Yes, you are right, but we cannot do anything about it. I have to test abroad women. Don't you agree with me?.
Yes, you are right, but we cannot do anything about it. I have to test abroad women. Don't you agree with me?.
Edey bee keekeh,usa 9 years ago
I feel very sorry on your judgment, s
ome of us are still faithful despite the temptations. We are not trading in our righteousness for lust. Faithfulness forever I shall be, Amen.
I feel very sorry on your judgment, s
ome of us are still faithful despite the temptations. We are not trading in our righteousness for lust. Faithfulness forever I shall be, Amen.
JayZ 9 years ago
I dont know about Europe but in the US it is estimated that 7 out of 10 divorces are initiated and caused by women so as to take the house from the man, throw him on child support and claim alimony.
Its actually financiall ... read full comment
I dont know about Europe but in the US it is estimated that 7 out of 10 divorces are initiated and caused by women so as to take the house from the man, throw him on child support and claim alimony.
Its actually financially better for a woman to marry and divorce than to make it work in the long term sir.
Good article by the way
KL 9 years ago
It is unfortunate that most of the comments so far seem so shallow and lack of appreciation for the subject matter that is tearing so many people apart. This is an issue that has far reaching social impact in Ghana...its more ... read full comment
It is unfortunate that most of the comments so far seem so shallow and lack of appreciation for the subject matter that is tearing so many people apart. This is an issue that has far reaching social impact in Ghana...its more tragic when children are involved.
Kofi Ata, Cambridge, UK 9 years ago
KL, I have not read all the comments but reading the article, I asked myself if the examples (whether real or not) were the extremes. For example, in the fist example, I cannot understand why sympathetic Ghanaians bought a ti ... read full comment
KL, I have not read all the comments but reading the article, I asked myself if the examples (whether real or not) were the extremes. For example, in the fist example, I cannot understand why sympathetic Ghanaians bought a ticket for the woman and her children to return to Ghana instead of supporting them to restart life without the husband/father. That is unrealistic, when millions of Ghanaians would do anything to leave Ghana for the US.
The second example (Henry), the immigration laws of the UK are such that the Lebanese business owner could not have easily secured work permit and extension of visa for Henry. This is because the work Henry was doing could have been done by anyone and would not qualify for work permit for a foreigner. Secondly, it is also not realistic that Henry's wife in Ghana secured the two properties just because her names were on the Deeds. If Henry fought the case in court then his lawyers failed him because he could have shown documentary evidence of the money he sent to the wife to the court. His Lawyers should have asked the wife to have provide the source/s of the funds she used to build the properties and how she came by the funds.
Perhaps, it the extremes of the cases that make the examples unrealistic and for people to give simple comments. The fact is that cheating in relationships is not new as well not exclusive to the Ghanaian community (whether home or in the Diaspora).
What has made those involving the Diaspora a phenomenon is the additional element of one of the parties involved spending money, time and resources to assist the other only for that other to repay the good and kind deed with ingratitude and causing very serious injury to feelings, hatred and animosity. Even in cases that there are no such kind and expensive asisstance by the one of the parties, there are still cheating within the relationship. Just last week, I heard of a story of a Pastor in Holland who was having a sexual relationship with the daughter of his wife. The young woman is the child from the wife's first marriage but was living with the mother and step father in the same house. They are all Ghanaians or of Ghanaian origins living in Holland.
In other words, cheating will happen irrespective of whether one assisted the other or not but so far as one of the parties is not committed, is greedy, unfaithfully and there is mistrust and misunderstanding within the relationship. This is not new and also common in all societies and communities in Africa, Europe, the Americas, Asia, etc. It's not uniquely Ghanaian.
K. Boateng 9 years ago
"In another development, Joshua, a mechanic in Accra travelled to the USA with her wife...He appealed to him to cover her wife with his papers which he readily did".
Steve, is Joshua a man or a woman?
Thanks
"In another development, Joshua, a mechanic in Accra travelled to the USA with her wife...He appealed to him to cover her wife with his papers which he readily did".
Steve, is Joshua a man or a woman?
