My husband is fathering a child that's not his - Woman confesses

In the wake of Ghana's BlackStar's captain, Asamoah Gyan admitting that his marriage to Gifty Gyan has hit the rock, hence, has petitioned the Accra High Court to annul their 16-years relationship.

He has also denied fathering their three children and is demanding a DNA test to be carried out on all three to ascertain if he is the father of the children.

An anonymous Ghanaian woman has confessed to Facebook's relationship expert David Papa-Bondze Mbir that her husband is fathering a child that's not his.

In Mr Bondze's latest series titled #Mychatwithher, shared on his wall on October 30, 2018, the woman who willingly volunteered to share her story has been at the center of discussion on social media.

Though her husband takes very good care of her children, his continuous cheating character pushed her to also get a 'side-kick' to satisfy her other desires.

The utmost pleasure she gets from also cheating on her husband is that "I enjoy watching my husband feel like he’s the smartest".

When David Papa-Bondze asked her if she was not scared of what she is doing, she answered "My side-kick is married. And, I know his wife. A very good woman, so he is not supposed to leave her. My husband has a great sense of humor, and I need a little dose of that in my life, that’s why I haven’t been bothered by his cheating. He makes me smile a lot. And, he loves the kids".

Read the full chat below:

#MyChatWithHer (For Better For…)

Facebook Lady (FL): Hi Dave

David Bondze (DB): Greetings!

FL: Hmmm!

DB: How are you?

FL: I am fine. How are you?

DB: I am doing alright

FL: My husband is cheating on me

DB: How do you know?

FL: I know

DB: How do you know?

FL: His friend cautioned me

DB: And, you took his word for it?

FL: His word came with proof.

DB: Hmmm! Does your husband know you know?

FL: No

DB: I see

FL: Dave, I am not bothered

DB: Why is that?

FL: Because I keep my own side-kick

DB: Smh

FL: No one is perfect

DB: Are you happy with what is going on in your life?

FL: No, but I enjoy watching my husband feel like he’s the smartest

DB: I see. Who is this other man you are sleeping with?

FL: The father of one of my kids

DB: You had a child before marriage?

FL: Oh, no. I had his child while married

DB: Your husband is fathering another man’s kid?

FL: People do it all the time

DB: Are you not scared?

FL: My side-kick is married. And, I know his wife. A very good woman, so he is not supposed to leave her. My husband has a great sense of humor, and I need a little dose of that in my life, that’s why I haven’t been bothered by his cheating. He makes me smile a lot. And, he loves the kids

DB: Does the side-kick know he has a baby with you?

FL: I think he knows. But I don’t care. They are my husband’s kids. I needed a different gene in my offspring’s. And side-kick is very cute, and intelligent. I needed a piece of his cuteness and intelligence in my family

DB: So, it was just for a child?

FL: No. We still make time for us.

DB: As in sex?

FL: Yes, and more. We are in love.

DB: Are you the only one he is sleeping with?

FL: I don’t think about that. Am I the only woman my wedded husband fucks?

DB: Hmmm!

FL: Life is not a fairytale anymore, Dave.

DB: How about STI’s?

FL: They will be careful out there. They know I love them and would expect them to keep me safe. They are responsible men.

DB: I see. What advice would you give to other married women staying with cheating spouses?

FL: If you are independent enough to take care of yourself and the kids, walk out of such a marriage. If your only source of support is the husband, stay in the marriage, but look for care elsewhere. There are caring men everywhere. You need to feel important in the eyes of someone important.

DB: And, this is your advice?

FL: Yes.

DB: Thank you for this chat.

FL: Thank you, Dave.