Corrector!
Joy 1 week ago

Easter Smith should stop this nonsense advise to delay. Look you ester smith has gained what you wanted in life as marriage is about. I mean you have kids to boast of from that stupid marriage you think you went through. W ...
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Easter Smith should stop this nonsense advise to delay. Look you ester smith has gained what you wanted in life as marriage is about. I mean you have kids to boast of from that stupid marriage you think you went through. With delay she has no kid , never married but just successful person to meet a man to gain sperm to give birth only if she has the twe/ toto to do so. All that I can say to end my comment is that delay has problem with her toto, twe that is why she is avoiding men to sex to have baby.

What nonsense is this 1 week ago

I respect you very much ,but I've realized that your mind is week...
If you don't have any good advice, just shut your bic and stay cool okay...

I respect you very much ,but I've realized that your mind is week...
If you don't have any good advice, just shut your bic and stay cool okay...
Dr Mumbi Seraki 1 week ago

Hi youth of Ghana. You can take your own life with medicine......for instance 15 paracetamol at once......or combine medicine and akpeteshie or weedicide.

Hi youth of Ghana. You can take your own life with medicine......for instance 15 paracetamol at once......or combine medicine and akpeteshie or weedicide.
A G Ayeni 6 days ago

If you dont allow the woman to take control of decision and everything in the house, then the man is bad and not worthy of companionship. women who cannot submit t6 men should not marry. just stay away from marriage or do ash ...
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If you dont allow the woman to take control of decision and everything in the house, then the man is bad and not worthy of companionship. women who cannot submit t6 men should not marry. just stay away from marriage or do ashawo and be free from control
Let's be Careful 6 days ago

To the stupid guys thinking marriage is good cux when u grow old u will get someone to be with nu, what if the person dies in her 50-60s. Are you ppl mad? If u have gotten ur stupid money to spend on someone's daughter do. An ...
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To the stupid guys thinking marriage is good cux when u grow old u will get someone to be with nu, what if the person dies in her 50-60s. Are you ppl mad? If u have gotten ur stupid money to spend on someone's daughter do. And leave those who are not interested to be. Fools. U made ur descion to marry, allow other to also stays single. Is not just stress and poverty which is killing it fools in ur marriage. What do u ppl get from marriage that a single man or woman can't also get. Mmoa ma. U want us to enter and suffer like u do anaa se den?
Kwaseafoc with ur married wife nyinaa u see nice ladies and u still want to be with dem. Ain't u guys idiots. Me nkc te are u will get respect. Who needs ur respect? Who told u we the unmarried ppl respect u fools. Hey we see u ppl are fools who have sold their right and chasing non6. Is it by force to give birth?
Peter 6 days ago

Delay you are beautiful and presentable my thought is most Men are not genuine but there are good ones too - PERSONALLY ITS GOOD to have children cos of the future , getting old is an herculean task despite having relatives - ...
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Delay you are beautiful and presentable my thought is most Men are not genuine but there are good ones too - PERSONALLY ITS GOOD to have children cos of the future , getting old is an herculean task despite having relatives - ur own children is priority
Borttey 6 days ago

Stupid boy. What do you know about Delay. You think putting up makeups is all

Stupid boy. What do you know about Delay. You think putting up makeups is all
Wasteman 6 days ago

THIS ADVICE IS FOR YOUNG WOMEN IN THEIR 20s, NOT SOMEONE WHO IS ALMOST 50 YEARS OLD!!!

THIS ADVICE IS FOR YOUNG WOMEN IN THEIR 20s, NOT SOMEONE WHO IS ALMOST 50 YEARS OLD!!!
SELFISHNESS IS THE NUMBER ONE KILLER IN MARRIAGE 6 days ago