Thanks
Akos 9 years ago
Oh K Boateng, please forgive him, it's typing error
Oh K Boateng, please forgive him, it's typing error
K. Boateng 9 years ago
Ok Akos, I didn't say the writer did anything wrong; I just wanted to ascertain the gender of Joshua. You know, many things can happen in this day and age. There are some people who look and sound feminine but are males in na ... read full comment
Ok Akos, I didn't say the writer did anything wrong; I just wanted to ascertain the gender of Joshua. You know, many things can happen in this day and age. There are some people who look and sound feminine but are males in nature.
fofo 9 years ago
Mr PHD, urs dont mak no sense, u just don't get. Just go n teach. Leave us to read for we do understand his bad English.
Mr PHD, urs dont mak no sense, u just don't get. Just go n teach. Leave us to read for we do understand his bad English.
S. ATTA OWUSU 9 years ago
Boateng, that was an oversight and a simple error. I have a degree in ENGLISH so don't think I will refer to Joshua as a woman. It was an oversight. The content of the article is what you should talk about.
Boateng, that was an oversight and a simple error. I have a degree in ENGLISH so don't think I will refer to Joshua as a woman. It was an oversight. The content of the article is what you should talk about.
Owusu 9 years ago
Lets build Ghana together in love hard work and honesty.
Lets build Ghana together in love hard work and honesty.
A GERSIS 9 years ago
A GERSIS REPORTING
FELLOW Ghanaians
This guy, Atta owusu is Adolf Rockson.
Adolf is running around London collecting barbar shop stories about Ghanaian women and their sex habits. Here is Adolf appointing himself as ... read full comment
A GERSIS REPORTING
FELLOW Ghanaians
This guy, Atta owusu is Adolf Rockson.
Adolf is running around London collecting barbar shop stories about Ghanaian women and their sex habits. Here is Adolf appointing himself as the Ghanaian sex police and writing 'old wives' tales. When was the last time this castrated billy goat has sex? Is Adolf(Atta)piss prouding when he sees a pussy?
I am lost. Real men do not write about girls' talks. This guy is a sex deprived Monk who has nothing to do but hops around writing stories about Ghanaian women and their sex habits.
ANTONIO GERSIS
PLAZA ONE
DALLAS
KBK 9 years ago
Atta Owusu is certainly not Adolf Rockson. Atta doesn't write on political issues. Atta's articles are mostly about social and relationship issues in Ghana. He doesn't write articles every day like Adolf.
Atta Owusu does ... read full comment
Atta Owusu is certainly not Adolf Rockson. Atta doesn't write on political issues. Atta's articles are mostly about social and relationship issues in Ghana. He doesn't write articles every day like Adolf.
Atta Owusu does NOT live in London either.
If Rockson writes about Ghanaian women's sex life instead of the silly political and tribalistic things he writes about on a daily basis, he will be a less unlikeable person on ghanaweb.
princewilly@ymail.com 9 years ago
A woman was in bed having sex with Gersis her husband's friend when the telephone rang.
After hanging up, she says, ''That was Adolf, but don't worry -- he won't be home for a while. He's playing cards with you.''
A woman was in bed having sex with Gersis her husband's friend when the telephone rang.
After hanging up, she says, ''That was Adolf, but don't worry -- he won't be home for a while. He's playing cards with you.''
KBK 9 years ago
Maybe Adolf was playing cards alone in the bedroom with Gersis' wife...
That should make Gersis's hard on droop like a wilting flower...
Maybe Adolf was playing cards alone in the bedroom with Gersis' wife...
That should make Gersis's hard on droop like a wilting flower...
S. ATTA OWUSU 9 years ago
Hey the man who calls himself A GERSIS, note this very well. I am not Rockson Adolf. Stop fooling and don't confuse readrs. Write to my emal and I will tell you who I am.
Hey the man who calls himself A GERSIS, note this very well. I am not Rockson Adolf. Stop fooling and don't confuse readrs. Write to my emal and I will tell you who I am.
mojingles 9 years ago
Owusu, this topic was the basis for my masters thesis at Columbia Graduate School of Journalism a 13 years ago...it is archived in the school's library for eternity....
It sures pleases me that you have revisited it and re ... read full comment
Owusu, this topic was the basis for my masters thesis at Columbia Graduate School of Journalism a 13 years ago...it is archived in the school's library for eternity....
It sures pleases me that you have revisited it and repleted your account with human interest stories.....the examples, factual as they appear, are just astounding....
This issue is as divisive as it is controversial with huge implications for spouses and children.
At the end of the day, it is society that suffers with a torn social fabric fueled by unhappy marriages and divorces.
