Lifestyle: The problem with no sex before marriage

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E. A. ADU GYAMFI 9 years ago

In all, your stance is that once a person activates the sexual drive, he/she can no longer control it. But I don't think we must behave like the other creatures who cannot control their sexual urges, and so "blow it" when the ...
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In all, your stance is that once a person activates the sexual drive, he/she can no longer control it. But I don't think we must behave like the other creatures who cannot control their sexual urges, and so "blow it" when they feel the need. If physical effort cannot help you to silence the activated sexual drive, try PRAYER POWER. it is appointed unto all of us to die once, and after that, JUDGEMENT. Heaven is NEVER for the sexually immoral, so in all your getting, get self control, which is among the fruits of the spirit. If you open your life to my Jesus, he will live inside you and give you self control. After this, the activated sexual drive will keep mute until when you are settled maritally. With man, this is impossible, but with God, all things are possible. Amen!!
kululu 9 years ago

Keeping a virginity vow without the right character to maintain the marriage is a futile exercise. There is nothing in virginity than its name.Happiness should be the goal in marriage and this comes from love patience and und ...
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Keeping a virginity vow without the right character to maintain the marriage is a futile exercise. There is nothing in virginity than its name.Happiness should be the goal in marriage and this comes from love patience and understanding the two dedicate to the marriage.
ANABA TWO. E-mail:anabatwo@gmail.com 9 years ago

I SAY IT LOUD "NO SEX BEFORE MARTIAGE" ohj may those in that club contact me to join. Because of God's Word as my Lamp. What can I say about Joseph in Genesis 39:7-13, and other Bible Light for my feet such as 1 Cor 6:12-13, ...
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I SAY IT LOUD "NO SEX BEFORE MARTIAGE" ohj may those in that club contact me to join. Because of God's Word as my Lamp. What can I say about Joseph in Genesis 39:7-13, and other Bible Light for my feet such as 1 Cor 6:12-13, 18-20; 10:8, Jude 1:6-8. Please the writer your story about the man who gave the Ghanaian lady STDs the marriage was not true prepare or the story is not true. Didn't they went for MEDICAL CHECK? BLOOD GROUPS? ETC. If you want to know more about this in the Bible, I can tell you but please forgive me because I cannot give all the verses and explains them herr. In the Bible check test IT WAS THE BEST VERY EFFECTIVE TEST BEFORE GOD. Any any who fail and lied was killing INSTANTLY TRAGEDILY. But today nobody knows, but only the TINY ONES. Please those having sex before marriage please I DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO CONDEMN YOU TO HELL. BUT I HAVE THE RIGHT TO TELL YOUR IT IS SIN AND YOU WILL END UP IN HELL read Isaiah 58:1, Lam 2:13-14, Ezekiel 33:7-13, Isaiah 55:7, 1 Cor 10:8, Jude 1:6-8. In the last days, someone must be A WATCH FOR THE MASSES TO WARNING THEM FROM WRAT OF GOD ALMIGHT ON SIN. Anaba Two. Thank you
AGBEVE AGBENYEGA 9 years ago

I love to deal with issues from the practical standpoint! This article is very practical! I love it! I am a christian and believe in the Holy Bible but the holy scriptures must be followed with a touch of common sense!

I love to deal with issues from the practical standpoint! This article is very practical! I love it! I am a christian and believe in the Holy Bible but the holy scriptures must be followed with a touch of common sense!
ike 9 years ago

no sex be4 marriage the right club

no sex be4 marriage the right club
Priscilla Nana Adu 9 years ago

You are right but you have to get a believe and a good christian like you who is keeping that vow......

You are right but you have to get a believe and a good christian like you who is keeping that vow......
Sal 9 years ago

I'd definitely agree with you for an individual to find someone who believes in the same thing as you. It has been in the ancient Moral code to be naturally committed to someone you have sex with. This has got nothing to do w ...
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I'd definitely agree with you for an individual to find someone who believes in the same thing as you. It has been in the ancient Moral code to be naturally committed to someone you have sex with. This has got nothing to do with a higher faith. It's a subject of morality and it's been there ever since.

I agree with your point. However any good reader would certainly see that you are trying to subtly 'tarnish' the image of sex before marriage.

Your paragraph on sexual compatibility and chemistry and how you can only ascertain by having sex with them raises an eyebrow. It makes a person wonder what you have done with all the ones you judged as 'sexually incompatible'. The likes of you, in my opinion just look at sex as 'it' and therefore go on to objectify ladies for that purpose. So the lady becomes a 'lab rat' that you use to test your 'sexual chemistry' an if she does not match up she 'dies' or ends up maimed?

Its a generation where there's enormous moral degradation now. But there's a reason why marriage was put before sexual relations. The fact that the opposite is common these days doesn't make it the accepted way. And I see you trying to slay that 'marriage before sex club' subconsciously.

Imagine going into a candy shop, picking up a wrapped and seal candy, tearing it open inside the shop, putting it into your mouth and deciding that you won't pay for it because 'you think' it doesn't augur well with your taste buds. So you spit it out or in the case you actually eat it wholly and walk past the counter and go your way.

We all need education in some areas.
Sal 9 years ago

Maritally committed... not naturally.

Maritally committed... not naturally.
Elito 9 years ago

whichever side you join has it own implications.

whichever side you join has it own implications.
sir Dee 9 years ago

if you can't control your sexual desires forget about being faithful to your wife

if you can't control your sexual desires forget about being faithful to your wife

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