Selfishness is the number one killer in marriage-m what I want,what I need and an insistance on doing what please us irrespective of the effect or impact it has on the other person. THIS IS WHY "TAKERS" (THE ME,ME ME TYE) MAK ...
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Selfishness is the number one killer in marriage-m what I want,what I need and an insistance on doing what please us irrespective of the effect or impact it has on the other person. THIS IS WHY "TAKERS" (THE ME,ME ME TYE) MAKE SUCH POOR MARRIAGE PARTNERS WHILE "GIVERS" IN CONTRAST HAVE GREAT MARRIAGES. KEEP IN MIND THAT A MARRIAGE WHERE ONE PERSON IS A GIVER WHILE THE OTHER IS A TAKER CAN ALSO COLLAPSE AS ONE PERSON ,THE GIVER EVENTUALLY BECOMES DEPLETED EMOTIONALLY AND MENTALLY.
The best marriages are between two "givers" who treat each other with respect consideration, kindness, gentleness and compassion. Givers tend to be empathetic (they are able to appreciate the other person's position or point of view). Givers tend to have successful marriages because they "pull together" (collaborate) to build their marriage on a solid foundation and not surprisingly over time spanning years they end up being very successful financially.Givers become each others best friend and companion over the years and enjoy the main benefits of marriage: PEACE,CONTENTMENT AND COMPANIONSHIP no matter whatever unexpected bumps they encountered along their MARATHON JOURNEY.
IT IS VITAL TO ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT MARRIAGE IS A LONG-TERM INVESTMENT IN TIME AND EFFORT. How well we do is determined to a large extent by the values and beliefs we ourselves hold. IT PAYS TO HAVE A SHARED STRONG FAITH.
The Bible has an awful lot to say about the marriage relationship. A GOD-CENTRED MARRIAGE WILL GO THE DISTANCE BECAUSE BOTH PARTNERS IN THE MARRIAGE HAVE A GUIDE BOOK THAT THEY FOLLOW WITH ALL THEIR HEART AND MIND AND THEY DEPEND ON THE GOD OF HEAVEN TO HELP THEM ALONG THE BUMPY ROAD THAT MARRIAGE CAN BE.

Key Verses on Love and Marriage
1 Corinthians 13:4-7: "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs..." (Describes the nature of true love).
Genesis 2:24: "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." (The foundation of marriage).
Ephesians 5:25-30: "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her..." (Sets a standard of sacrificial love).
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12: "Two are better than one... Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken." (Emphasizes teamwork and strength in unity).
Mark 10:9: "Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate." (Highlights the sanctity and permanence of marriage).
Colossians 3:14: "And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity." (Focuses on love as the ultimate virtue).
1 Peter 4:8: "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins." (Highlights forgiveness and deep affection)
ALSO ADD PRIDE AND UNFORGIVENESS AND THE INABILITY TO SAY "SORRY" 6 days ago

Pridefulness, unforgiveness and the inability to say sorry are also marriage killers.

Pridefulness, unforgiveness and the inability to say sorry are also marriage killers.
Aboozigi 6 days ago

Blame Rev Bonsu and not marriage pls.
Indeed for you some of the gosple musicians you stay out too late into practice instead of investing in studios at home.

I am sorry it happened to Stela Dygan, Lady Akiwumi etc. Becau ...
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Blame Rev Bonsu and not marriage pls.
Indeed for you some of the gosple musicians you stay out too late into practice instead of investing in studios at home.

I am sorry it happened to Stela Dygan, Lady Akiwumi etc. Because you married textbook men who were jealous and could not handle your success.

Some of us are already confident in ourselves so we allow our wives to shine in the spotlight while we guide them gently from behind. But your men insecure. Insemteadnof helping them overcome, you assukr that was not your role. Some of you were beaten because th even felt frustrated rest youbstatedy out late at the studios. Meanwhile you could have timed your studio sessions well and not spent all day rehearsing with little boys so caled soud engineers playing with your beads

Pen 6 days ago

If they divorced in 2009 or 2010 and this woman is still here complaining, then the man obviously was not the problem for the collapse of the marriage. She was the problem and she is still the problem to herself now. For good ...
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If they divorced in 2009 or 2010 and this woman is still here complaining, then the man obviously was not the problem for the collapse of the marriage. She was the problem and she is still the problem to herself now. For good 16yrs and she still thinks that all men are like her ex-husband to warrant such a counsel or advice to a young woman who is yet to make her own experience in marriage. Madam, go and fix yourself and stop blaming marriage. I will not say marriage is bad simply because my marriage didn't work. There are still good men and good women out there
Kenneth 6 days ago

Excellent advice!For me marriage is optional.marry if you think is right for you.if you choose the option of marriage,the timing should always be your choice not family,religious,cultural or societal nonsense.

Excellent advice!For me marriage is optional.marry if you think is right for you.if you choose the option of marriage,the timing should always be your choice not family,religious,cultural or societal nonsense.
Detector 6 days ago

Bullshit!
This Esther Smith woman was sleeping with countless men even when she was married.
A whore who claims to be a gospel singer.