How we all wish there were solutions to this nagging problem. But the prospects of that are nil..because partners become recalcitrant, vindictive and greedy.
mojingles 9 years ago
Columbia University Graduate School of Journalism in New York City
Columbia University Graduate School of Journalism in New York City
Son Of Man 9 years ago
Western laws regarding marriage and divorce makes marriage impossible and non successful unless the individuals invoved chose to stay outside of Western laws.
Its clear cos the marriages that continue to hold are mostly i ... read full comment
Western laws regarding marriage and divorce makes marriage impossible and non successful unless the individuals invoved chose to stay outside of Western laws.
Its clear cos the marriages that continue to hold are mostly in the jewish, Muslim, Conservative Christian, Indian and most Asian communities who choose to adhere to their cultural and social norms far away from the western twisted ideology about marriage.
C.Y. ANDY-K 9 years ago
You'd be shocked!
Initially, I had no intention of commenting on this article, interesting though it is. As many people are pointing out, it is a general problem which has been well researched in Western societies.
No ... read full comment
You'd be shocked!
Initially, I had no intention of commenting on this article, interesting though it is. As many people are pointing out, it is a general problem which has been well researched in Western societies.
Now, African men having affair/s with multiple women in Africa is just the norm. Even many adopting Western wedding and one-man one-wife norms are cheating like crazy, you'd find when you visit Ghana. Mates who chewed on through sec. to univ all have side shows which cam make the most lecherous Ghanaian abroad green with envy! The difference is that their wives are not divorcing them to the extent we find overseas.
Andy-K
KL 9 years ago
Well written..I have always said that the high price of living abroad, which includes the huge negative impact on families back home...is often overlooked and understated. Please, continue to write about this. I have often th ... read full comment
Well written..I have always said that the high price of living abroad, which includes the huge negative impact on families back home...is often overlooked and understated. Please, continue to write about this. I have often thought about writing on this subject, but by the time I sit down to write, I get so emotional and conflicted that I freeze. The problem is not getting much better.
J.B. Rockson Washington D.C. 9 years ago
Oh my GH
Oh my GH
Oldtimo 9 years ago
Before I could finish reading the stories above, I could easily associate the tone to Ashanti Tribe. Who else is property conscious than an Ashanti or marry more than one woman? 80% of your stories are right and you cannot c ... read full comment
Before I could finish reading the stories above, I could easily associate the tone to Ashanti Tribe. Who else is property conscious than an Ashanti or marry more than one woman? 80% of your stories are right and you cannot change them for it is a character imbedded in their bones. Equality between men and female partners has never existed in Ghanaian culture . Therefore Ghanaian women should understand that they do not measure to the equality American women claim. Unless men in Ghana are forbidden to practice polygamy. Start from the Chiefs.
princewilly@ymail.com 9 years ago
A guy was standing in a bar when a stranger walked in. After a while they got to talking and at about 10:30 p.m. the second guy said: "I better get home. My wife doesn't like me to stay out during late night." The first guy r ... read full comment
A guy was standing in a bar when a stranger walked in. After a while they got to talking and at about 10:30 p.m. the second guy said: "I better get home. My wife doesn't like me to stay out during late night." The first guy replies: "I'll help you out. Just do what I say. Go home, sneak into the bedroom and pull back the covers. Get down between her legs. Then lick, lick and lick for about 20 minutes and there will be no complaints in the morning." The guy agrees to try and continues drinking with him for two more hours before heading home. When he gets home, the house is pitch black. He sneaks upstairs into the bedroom, pulls back the covers and proceeds to lick for 20 minutes. Afterwards he decides to wash his face. As he walks into the bathroom, his wife is sitting on the toilet. Seeing her he screams: "What the hell are you doing in here?!" "Quiet!" she exclaims. "You'll wake my mother.
Kakraba Cromwell 9 years ago
Do you have a blog?
you seem to have very interesting stories?
Do you have a blog?
you seem to have very interesting stories?
ghanaman 9 years ago
Certainly, most people fall in love with one another and marry to enjoy life together. In the natural world, things (read future events) can fail to go according to plan, breeding misunderstanding or even mistrust. cheating i ... read full comment
Certainly, most people fall in love with one another and marry to enjoy life together. In the natural world, things (read future events) can fail to go according to plan, breeding misunderstanding or even mistrust. cheating is a common source and trust-building mechanisms may be employed to deal with it.
