the reason why you haven't found anyone is that, you have not kept yourself. Men are not stupid. men will enter any hole but when it comes to wife material, I bet you they won't choose a woman that has exposed herself. they'l ... read full comment
the reason why you haven't found anyone is that, you have not kept yourself. Men are not stupid. men will enter any hole but when it comes to wife material, I bet you they won't choose a woman that has exposed herself. they'll choose a less actractive woman who has kept herself.
Paapidi is the type to defend promiscuous and prostitutes. he attacks people that condemn ashawo actresses. A pimp will defend a prostitute because paapidi is getting sex from prostitute.
AIDS is real paapidi, you might die terribly. Scripture says the wages of sin is death
EDUARDO DOMINGO 8 years ago
YOUNG LADY IT"S YOUR THING AND YOU CAN DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO! NO ONE CAN TELL YOU WHO TO SUCK IT TO! (JAMES BROWN).
BUT REMEMBER GOD THOUGHT OF OUR OLD AGE BEFORE CREATING THE MARRIAGE INSTITUTION!!
YOUNG LADY IT"S YOUR THING AND YOU CAN DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO! NO ONE CAN TELL YOU WHO TO SUCK IT TO! (JAMES BROWN).
BUT REMEMBER GOD THOUGHT OF OUR OLD AGE BEFORE CREATING THE MARRIAGE INSTITUTION!!
Jt 8 years ago
She is one of the problems we have in Ghana, just as she stated. And I blame the media for allowing things thing instead of embarking on important national issues. Who cares about how she think of herself?
She is one of the problems we have in Ghana, just as she stated. And I blame the media for allowing things thing instead of embarking on important national issues. Who cares about how she think of herself?
zack 8 years ago
Satan incarnate
Satan incarnate
Gridlock 8 years ago
You have very good points and the piece is good, from my point of view. But do you have to indict a whole country and its youth, in the beginning of your 'piece' , to drive your message home? I do not think so. It smacks of a ... read full comment
You have very good points and the piece is good, from my point of view. But do you have to indict a whole country and its youth, in the beginning of your 'piece' , to drive your message home? I do not think so. It smacks of arrogance and disrespect. By the way 'what is the definition of -DEVELOPMENT- in social, political, and economic terms? Look it up and you will know why you should use that word carefully in the context you used it. Well, the rest of your message was well delivered.
Akos 8 years ago
You couldn't have presented it better. Marriage should be a favour women are rendering to men and they should thank you before giving you the ring. I think women who are desperate for marriage are still ignorant of the dynami ... read full comment
You couldn't have presented it better. Marriage should be a favour women are rendering to men and they should thank you before giving you the ring. I think women who are desperate for marriage are still ignorant of the dynamics.
menua manchester 8 years ago
THEY WILL RUBBISH MARRIAGE IN PUBLIC AND CRY INDOORS WHEN THEIR FRIENDS ARE GETTING MARRIED AND HAVING KIDS....WE KNOW YOU ALL...JUST GO THRU THE COMMENTS YOU WILL SEE THEM TOO HAHAHA PUSSY IS EXPIRING FAST.
THEY WILL RUBBISH MARRIAGE IN PUBLIC AND CRY INDOORS WHEN THEIR FRIENDS ARE GETTING MARRIED AND HAVING KIDS....WE KNOW YOU ALL...JUST GO THRU THE COMMENTS YOU WILL SEE THEM TOO HAHAHA PUSSY IS EXPIRING FAST.
Alfredo 8 years ago
You are not doing anybody any favor. Women benefit more from relationship and marriage. It is the responsibility of a man to provide for the home with lil support from the woman. Where therefore are you guys doing us favor. F ... read full comment
You are not doing anybody any favor. Women benefit more from relationship and marriage. It is the responsibility of a man to provide for the home with lil support from the woman. Where therefore are you guys doing us favor. From paying bride price and providing shelter and food is our responsibility. Anybody can cook these days and we have restaurants all over the place. Don't come here and make that ignorant statement.
evans 8 years ago
U are a big fool.Continue wallowing in your stupidity.