Bullshit!
This Esther Smith woman was sleeping with countless men even when she was married.
A whore who claims to be a gospel singer.
John 6 days ago

Nonsense, statement

Nonsense, statement
The Freedom Newspaper 6 days ago

The Ability Of The Uncover Ghana Magazine To Bring Issues/Concerns/Observations/Views/Suggestion Such As The Publication Here/ To The Attention Of The Public/ By Publishing Them In The Magazine/ For It To Be Dissect& Discuss ...
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The Ability Of The Uncover Ghana Magazine To Bring Issues/Concerns/Observations/Views/Suggestion Such As The Publication Here/ To The Attention Of The Public/ By Publishing Them In The Magazine/ For It To Be Dissect& Discuss Is A Blessing/& An Issue As Serious As Marriage In The Ghanaian Environment Is No Joking Matter
Gslow 6 days ago

I like you so much Esther, however I must be frank with you to say that you were misled into thinking that once you are a gospel musician you must marry a so called man of god who at the time was also looking to exploit you. ...
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I like you so much Esther, however I must be frank with you to say that you were misled into thinking that once you are a gospel musician you must marry a so called man of god who at the time was also looking to exploit you. We should forget about this religion religion thing and simply be morally upright.
Truth 6 days ago

There are many women like Delay ,if we marry fine ,if we don’t then we die.is simoke ,don’t force anyone to follow your marriage path just because you want to marry

There are many women like Delay ,if we marry fine ,if we don’t then we die.is simoke ,don’t force anyone to follow your marriage path just because you want to marry
Baafour 6 days ago

Ghana gospel musicians always won't to marry a Rev or a pastor forgetting that, the devil now wear suits with tyre and in inside the church.

Ghana gospel musicians always won't to marry a Rev or a pastor forgetting that, the devil now wear suits with tyre and in inside the church.
Derek Amoo-Sakyi 6 days ago

I was instrumental in sending Esther's demo to the Studio but couldn't get funds to produce it. Human memory could be short

I was instrumental in sending Esther's demo to the Studio but couldn't get funds to produce it. Human memory could be short
SON OF GOD 6 days ago

Marriage does not destroy vision, it's your character and the understanding you have towards marriage.
Many women have done well with their visions in marriage. Do not use your failure in marriage to advise others. Check yo ...
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Marriage does not destroy vision, it's your character and the understanding you have towards marriage.
Many women have done well with their visions in marriage. Do not use your failure in marriage to advise others. Check yourself first.

Noble De Kay 5 days ago

The Goat of Ghana Gosple Music

The Goat of Ghana Gosple Music
Ghanabi Kofi 4 days ago

If you marry you have to readjust your time schedules to make time for your family.
You can't go n come in as you like...no spouse will be happy with that kind of life.
For example, you can't go to church or work at 7am n ...
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If you marry you have to readjust your time schedules to make time for your family.
You can't go n come in as you like...no spouse will be happy with that kind of life.
For example, you can't go to church or work at 7am n return at 11pm every day. It will breed suspicion and promote quarrels in the house.
I hope some of my Light house Church female pastors are listening. Some of them go to church at 7am and return home at 11 or 12am on Sundays.
A friend of my family is dating one of them and it's not going well because of what l have stated above.
Love Christ love the church but don't sacrifice your family.
You can blend all in nicely.
Caution pls caution.
Kwame 4 days ago

You said it all. There's one singer in my house who calls the husband bro Kofi but calls her pastor Daddy. She'll do anything stupid for the pastor, going to all nights running errands even in the night in the name of church, ...
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You said it all. There's one singer in my house who calls the husband bro Kofi but calls her pastor Daddy. She'll do anything stupid for the pastor, going to all nights running errands even in the night in the name of church, gets home late to refuse the man sex. Married for 6 yrs without a child and if the man divorce her the entire church will call him satan. Such stupidity is the reason this church girls fail in marriage.
Kwame 4 days ago

There's nothing that fights prominent women except that they don't how to become a wife. They tend to be disrespectful, proud and arrogant; a behaviour no man will countenance. Those who submit themselves irrespective of thei ...
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There's nothing that fights prominent women except that they don't how to become a wife. They tend to be disrespectful, proud and arrogant; a behaviour no man will countenance. Those who submit themselves irrespective of their status are the one's who remain married. Trust me this gospel singers are very disrespectful to their husbands and that's the reason their marriages fail. I'm married to one so I know what I'm talking about. They pretend to be holy in public but something else in the home.

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