My friend 9 years ago
Many women become too clever when they come abroad. They work and keep their money apart. They delegate all financial problems to the man whilst they build mansions secretly. Many of the marital problems with couples abroad s ... read full comment
Many women become too clever when they come abroad. They work and keep their money apart. They delegate all financial problems to the man whilst they build mansions secretly. Many of the marital problems with couples abroad starts with money. The woman must appreciate her role in the tradition of marriage, and to the men, just when you thought you are running away from one problem, you may be running into another or the same thing
K. ESSILFIE 9 years ago
This is exactly what a woman did to me four years ago. We got a Canadian vusa. When we got ther my cousin covered her with his papers. My wife in turn used her papers to marry her brother. I was arrested by the police at my w ... read full comment
This is exactly what a woman did to me four years ago. We got a Canadian vusa. When we got ther my cousin covered her with his papers. My wife in turn used her papers to marry her brother. I was arrested by the police at my workplace and deported to Ghana. I suspect my wife did that. I am now in London. A very important article.
Joe Accra 9 years ago
Marry her brother? Sick people. Greedy bastards!
Marry her brother? Sick people. Greedy bastards!
Brains 9 years ago
K. Essilfie, I feel your pain. I am very sad you had to go through this but know that not all women are selfish. Keep praying and the lord will guide you. I have been married to my legon sweetheart for 14 years and we have ro ... read full comment
K. Essilfie, I feel your pain. I am very sad you had to go through this but know that not all women are selfish. Keep praying and the lord will guide you. I have been married to my legon sweetheart for 14 years and we have roamed the world together and I pray that you find a woman who knows what marriage is all about and who will go through thick and thin with you becauce I am living proof to my husband.
paul adams 9 years ago
great article God bless you
great article God bless you
mr. scharamanga with his golden gun 9 years ago
NOW I UNDERSTOODING WHY MY WIFE SLEEP WITH HER CELL PHNE UNDER HER PILLOW.AND HOEW SHE LISTEN TO CALLS IN THE BATHROOM.NOW WE DO SEX 0 OR 1 TIME IN THE MONTH.first we do 5x a week oooh!
NOW I UNDERSTOODING WHY MY WIFE SLEEP WITH HER CELL PHNE UNDER HER PILLOW.AND HOEW SHE LISTEN TO CALLS IN THE BATHROOM.NOW WE DO SEX 0 OR 1 TIME IN THE MONTH.first we do 5x a week oooh!
Kaiser 9 years ago
It's always easy to blame the man bcos his secret deeds normally come to light. Have asked the women the kind of sexual relationship they maintain with their husbands. I will use myself as an example. I am married to a Ghanai ... read full comment
It's always easy to blame the man bcos his secret deeds normally come to light. Have asked the women the kind of sexual relationship they maintain with their husbands. I will use myself as an example. I am married to a Ghanaian in the US. We I work full time and take care of about 90% of the bills at home. I do what I can to make my family have what they need yet I do not get jack affection from my wife. She stays home most the time yet will have an excuse why she can't make love. From headache, tiredness, not being in the mood etc. It's been almost 4 months since we had any relationship. Women down play the importance of sex in a relationship. I can see myself doing same thing as the guy did by leaving his wife and having a baby outside( I won't do that though). Some women use sex as tool in marriages and I will advise any woman reading this to know that intimacy with your husband is not a crime. Even the bible tells couples not to hold back from their partners.
Adelaide guy(Shanton) 9 years ago
Excellent article, I agree with you, all are guilty!!
Excellent article, I agree with you, all are guilty!!
DELA 9 years ago
IT IS VERY SAD WHAT IS GOING ON WITH GHANAIANS IN THE UNITED STATES SPECIFICALLY. IT IS SOO SAD THAT YOU ARE SOO HAPPY TO MARRY SOMEONE FROM THE SAME COUNTRY WITH YOU AND YET YOU GUYS DONT GET ALONG AT HOME.
IT IS VERY SAD WHAT IS GOING ON WITH GHANAIANS IN THE UNITED STATES SPECIFICALLY. IT IS SOO SAD THAT YOU ARE SOO HAPPY TO MARRY SOMEONE FROM THE SAME COUNTRY WITH YOU AND YET YOU GUYS DONT GET ALONG AT HOME.
Monica b 9 years ago
That was a very powerfull article
That was a very powerfull article
Joe Accra 9 years ago
Joshua and "her" wife? That whole section is so f*cked up!