U are a big fool.Continue wallowing in your stupidity.
Kay 8 years ago
Akos are you for real? Men should thank you for marriage. On which planet do you live. With loads of pussies around and we should applaud for marriage. What a tosh. If you hate marriage that's your choice and nobody can begru ... read full comment
Akos are you for real? Men should thank you for marriage. On which planet do you live. With loads of pussies around and we should applaud for marriage. What a tosh. If you hate marriage that's your choice and nobody can begrudge you for that.
Ama 8 years ago
hmm
hmm
Boss 8 years ago
Empty barrels make the most noise.
Empty barrels make the most noise.
AKANNEBA 8 years ago
Lidya, think twice dear. The pride of all women is marriage and so nature makes it. In case you want a happy home as you claim? I am available.
Lidya, think twice dear. The pride of all women is marriage and so nature makes it. In case you want a happy home as you claim? I am available.
Akos 8 years ago
Not all women pride is marriage...so are u telling me God place women on earth just to get married and have kids...pls different every woman....some are desperate to get married,some are not.
Not all women pride is marriage...so are u telling me God place women on earth just to get married and have kids...pls different every woman....some are desperate to get married,some are not.
AKANNEBA 8 years ago
Ok sis, but my point of view is far from that perspective. Just want to say " it's never complete, the story of a woman without that" pls help her get to the reality of life sister Akos.
Ok sis, but my point of view is far from that perspective. Just want to say " it's never complete, the story of a woman without that" pls help her get to the reality of life sister Akos.
john smith 8 years ago
plse u need to get married and get urselve engaged.u need to experience raising up children,cooking for ur husband and what hv u.u r indeed beautiful,but dnt forget u won't go to heaven with the body but ur soul.
plse u need to get married and get urselve engaged.u need to experience raising up children,cooking for ur husband and what hv u.u r indeed beautiful,but dnt forget u won't go to heaven with the body but ur soul.
Nyame 8 years ago
Do you know what is feminism though?
Do you know what is feminism though?
Paul 8 years ago
There is nothing wrong with being a feminist.We need to empower our women to stand for their rights, equality, and justice.
There is nothing wrong with being a feminist.We need to empower our women to stand for their rights, equality, and justice.
Dabo 8 years ago
Who care about who or what you are Miss?
Keep your thoughts to yourself!
Who care about who or what you are Miss?
Keep your thoughts to yourself!
OGYANKADI! 8 years ago
EI CON_MAN DABO! What happened to Vicky Hammah? Have you finally licked the cunt? What happened to the quarter of a million dollars you stole from the gold dealers in LA? A fucken armed robber!
EI CON_MAN DABO! What happened to Vicky Hammah? Have you finally licked the cunt? What happened to the quarter of a million dollars you stole from the gold dealers in LA? A fucken armed robber!
bestprint 8 years ago
she has removed her womb long time ooo
she has removed her womb long time ooo
Assasey Godwin 8 years ago
My its your own thing, you can decide to be single it doesn't affect anybody. But Pls find someone to marry for people to stop talking about you.
My its your own thing, you can decide to be single it doesn't affect anybody. But Pls find someone to marry for people to stop talking about you.
Assasey Godwin 8 years ago
Get married and have peace mind.People will not stop criticizing you unless you're married.
Get married and have peace mind.People will not stop criticizing you unless you're married.
akwasi 8 years ago
Dis whore croaaa i dot kno her problm see her face . U ar nothing bt a shameless whore. I don't admire u at all u look so baafou
Dis whore croaaa i dot kno her problm see her face . U ar nothing bt a shameless whore. I don't admire u at all u look so baafou
danito 8 years ago
dis international highly paid ashawo koraa....keep quiet kakra 3
dis international highly paid ashawo koraa....keep quiet kakra 3
Dabo 8 years ago
International my foot! I'll not even pay a penny for dis and the other Z- list wanabee actress Yvonne Nelson.
