Why would a married woman give exchange her number with a man and then say that this is "strictly platonic" and any attempt to 'strike a relationship is off limits'?!!!
First of all, what are the circumstances in which peo ... read full comment
Why would a married woman give exchange her number with a man and then say that this is "strictly platonic" and any attempt to 'strike a relationship is off limits'?!!!
First of all, what are the circumstances in which people exchange contacts? - professional practice - preferable to give an official card with a work number on it. depending on the nature of the professional relationship and employer's expectations, mobile numbers may be on e.g. complementary cards, but they are not meant for people to call each other on a social basis.
2 Social circles - mutual family friends, part of a social network etc. in which case your partner should know who you are relating to and the understanding from all sides from the onset would have been governed by the natural rules of the social network.
Why on earth would you strike a friendship with someone you do not know or e.g. go to a party, meet people, chat with them and then exchange numbers 'on the assumption that you are starting a platonic relationship'?
You are certainly right that many a marriage has suffered because of misunderstanding between partners for these very reasons. My advice is simply that all sides - both men and women in a marriage must understand the boundaries of striking relationships with third parties who will not add value to their own relationship, and who may in the end by the cause of the relationship suffering.
These are my views on the subject since you ask for opinions.
amanfoo 9 years ago
not advisable
not advisable
Kk 9 years ago
Ok can single men give their numbers to married women, and can married men give their numbers to married women. I see nothing wrong with married women giving out their numbers to other guys. If she is a freak then kick her ... read full comment
Ok can single men give their numbers to married women, and can married men give their numbers to married women. I see nothing wrong with married women giving out their numbers to other guys. If she is a freak then kick her ass out, but u can't sit on your wife rights just because u are insecure as a man.
stella 9 years ago
It true
It true
AKORABS 9 years ago
Nothing wrong with exchanging numbers. Whatever happens after that got nothing to do with the exchange. A lot else happens with no number exchange. A married woman who's gone off track has gone off track.
Nothing wrong with exchanging numbers. Whatever happens after that got nothing to do with the exchange. A lot else happens with no number exchange. A married woman who's gone off track has gone off track.
Akosua 9 years ago
Why are asking for comments
Why are asking for comments
Jose 9 years ago
It's all about trust, you might have a male friend before your husband why should you give him up because you are now marred, no thats wrong, your husband is more than likely practicing what he doesn't want you to do. Time ha ... read full comment
It's all about trust, you might have a male friend before your husband why should you give him up because you are now marred, no thats wrong, your husband is more than likely practicing what he doesn't want you to do. Time has changed it's good to have friends from either sex,because who knows tomorrow, and mostly one tend to know one'so friend more than the husband.
Kofi 9 years ago
Yes, we all have had friends growing up; and there's the chance of reconnecting with such people in our married life. Having such friends and having occasional conversations could be interesting and beneficial. However, we al ... read full comment
Yes, we all have had friends growing up; and there's the chance of reconnecting with such people in our married life. Having such friends and having occasional conversations could be interesting and beneficial. However, we all need to be exercise caution and be disciplined. Be bold to voice out your displeasure if the friend is getting overly flirtatious; and more importantly, bring in your husband into the conversations. This way, everybody will be kept in check.
Jose 9 years ago
It's all about trust, you might have a male friend before your husband why should you give him up because you are now marred, no thats wrong, your husband is more than likely practicing what he doesn't want you to do. Time ha ... read full comment
It's all about trust, you might have a male friend before your husband why should you give him up because you are now marred, no thats wrong, your husband is more than likely practicing what he doesn't want you to do. Time has changed it's good to have friends from either sex,because who knows tomorrow, and mostly one tend to know one'so friend more than the husband. If the givinget out the number is innocent then why not, you should be matured enough to handle any situation then of course there's your husband to protect you.
Kwabena Yeboah 9 years ago
You did not have much to say on the subject, and I suspect your marriage broke down as a result of giving your number to a man you have just met, or perhaps your husband gave you hell for giving your number out to another man ... read full comment
You did not have much to say on the subject, and I suspect your marriage broke down as a result of giving your number to a man you have just met, or perhaps your husband gave you hell for giving your number out to another man.
Really, I do not see your point in writing this article other than to gauge public opinion of your action. I am really struggling with your article because it so outlandish it is not funny. How on earth would a married woman exchange contacts with a man she does not know, unless perhaps the married woman has a passing interest in the man she has just met, which could develop into sexual encounters. A married woman must be so promiscuous (Ashaawo) to be giving her contacts to men.
Can married men exchange contacts with females?
Why would a married woman give exchange her number with a man and then say that this is "strictly platonic" and any attempt to 'strike a relationship is off limits'?!!!
First of all, what are the circumstances in which peo ...
read full comment
not advisable
Ok can single men give their numbers to married women, and can married men give their numbers to married women. I see nothing wrong with married women giving out their numbers to other guys. If she is a freak then kick her ...
read full comment
It true
Nothing wrong with exchanging numbers. Whatever happens after that got nothing to do with the exchange. A lot else happens with no number exchange. A married woman who's gone off track has gone off track.
Why are asking for comments
It's all about trust, you might have a male friend before your husband why should you give him up because you are now marred, no thats wrong, your husband is more than likely practicing what he doesn't want you to do. Time ha ...
read full comment
Yes, we all have had friends growing up; and there's the chance of reconnecting with such people in our married life. Having such friends and having occasional conversations could be interesting and beneficial. However, we al ...
read full comment
It's all about trust, you might have a male friend before your husband why should you give him up because you are now marred, no thats wrong, your husband is more than likely practicing what he doesn't want you to do. Time ha ...
read full comment
You did not have much to say on the subject, and I suspect your marriage broke down as a result of giving your number to a man you have just met, or perhaps your husband gave you hell for giving your number out to another man ...
read full comment