Joshua and "her" wife? That whole section is so f*cked up!
richmond afrifa 9 years ago
The value is the same ,they all cheat non of them can be trusted .
The value is the same ,they all cheat non of them can be trusted .
Joe Accra 9 years ago
Why are you people shocked? Most of the characters in this play live double lives, including marrying their own siblings for visa. If you can marry your own sibling for whatever reason, you can even kill - how much more divo ... read full comment
Why are you people shocked? Most of the characters in this play live double lives, including marrying their own siblings for visa. If you can marry your own sibling for whatever reason, you can even kill - how much more divorce.
Oti Akenteng 9 years ago
Well written Stephen.And i think i agree with you both are the cheaters.
Well written Stephen.And i think i agree with you both are the cheaters.
the eye Hamburg 9 years ago
A very enlightened and well written article, Stephen. I think both parteners are to be blamed for cheating. Marriage people should seek the face of God and have understanding.
Meanwhile, thank you very much for such a tho ... read full comment
A very enlightened and well written article, Stephen. I think both parteners are to be blamed for cheating. Marriage people should seek the face of God and have understanding.
Meanwhile, thank you very much for such a thought- provoking article!
Thanks, Steve,Senior Akoks.
JOE NIPAMU 9 years ago
We are all guilty of cheating, both men and women. Marriage is based on trust and love, so why do we suddenly become enemies when we go abroad. HMMMMM
We are all guilty of cheating, both men and women. Marriage is based on trust and love, so why do we suddenly become enemies when we go abroad. HMMMMM
Stephen-Pipes Afrifa 9 years ago
This is very disheartening and in the case of Joshua, it's much more disheartening. This is one of the issues that prevent some men into entering marriages.
However, in another case. A man denied to be the father of his ... read full comment
This is very disheartening and in the case of Joshua, it's much more disheartening. This is one of the issues that prevent some men into entering marriages.
However, in another case. A man denied to be the father of his children he had with her old time wife. They all won the American Visa Lottery and have been in US with their children for the past five (5) years. The man was seeing another beautiful woman which compelled him yo deny fatherhood of his children. Unfortunately, the old wife didn't go by the customs and style of living abroad but rather sort to curses from the lesser gods in Ghana.
To cut a long story short, the man died. The woman did this out of anger and pains. These are some of the ordeals people go through abroad which is causing more deaths and divorces.
Let's get some love for each other and stop the "pull them down " syndrome. Women don't be ill advised
Johnny Cash 9 years ago
good script
good script
ebow 9 years ago
The road to "happiness" is never an easy one
The road to "happiness" is never an easy one
O.K 9 years ago
Interesting topic to touch on.
Interesting topic to touch on.
MENSAH A 9 years ago
EBENEZER ADOM ,a.k.a. BEN ,a Taxi driver(SILVER ?) who plies his trade within the washington DC,Maryland,and VA metropolitan area,has being cheating for years with my wedded wife until,she exposed the evil lustful BEN,who had ... read full comment
EBENEZER ADOM ,a.k.a. BEN ,a Taxi driver(SILVER ?) who plies his trade within the washington DC,Maryland,and VA metropolitan area,has being cheating for years with my wedded wife until,she exposed the evil lustful BEN,who had acquired a secret basement for her at ASPEN HILL,20906,MARYLAND,and virtually living with her,though he was supposed to be a married man with children ! BEN,wouldn't stop his evil activities ,though I PERSONALLY caught him in secret places with my wedded wife,BUT HE sped away with her each time ! But l persevered and got BEN's pictures and more of his identity through the help of many,even non Ghanaians, who were fed up with his excessively evil lust ! BEN, the popular Ghanaian DC/VA/MD , Taxi driver has destroyed our 14-year old marriage beyond repairs with his uncontrollable evil lust,leaving our young children's future in a gloomy uncertainty! Such evil lust is what has sent many young men into their early graves in some cultures,but for Ben,l leave him to the power of the Holy Spirit who instituted and sanctified marriages ! If another man has sex with BEN's wife,and BEN will clap for him,then may the prayers of all God-fearing people :Christians,Moslems etc,and those of our traditional priests to their gods daily bless him forever !Hmmm,this BEN guy might be from the Kwawu area ! ON FACEBOOK EBENEZER ADOM,BEN, CALLS HIMSELF: MCKASS BEN !