International my foot! I'll not even pay a penny for dis and the other Z- list wanabee actress Yvonne Nelson.
kofi 8 years ago
International here means other Africans country's
International here means other Africans country's
kwasi 8 years ago
YOU NEED TO GO TO THE JYM,RIGHT NOW GHANA LOVE YEVON NELSON BEACUSE HER HONSTY AND BRAVE STAND AGAINST DUMSOR
YOU NEED TO GO TO THE JYM,RIGHT NOW GHANA LOVE YEVON NELSON BEACUSE HER HONSTY AND BRAVE STAND AGAINST DUMSOR
pat 8 years ago
Reading through your script the first impression i get is-this is an educated write-up, its impressive. But on the substance of the matter its common to find that women with your kind of mentality have skewed and contradictor ... read full comment
Reading through your script the first impression i get is-this is an educated write-up, its impressive. But on the substance of the matter its common to find that women with your kind of mentality have skewed and contradictory positions on gender issues. you portray yourself as a free and independent woman who does not need a man to define who are, yet you go ahead to define for yourself who a 'real man' is and anybody who doesnt agree with your definition is a stone age male chauvinist steeped in achaic tradition. you dont care what society thinks of you due to your show of independence yet that same society should accept and love you for whatever you do and/or say. marriage is not a prime goal but you would want a serious minded man in your life. whether you call yourself a feminist or a free independent woman is of no consequence. it is what you believe in that defines you and from from what has been said you are a feminist. it is not a false perception that feminist and others of your kind detest everything traditional, infact it is a conerstone of the feminist movement- to uproot tradition from mainstream life because it (tradition and religion) is the source of the subjucation of women. so you might need to lean back assess your believes and redefine who you are and what you want.
Mr. Big Stuff. 8 years ago
U are a dreambof s lady I've always wanted....
God bless u my dear...
more power to u dear
much respect u
U are a strong minded lady
stay that way..
don't let any one change u dear....LoL !!!
U are a dreambof s lady I've always wanted....
God bless u my dear...
more power to u dear
much respect u
U are a strong minded lady
stay that way..
don't let any one change u dear....LoL !!!
Chuks, Tudu 8 years ago
You're ugly and just live to vent your spleen on men thinking they are responsible for your hopeless life. Nothing more
You're ugly and just live to vent your spleen on men thinking they are responsible for your hopeless life. Nothing more
Adoma 8 years ago
Thats the most excellent talk i have heard lately. You are brave, intelligent and absolutely independent. You realy inspire me . Thanks a lot.
Thats the most excellent talk i have heard lately. You are brave, intelligent and absolutely independent. You realy inspire me . Thanks a lot.
HONRABLE 8 years ago
yOU ARE THE MOST STUPID WOMAN U GOT TO THIS INDUSTERY BY MISATKE U DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT U TALKING ABOUT WHAT IS YOUR EDUCATION BACKGROUND SHITM YOU BETER GO TO aMERICA AND ACT LIKE beyonce
yOU ARE THE MOST STUPID WOMAN U GOT TO THIS INDUSTERY BY MISATKE U DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT U TALKING ABOUT WHAT IS YOUR EDUCATION BACKGROUND SHITM YOU BETER GO TO aMERICA AND ACT LIKE beyonce
HAMZA 8 years ago
may u live independently till dead idiot msheeew
may u live independently till dead idiot msheeew
Woman 8 years ago
If you were to understand who a feminist is, I am sure you will feel ashamed for spewing this gibberish! Don't equate feminism to radical feminism!
If you were to understand who a feminist is, I am sure you will feel ashamed for spewing this gibberish! Don't equate feminism to radical feminism!
Scilla Cond 8 years ago
Nice piece though, but fellas plx I think the criticism is 2 much, jux neglect it if u can't read deeper into those words
Nice piece though, but fellas plx I think the criticism is 2 much, jux neglect it if u can't read deeper into those words
Prof. Calculus 8 years ago
Really nice piece. The woman is beautiful, very beautifu and confident and that is what some men can't take. i love her very much since i saw her on the silver screen several years ago.
