Are guys of today scared of the corporate lady?

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Albert 11 years ago

...don't think "corporate ladies" will scare me away for the mere fact that they are in the corporate world. Most of these our "corporate ladies" are respectful and responsible but some are also rude and arrogant as you clear ...
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...don't think "corporate ladies" will scare me away for the mere fact that they are in the corporate world. Most of these our "corporate ladies" are respectful and responsible but some are also rude and arrogant as you clearly stated per your research. Some tend to ignore and look down upon some guys walking on the streets who doesn't appear to be working in the corporate world. First impression last last for a long time it has been acclaimed but appearances are also deceptive. Granting audience for at least a minute wouldn't depreciate your tag as a "corporate lady".
Sometimes it's amazing the kind of people and characters these our "corporate ladies" when they are outside the corporate world.
A real and genuine man wouldn't be scared away from these "corporate ladies". Trust me, get close and to know them, some are just a fake identity of who they are...
Lady 11 years ago

those who always feel low self esteem will always tag corporate lady as rude. i love the word "dream chasers", corporate ladies want to excell and achieve their dreams while the some men choose to be idle and dream to be spoo ...
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those who always feel low self esteem will always tag corporate lady as rude. i love the word "dream chasers", corporate ladies want to excell and achieve their dreams while the some men choose to be idle and dream to be spoon fed as well. so with these idle makers, leave them to rot with their poor perception about us
Kwame Rought 11 years ago

The fact of the matter is that you have rude women and men at all levels. There are men who admire achievers and there are those who fear them. I love women with fine minds, not dumb ones!

The fact of the matter is that you have rude women and men at all levels. There are men who admire achievers and there are those who fear them. I love women with fine minds, not dumb ones!
Military Man 11 years ago

...brush...
Just as it's not fair for some men to have poor perception of corporate women.

Every individual have personal choices and preferences in life.
My friends and I definitely DO NOT rely on well-to-do women to sp ...
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...brush...
Just as it's not fair for some men to have poor perception of corporate women.

Every individual have personal choices and preferences in life.
My friends and I definitely DO NOT rely on well-to-do women to spoon feed us. We 'spoon feed' ourselves because we have the means to.We have our own professions that we are good at. So we don't dig our hands in other people's pockets and purses to survive.That's what a good education does. A good education gives one the means to stand on his or her own feet.

I'm not claiming that you won't come across men who are 'moochers' but that depends solely on the kinda circles you move in or with.

As equally, there are women 'moochers' out there too.

So Lady, you don't expect to come across classier guys who don't like to be spoon fed by corporate women if all what your antenna picks up are "low self esteemers" or "idle makers" if those are the kinda circles you move in.

My advice to you is cast your net a bit wider and you would be pleasantly surprised at what you might land. Just don't keep your nose stuck in the air, thinking that all men are losers, ok?
Loosen up a bit, Lady!
Military Man 11 years ago

2nd paragraph should have read:

"Every individual HAS personal choices and preferences in life"

2nd paragraph should have read:

"Every individual HAS personal choices and preferences in life"
Military Man 11 years ago

Personally, these corporate women don't scare me one bit.
The reason is that I'm just as educated as they are. I have my own profession I rely on for my upkeep so it's not like my intention in approaching them is to mooch of ...
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Personally, these corporate women don't scare me one bit.
The reason is that I'm just as educated as they are. I have my own profession I rely on for my upkeep so it's not like my intention in approaching them is to mooch off them.
I can hold my own as far finances go so approaching them is mainly going to be on personal level if they catch my fancy.
I get attracted to brainy women because I like their minds which bring out their persona. A woman with self confidence coupled with smarts is sexy by my definition.

I have always dealt with women who had power in one form or another so that's where my confidence comes from.

Starting from my own home during my childhood, I had a grandma who didn't set a foot in a classroom but I admired her for her decisiveness,love for her grandchildren and her sharp mind. In short, she was the matriach of the family. Then through elementary
school up to the university, I came across brainy women in the form of teachers, lecturers and most poignant of all, classmates. These women classmates and their kind are the same women who have matured and gone on into the corporate world. So why should I feel intimidated when I come across them in the business and corporate world?

The catch is to consider and respect them as equals because I know and appreciate the hard work involved in getting to where they are.

So for me, I can approach these women with ease, no matter what my intentions are... be it for business or personal reasons.

I enjoyed reading and commenting on your piece, Bernice!!!
Bernice 11 years ago

Thank you all for sharing your view on my write up

Thank you all for sharing your view on my write up
Bernice 11 years ago

Millitary man, am happy you have always had a good woman you looked up to, from your grandmother to teachers and lecturers. i hope you are doing well.

Millitary man, am happy you have always had a good woman you looked up to, from your grandmother to teachers and lecturers. i hope you are doing well.
Military Man 11 years ago

Thanks, Bernice.

Yes...I'm doing well and I hope you are too.
Have a Merry Christmas and A Happy New Year!!!!

Thanks, Bernice.

Yes...I'm doing well and I hope you are too.
Have a Merry Christmas and A Happy New Year!!!!

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