Mrs.Barimah 8 years ago
I'm married to a Ghanaian,actually I went to Ghana to marry him. I'm American, & he needs to grow up, smart intellengent guy, but he's can be a asshole, when things not going his way. Me as an American country southern girl, ... read full comment
I'm married to a Ghanaian,actually I went to Ghana to marry him. I'm American, & he needs to grow up, smart intellengent guy, but he's can be a asshole, when things not going his way. Me as an American country southern girl, is a lot of miscommunication... Everybody here says our marriage is a fairy tale cause his mom chose me to be his wife, and I just went with flow. I fell in love with him over a 3 month period before meeting him in person, ..he's a mamas boy for sure, he's very strict, and he can be a asshole sometimes. Its his way or no way, and sometimes I feel like its not worth it.
m. 8 years ago
Understood......
Understood......
Lmfao 7 years ago
Heyhey not too fast.
Do you know what the guy put her thtough?some women dont throw it all out there like some men cry babies they act. So you men thinking you know too much watch it no woman is a fool.
Heyhey not too fast.
Do you know what the guy put her thtough?some women dont throw it all out there like some men cry babies they act. So you men thinking you know too much watch it no woman is a fool.
Lmfao 7 years ago
Heyhey not too fast.
Do you know what the guy put her through?some women dont throw it all out there like some men cry babies,
So you men thinking you know too much watch it no woman is a fool.
Heyhey not too fast.
Do you know what the guy put her through?some women dont throw it all out there like some men cry babies,
So you men thinking you know too much watch it no woman is a fool.
Yes, you are right, but we cannot do anything about it. I have to test abroad women. Don't you agree with me?.
I feel very sorry on your judgment, s
ome of us are still faithful despite the temptations. We are not trading in our righteousness for lust. Faithfulness forever I shall be, Amen.
I dont know about Europe but in the US it is estimated that 7 out of 10 divorces are initiated and caused by women so as to take the house from the man, throw him on child support and claim alimony.
Its actually financiall ...
read full comment
It is unfortunate that most of the comments so far seem so shallow and lack of appreciation for the subject matter that is tearing so many people apart. This is an issue that has far reaching social impact in Ghana...its more ...
read full comment
KL, I have not read all the comments but reading the article, I asked myself if the examples (whether real or not) were the extremes. For example, in the fist example, I cannot understand why sympathetic Ghanaians bought a ti ...
read full comment
"In another development, Joshua, a mechanic in Accra travelled to the USA with her wife...He appealed to him to cover her wife with his papers which he readily did".
Steve, is Joshua a man or a woman?
Thanks
Oh K Boateng, please forgive him, it's typing error
Ok Akos, I didn't say the writer did anything wrong; I just wanted to ascertain the gender of Joshua. You know, many things can happen in this day and age. There are some people who look and sound feminine but are males in na ...
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Mr PHD, urs dont mak no sense, u just don't get. Just go n teach. Leave us to read for we do understand his bad English.
Boateng, that was an oversight and a simple error. I have a degree in ENGLISH so don't think I will refer to Joshua as a woman. It was an oversight. The content of the article is what you should talk about.
Lets build Ghana together in love hard work and honesty.
A GERSIS REPORTING
FELLOW Ghanaians
This guy, Atta owusu is Adolf Rockson.
Adolf is running around London collecting barbar shop stories about Ghanaian women and their sex habits. Here is Adolf appointing himself as ...
read full comment
Atta Owusu is certainly not Adolf Rockson. Atta doesn't write on political issues. Atta's articles are mostly about social and relationship issues in Ghana. He doesn't write articles every day like Adolf.
Atta Owusu does ...
read full comment
A woman was in bed having sex with Gersis her husband's friend when the telephone rang.
After hanging up, she says, ''That was Adolf, but don't worry -- he won't be home for a while. He's playing cards with you.''
Maybe Adolf was playing cards alone in the bedroom with Gersis' wife...
That should make Gersis's hard on droop like a wilting flower...
Hey the man who calls himself A GERSIS, note this very well. I am not Rockson Adolf. Stop fooling and don't confuse readrs. Write to my emal and I will tell you who I am.
Owusu, this topic was the basis for my masters thesis at Columbia Graduate School of Journalism a 13 years ago...it is archived in the school's library for eternity....
It sures pleases me that you have revisited it and re ...
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Columbia University Graduate School of Journalism in New York City
Western laws regarding marriage and divorce makes marriage impossible and non successful unless the individuals invoved chose to stay outside of Western laws.