Really nice piece. The woman is beautiful, very beautifu and confident and that is what some men can't take. i love her very much since i saw her on the silver screen several years ago.
Yaw 8 years ago
Wonderful piece and couldn't agree more nor could have put it any better especially on the mind set of Some Ghanaians who are in the majority.
In fact it's been my greatest concern for like you rightly pointed out,it's hold ... read full comment
Wonderful piece and couldn't agree more nor could have put it any better especially on the mind set of Some Ghanaians who are in the majority.
In fact it's been my greatest concern for like you rightly pointed out,it's holding the country back in all aspects and it's long over due and about time to address and tackle it.
I always wonder and struggling to find out why some people can't understand to accept and respect others choice and decision.
In Ghana,you have to live and do things to please others otherwise.....please fill in the right word or words for it's way beyond my belief.
Unless some of us (Ghanaians ),modify our perception, attitude and thought,moving forward progressively is out of our reach.
Lydia,you've raised a very useful and important point on the issue of relationship/marriage bad hopefully we all give it a serious thought.
Why be in a relationship/marriage just for the sake of it or to make others happy if it's not beneficial or having a negative impact on your life?
It doesn't say in anywhere that we human beings must live to the expectation of others so let's at least try to respect decisions and choices of others.
We're too mistakenly judgemental let's reason with others instead of condemnations.
Owusu-Ansah Asante 8 years ago
It's good to be a person of your own and have opinion or position on matters of life. Any man who acknowledges that his wife is the successor to their life vision would like to go with a woman of independent mind. That gives ... read full comment
It's good to be a person of your own and have opinion or position on matters of life. Any man who acknowledges that his wife is the successor to their life vision would like to go with a woman of independent mind. That gives me the assurance that you are well-informed and would take decisions devoid of undue pressure but of sound mind built from consultation and conscientious, especially for children.
However, those of us with painful background of divorce, relative to women who prefer power struggle to collaboration and assist, are put off by such positions expressed in a wrong posture. It turns to be the character of self-opinionated and power-strife women who make family life like two captains in one ship; very dangerous to people on board. But if expressed in careful language, suggestive of good collaboration and a promise of bank of alternative ideas,I tell you, every well meaning man will run for it. You must check the grooming too.
Ama Nyametse 8 years ago
You've said it all,girl.....you're one in a million,
You've said it all,girl.....you're one in a million,
Alfredo 8 years ago
Why is she acting as if she been forced to get married. It's your choice.
Why is she acting as if she been forced to get married. It's your choice.
mcguirke 8 years ago
I think only an idiot will hold his woman back in fear of her being independent. In the modern (especially Black) women are able to make more money than their male counterparts. Fear of an independent woman comes from insec ... read full comment
I think only an idiot will hold his woman back in fear of her being independent. In the modern (especially Black) women are able to make more money than their male counterparts. Fear of an independent woman comes from insecurity, which is why men are supposed to actually prepare and be ready before getting into a serious relationship. If you fear an independent woman then you better be supplying all of your woman's need.
Nat Bongo 8 years ago
You may be right but have you checked the natural make up of men? In a relationship and marriage where the woman is really "independent", the man has to ask for permission on every other matter. This kind of bossiness will no ... read full comment
You may be right but have you checked the natural make up of men? In a relationship and marriage where the woman is really "independent", the man has to ask for permission on every other matter. This kind of bossiness will not appeal to any man who really has balls unless he is the type who is a cheat himself. Surely and one day, even the cheat will get out of the marriage. Not that real men cannot stand independent women but it is the bossiness that is the problem. If the independent woman can take the bossiness out, then which man will not like to take such for a wife.
