Raise your boys right and you wouldn't have to mind my short skirt

By: Yaa Boatenmaa

Now, this argument is not new, but coming from a Gender Minister -- the most senior individual responsible for the welfare of women and children -- makes it egregious: the old baseless, shiftless and lazy short skirt argument that doesn't even hold water.

It is so useless an argument that how it was uttered from the mouth of a Minister completely beats me. Not only is her argument just downright disgusting, it is outright offensive.

It is offensive to young girls who are raped by family members who know nothing about sex or sexuality. It is offensive to women who have suffered the injustice and psychological fallout of rape who are fully covered in hijabs and burkas. And last and certainly not least, it is offensive to men: it implies that men are ravenous animals who have no moral uprightness or absolution and are slaves to instinct. Basically, it is just an all around terrible statement and we all lose.

The point is, we are building and colluding with societies that are unbothered by the bodily security of the vulnerable in society. The real task for all those who want to utter the "short skirt" argument is not to throw out unintelligent utterances, but to dedicate themselves to building a society where all members feel safe and do not feel threatened based on gender or any other metric.

We are socialized into blaming victims of sexual assault for something they did not invite upon themselves. I am so sickened by Otiko Djaba's [Gender Minister] comments to the point of tears especially since her message was given at an all-girls' school on a day they were celebrating their academic achievements.

The sheer atrocity of it all cannot be understated. How insensitive! Congratulations Hon. Minister, you perpetuated a problem you are somehow tasked to fix and have contributed to a vicious cycle that dispossesses women of agency and assuages the wrong thinking that causes the issues in the first place. Well done!

I can think of a million other things she could have said. She could have said anything for all I care if it would have saved us all the anger and outrage.

Instead of telling girls not to wear short skirts, how about we raise boys to respect a woman's agency and crush this idea that somehow men are entitled to the bodies of their fellow female citizens.

Let's remind boys, that just as they are sovereign and reserve the right not to be defiled regardless of what they wear, that girls have the same rights?

People, all people have a right to bodily security and wearing a short skirt or otherwise does not mean you waive access to that right.