Its clear cos the marriages that continue to hold are mostly i ...
read full comment
You'd be shocked!
Initially, I had no intention of commenting on this article, interesting though it is. As many people are pointing out, it is a general problem which has been well researched in Western societies.
No ...
read full comment
Well written..I have always said that the high price of living abroad, which includes the huge negative impact on families back home...is often overlooked and understated. Please, continue to write about this. I have often th ...
read full comment
Oh my GH
Before I could finish reading the stories above, I could easily associate the tone to Ashanti Tribe. Who else is property conscious than an Ashanti or marry more than one woman? 80% of your stories are right and you cannot c ...
read full comment
A guy was standing in a bar when a stranger walked in. After a while they got to talking and at about 10:30 p.m. the second guy said: "I better get home. My wife doesn't like me to stay out during late night." The first guy r ...
read full comment
Do you have a blog?
you seem to have very interesting stories?
Certainly, most people fall in love with one another and marry to enjoy life together. In the natural world, things (read future events) can fail to go according to plan, breeding misunderstanding or even mistrust. cheating i ...
read full comment
Many women become too clever when they come abroad. They work and keep their money apart. They delegate all financial problems to the man whilst they build mansions secretly. Many of the marital problems with couples abroad s ...
read full comment
This is exactly what a woman did to me four years ago. We got a Canadian vusa. When we got ther my cousin covered her with his papers. My wife in turn used her papers to marry her brother. I was arrested by the police at my w ...
read full comment
Marry her brother? Sick people. Greedy bastards!
K. Essilfie, I feel your pain. I am very sad you had to go through this but know that not all women are selfish. Keep praying and the lord will guide you. I have been married to my legon sweetheart for 14 years and we have ro ...
read full comment
great article God bless you
NOW I UNDERSTOODING WHY MY WIFE SLEEP WITH HER CELL PHNE UNDER HER PILLOW.AND HOEW SHE LISTEN TO CALLS IN THE BATHROOM.NOW WE DO SEX 0 OR 1 TIME IN THE MONTH.first we do 5x a week oooh!
It's always easy to blame the man bcos his secret deeds normally come to light. Have asked the women the kind of sexual relationship they maintain with their husbands. I will use myself as an example. I am married to a Ghanai ...
read full comment
Excellent article, I agree with you, all are guilty!!
IT IS VERY SAD WHAT IS GOING ON WITH GHANAIANS IN THE UNITED STATES SPECIFICALLY. IT IS SOO SAD THAT YOU ARE SOO HAPPY TO MARRY SOMEONE FROM THE SAME COUNTRY WITH YOU AND YET YOU GUYS DONT GET ALONG AT HOME.
That was a very powerfull article
Joshua and "her" wife? That whole section is so f*cked up!
The value is the same ,they all cheat non of them can be trusted .
Why are you people shocked? Most of the characters in this play live double lives, including marrying their own siblings for visa. If you can marry your own sibling for whatever reason, you can even kill - how much more divo ...
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Well written Stephen.And i think i agree with you both are the cheaters.
A very enlightened and well written article, Stephen. I think both parteners are to be blamed for cheating. Marriage people should seek the face of God and have understanding.
Meanwhile, thank you very much for such a tho ...
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We are all guilty of cheating, both men and women. Marriage is based on trust and love, so why do we suddenly become enemies when we go abroad. HMMMMM
This is very disheartening and in the case of Joshua, it's much more disheartening. This is one of the issues that prevent some men into entering marriages.
However, in another case. A man denied to be the father of his ...
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good script
The road to "happiness" is never an easy one
Interesting topic to touch on.
EBENEZER ADOM ,a.k.a. BEN ,a Taxi driver(SILVER ?) who plies his trade within the washington DC,Maryland,and VA metropolitan area,has being cheating for years with my wedded wife until,she exposed the evil lustful BEN,who had ...
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I'm married to a Ghanaian,actually I went to Ghana to marry him. I'm American, & he needs to grow up, smart intellengent guy, but he's can be a asshole, when things not going his way. Me as an American country southern girl, ...
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Understood......
Heyhey not too fast.
Do you know what the guy put her thtough?some women dont throw it all out there like some men cry babies they act. So you men thinking you know too much watch it no woman is a fool.
Heyhey not too fast.
Do you know what the guy put her through?some women dont throw it all out there like some men cry babies,
So you men thinking you know too much watch it no woman is a fool.