DDT 8 years ago
Who cares whether you are independent or not, keep deceiving yourself. No man will marry a woman with a loose mouth , exposing her nakedness and uncultured. You will do yourself good if you stop writing nonsense on social ... read full comment
Who cares whether you are independent or not, keep deceiving yourself. No man will marry a woman with a loose mouth , exposing her nakedness and uncultured. You will do yourself good if you stop writing nonsense on social media.
kofi 8 years ago
Why fuck men for money then madam independent kwasia anumdwa
Why fuck men for money then madam independent kwasia anumdwa
AKANNEBA 8 years ago
If I may ask: does she have sex?
If I may ask: does she have sex?
Alfredo 8 years ago
She is not a virgin the last time I checked. She just pretending to be tough outside but goes to her bedroom and start crying about why men are ignoring her. Has she forgotten every woman needs a man.
She is not a virgin the last time I checked. She just pretending to be tough outside but goes to her bedroom and start crying about why men are ignoring her. Has she forgotten every woman needs a man.
kp 8 years ago
I like your thinking.
This is a good read. I loved it.
I'm raising a daughter and I keep telling her stuff like this. Women like Lydia Forson fascinate me. I like strong women with brains.
When I married my wife she ha ... read full comment
I like your thinking.
This is a good read. I loved it.
I'm raising a daughter and I keep telling her stuff like this. Women like Lydia Forson fascinate me. I like strong women with brains.
When I married my wife she had only a Diploma. Now she has three degrees and a Masters. She fascinates me and comes out strong and formidable. I'm encouraging her to start her PhD. A knowledgeable woman is a man's power and pride. I have four diplomas and a degree but never feel threatened by my wife's academic exploits. She makes me rather proud.
My wife does not succumb to my whims but rather comes up with intellectual arguments to make me see her point. I do the same.
A woman like Lydia will make a great wife if you're a strong man with brains.
Men, allow yourselves to be challenged by your women. An intelligent woman is like a precious jewel in a man's closet. Lydia is one of these women (a critical thinker who will always analyse the situation and say her mind).
Men should not blame women for being feminists because our patriarchal dominance culminated in their emancipatory posture. Strong vocal women are just like any other woman. They have emotions and desire to be respected and listened to. They are not a threat but rather formidable companions valuable partners.
We men need to change. We need to see women as our developmental partners and not just wife materials. Every home is better with two best brains and not a superhero with a brainless sheepish woman who just follows like a whipped dog with her tail between her legs.
Well done Lydia with your well thought article.
Alfredo 8 years ago
She still needs a man. Maybe your wife was able to achieve all that you are boasting about cos the support she had from you. She maybe independent as she says but she will need a man to perform another function in her life.
She still needs a man. Maybe your wife was able to achieve all that you are boasting about cos the support she had from you. She maybe independent as she says but she will need a man to perform another function in her life.
kp 8 years ago
The problem is those who think the only purpose of life is to marry and have children. The greatness of a man/woman is determined by the cause he/she lives for and the price she/he is willing to pay for that cause. The apostl ... read full comment
The problem is those who think the only purpose of life is to marry and have children. The greatness of a man/woman is determined by the cause he/she lives for and the price she/he is willing to pay for that cause. The apostle Paul and the Lord Jesus would have been great failures if that is the full purpose of life.
Many of history's great heroes did not have children so please give us a break. Let a man/woman have the power to choose what they want to live for. It is their prerogative. Warped minds think the way you do.
Lydia has emancipated herself from mental slavery and twisted minds like yours can never comprehend that.
To me if she marries fine, if she does not fine, the choice is hers.
You can never understand this because of the orientation of your mind and the likes of you.
Please, you really need to learn.
Carol 8 years ago
Well said young lady, I wish more Ghanaian women would think like that. Instead of being stuck in the past.
Well said young lady, I wish more Ghanaian women would think like that. Instead of being stuck in the past.
daakyehene 8 years ago
well this piece is deep, the objective of the article is carried across quite well. your points are well explained allthough i think some of your ideas are a bit contradictory. i understand when you say marriage shouldn't be ... read full comment
well this piece is deep, the objective of the article is carried across quite well. your points are well explained allthough i think some of your ideas are a bit contradictory. i understand when you say marriage shouldn't be the main goal of todays woman, but you should also understand that a woman's life is incomplete without a man in it and so is a man's without a woman in it. Gifty Anti had achieved everything a woman could dream of but marriage has made her the happiest on earth. after all the dreams, all the achievements, all the money , the last ingredient you need to make your life complete is a man. About the criticisms and backlash you are receiving, you should understand that ''if nobody talks about you then you are nobody"
Admirer? 8 years ago
I got to "love" this lady through a movie.she featured in. Her whole performance was delightful It's dawning on me of late that she is a good actress too. She is a good actress because I'm getting to see her in a real "what s ... read full comment
I got to "love" this lady through a movie.she featured in. Her whole performance was delightful It's dawning on me of late that she is a good actress too. She is a good actress because I'm getting to see her in a real "what she is." My previous perception of her stands so different from her writings of late. It leads me to believe that she is so good at the "make believe" work she does. Yes she has through her roles in the movies made me consider her as very feminine not the feminist she really is. Explaining it off in any form remains her explanation. She is a feminist. Lady, it smacks of impunity and arrogance to describe all who choose to stick to what our forebares handed over to us as our tradition, the woman's role in society as ignorant. It's really appalling to explain that those who want to go by our Christian teaching, that the woman must submit to the husband have our minds caged. In effect, do you have to rubbish all who do not think your way? It looks like something is eating you but you're covering it up. I'm hurting so much because I'm losing somebody I adore. Please I plead, soften up a bit. Don't be driven to downgrade yourself. You don't have to answer to everything. Don't forget, silence they say is golden. Lydia all said you're still a Lady. Stay that way.
dunny 8 years ago
food for thought for Ghanaian women.....
food for thought for Ghanaian women.....
MARTIN AHUNU,ESSEX,UK. 8 years ago
LYDIA,U ARE A BIG FOOL.YOU WERE FOLLOWING GIFTY ANTI AND NOW SHE HAS PROVED SMARTER AND WISER THAN YOU ALL.KEEP FOLLOWING OTHERS AND THEIR WASP MODE OF THINKING TILL U BECOME WEAK AND STUPID WHEN NO MAN WILL EVEN GLIMPSE AT U ... read full comment
LYDIA,U ARE A BIG FOOL.YOU WERE FOLLOWING GIFTY ANTI AND NOW SHE HAS PROVED SMARTER AND WISER THAN YOU ALL.KEEP FOLLOWING OTHERS AND THEIR WASP MODE OF THINKING TILL U BECOME WEAK AND STUPID WHEN NO MAN WILL EVEN GLIMPSE AT U LET ALONE LOVE U.DO NOT FORGET THAT AGE,LOOKS AND FERTILITY TO BEAR KIDS FADES FASTER WITH WOMEN AND U WILL RREALIZE LATER IN LIFE HOW DUMP AND IRRESPONSIBLE U,VE BEEN WITHOUT KIDS AND A HUSBAND.WISE UP.
kp 8 years ago
Do you have to insult her to make your point?
She articulated her views about an issue that she thinks is important for the 'new woman'. If you think otherwise, just make a clear submission of your views and let your readers ... read full comment
Do you have to insult her to make your point?
She articulated her views about an issue that she thinks is important for the 'new woman'. If you think otherwise, just make a clear submission of your views and let your readers determine if you have a case.
The problem is those who think the only purpose of life is to marry and have children. The greatness of a man/woman is determined by the cause he/she lives for and the price she/he is willing to pay for that cause. The apostle Paul and the Lord Jesus would have been great failures if that is the full purpose of life.
Many of history's great heroes did not have children so please give us a break. Let a man/woman have the power to choose what they want to live for. It is their prerogative. Warped minds think the way you do.
Lydia has emancipated herself from mental slavery and twisted minds like yours can never comprehend that.
To me if she marries fine, if she does not fine, the choice is hers.
You can never understand this because of the orientation of your mind and the likes of you.
Please, you really need to learn.
Dansoa 8 years ago
So what? Stop deceiving yourself. No need for all this.tired of your wahala
So what? Stop deceiving yourself. No need for all this.tired of your wahala
who damn cares
the reason why you haven't found anyone is that, you have not kept yourself. Men are not stupid. men will enter any hole but when it comes to wife material, I bet you they won't choose a woman that has exposed herself. they'l ...
read full comment
YOUNG LADY IT"S YOUR THING AND YOU CAN DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO! NO ONE CAN TELL YOU WHO TO SUCK IT TO! (JAMES BROWN).
BUT REMEMBER GOD THOUGHT OF OUR OLD AGE BEFORE CREATING THE MARRIAGE INSTITUTION!!
She is one of the problems we have in Ghana, just as she stated. And I blame the media for allowing things thing instead of embarking on important national issues. Who cares about how she think of herself?
Satan incarnate
You have very good points and the piece is good, from my point of view. But do you have to indict a whole country and its youth, in the beginning of your 'piece' , to drive your message home? I do not think so. It smacks of a ...
read full comment
You couldn't have presented it better. Marriage should be a favour women are rendering to men and they should thank you before giving you the ring. I think women who are desperate for marriage are still ignorant of the dynami ...
read full comment
THEY WILL RUBBISH MARRIAGE IN PUBLIC AND CRY INDOORS WHEN THEIR FRIENDS ARE GETTING MARRIED AND HAVING KIDS....WE KNOW YOU ALL...JUST GO THRU THE COMMENTS YOU WILL SEE THEM TOO HAHAHA PUSSY IS EXPIRING FAST.
You are not doing anybody any favor. Women benefit more from relationship and marriage. It is the responsibility of a man to provide for the home with lil support from the woman. Where therefore are you guys doing us favor. F ...
read full comment
U are a big fool.Continue wallowing in your stupidity.
Akos are you for real? Men should thank you for marriage. On which planet do you live. With loads of pussies around and we should applaud for marriage. What a tosh. If you hate marriage that's your choice and nobody can begru ...
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hmm
Empty barrels make the most noise.
Lidya, think twice dear. The pride of all women is marriage and so nature makes it. In case you want a happy home as you claim? I am available.
Not all women pride is marriage...so are u telling me God place women on earth just to get married and have kids...pls different every woman....some are desperate to get married,some are not.
Ok sis, but my point of view is far from that perspective. Just want to say " it's never complete, the story of a woman without that" pls help her get to the reality of life sister Akos.
plse u need to get married and get urselve engaged.u need to experience raising up children,cooking for ur husband and what hv u.u r indeed beautiful,but dnt forget u won't go to heaven with the body but ur soul.
Do you know what is feminism though?
There is nothing wrong with being a feminist.We need to empower our women to stand for their rights, equality, and justice.
Who care about who or what you are Miss?
Keep your thoughts to yourself!
EI CON_MAN DABO! What happened to Vicky Hammah? Have you finally licked the cunt? What happened to the quarter of a million dollars you stole from the gold dealers in LA? A fucken armed robber!
she has removed her womb long time ooo
My its your own thing, you can decide to be single it doesn't affect anybody. But Pls find someone to marry for people to stop talking about you.
Get married and have peace mind.People will not stop criticizing you unless you're married.
Dis whore croaaa i dot kno her problm see her face . U ar nothing bt a shameless whore. I don't admire u at all u look so baafou
dis international highly paid ashawo koraa....keep quiet kakra 3
International my foot! I'll not even pay a penny for dis and the other Z- list wanabee actress Yvonne Nelson.
International here means other Africans country's
YOU NEED TO GO TO THE JYM,RIGHT NOW GHANA LOVE YEVON NELSON BEACUSE HER HONSTY AND BRAVE STAND AGAINST DUMSOR
Reading through your script the first impression i get is-this is an educated write-up, its impressive. But on the substance of the matter its common to find that women with your kind of mentality have skewed and contradictor ...
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U are a dreambof s lady I've always wanted....
God bless u my dear...
more power to u dear
much respect u
U are a strong minded lady
stay that way..
don't let any one change u dear....LoL !!!
You're ugly and just live to vent your spleen on men thinking they are responsible for your hopeless life. Nothing more
Thats the most excellent talk i have heard lately. You are brave, intelligent and absolutely independent. You realy inspire me . Thanks a lot.
yOU ARE THE MOST STUPID WOMAN U GOT TO THIS INDUSTERY BY MISATKE U DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT U TALKING ABOUT WHAT IS YOUR EDUCATION BACKGROUND SHITM YOU BETER GO TO aMERICA AND ACT LIKE beyonce
may u live independently till dead idiot msheeew
If you were to understand who a feminist is, I am sure you will feel ashamed for spewing this gibberish! Don't equate feminism to radical feminism!
Nice piece though, but fellas plx I think the criticism is 2 much, jux neglect it if u can't read deeper into those words
Really nice piece. The woman is beautiful, very beautifu and confident and that is what some men can't take. i love her very much since i saw her on the silver screen several years ago.
Wonderful piece and couldn't agree more nor could have put it any better especially on the mind set of Some Ghanaians who are in the majority.
In fact it's been my greatest concern for like you rightly pointed out,it's hold ...
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It's good to be a person of your own and have opinion or position on matters of life. Any man who acknowledges that his wife is the successor to their life vision would like to go with a woman of independent mind. That gives ...
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You've said it all,girl.....you're one in a million,
Why is she acting as if she been forced to get married. It's your choice.
I think only an idiot will hold his woman back in fear of her being independent. In the modern (especially Black) women are able to make more money than their male counterparts. Fear of an independent woman comes from insec ...
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You may be right but have you checked the natural make up of men? In a relationship and marriage where the woman is really "independent", the man has to ask for permission on every other matter. This kind of bossiness will no ...
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Who cares whether you are independent or not, keep deceiving yourself. No man will marry a woman with a loose mouth , exposing her nakedness and uncultured. You will do yourself good if you stop writing nonsense on social ...
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Why fuck men for money then madam independent kwasia anumdwa
If I may ask: does she have sex?
She is not a virgin the last time I checked. She just pretending to be tough outside but goes to her bedroom and start crying about why men are ignoring her. Has she forgotten every woman needs a man.
I like your thinking.
This is a good read. I loved it.
I'm raising a daughter and I keep telling her stuff like this. Women like Lydia Forson fascinate me. I like strong women with brains.
When I married my wife she ha ...
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She still needs a man. Maybe your wife was able to achieve all that you are boasting about cos the support she had from you. She maybe independent as she says but she will need a man to perform another function in her life.
The problem is those who think the only purpose of life is to marry and have children. The greatness of a man/woman is determined by the cause he/she lives for and the price she/he is willing to pay for that cause. The apostl ...
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Well said young lady, I wish more Ghanaian women would think like that. Instead of being stuck in the past.
well this piece is deep, the objective of the article is carried across quite well. your points are well explained allthough i think some of your ideas are a bit contradictory. i understand when you say marriage shouldn't be ...
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I got to "love" this lady through a movie.she featured in. Her whole performance was delightful It's dawning on me of late that she is a good actress too. She is a good actress because I'm getting to see her in a real "what s ...
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food for thought for Ghanaian women.....
LYDIA,U ARE A BIG FOOL.YOU WERE FOLLOWING GIFTY ANTI AND NOW SHE HAS PROVED SMARTER AND WISER THAN YOU ALL.KEEP FOLLOWING OTHERS AND THEIR WASP MODE OF THINKING TILL U BECOME WEAK AND STUPID WHEN NO MAN WILL EVEN GLIMPSE AT U ...
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Do you have to insult her to make your point?
She articulated her views about an issue that she thinks is important for the 'new woman'. If you think otherwise, just make a clear submission of your views and let your readers ...
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So what? Stop deceiving yourself. No need for all this.tired of your wahala