SHS Love, Hustle and Divorce: Richard Nii Armah Quaye’s journey with ex-wife

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FRANKIE 4 days ago

SLAV£RY OF MEN BY WOMEN*
Every Man irrespective of who they are must read the book by a German writer Esther Villar In her book "The Manipulated Man"
This book has caused outrage and *hostile criticism* from women, it exp ...
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SLAV£RY OF MEN BY WOMEN*
Every Man irrespective of who they are must read the book by a German writer Esther Villar In her book "The Manipulated Man"
This book has caused outrage and *hostile criticism* from women, it explains how women since the earliest times have manipulated men and turned them into their slaves, they have *pretended* to be the oppressed s.£¥ while in the real sense they are the oppressors.
She explains how a woman manipulates a man skillfully by steps like *courtship* and finally *marriage* , hence the saying “ *a man chases a woman until SHE catches him”* .
In her book she explains how the man is *tricked* to care for the woman all his life and her offspring.
He rolls the stone like *Sisyphus* and in turn gets rewarded by a few minutes of s£xual pleasure.
We can, by observing Esther Villars assertions that a man is a slave of his desires and the woman uses and has used it for thousands of years as a stick and carrot to keep the man chasing vanity and commit his life to serving her.
She goes ahead to explain the *rivalry of women* , how each woman feels the powerful urge and need to own a male for herself.
Like a *sl@ve owner* she detests any move the man would make to offer his services to another woman. She uses all means to keep the man to herself and her offspring alone.
Esther Villar's sentiments are captured by Nigerian Poet, critic and writer, Chinweizu Ibekwe in his book, “The Anatomy of Female Power” (AFP) and Will Farrel's, “The Predatory Female”.
They all push the theory that all societies are matriarchal and not patriarchal as we are pushed and forced to believe. *Matriarchy has ruled not through brawn but wits and tricks;* women feigning weakness to be protected etc. Thus the male becomes the most exploited s.£¥ in human history, (in wars the man is always ready to die for the woman; he has been trained to do that).
Chinweizu calls the idea of *dating* and *courtship* , *training*, like that of a horse. It is during this time that a woman having kept the man on a leash by denying him s.£¥ and getting him addicted to her by false charms, trains and breaks him to whatever she wants him to become.
The marriage celebration becomes a celebration for the *woman and her friends,* and they all congratulate her for having succeeded in getting herself a *slave* .
A man on that *wedding* day waves goodbye to his independence and his coalition of males and commits himself to a *Sisyphean* life, rolling the stone, an act he cannot abandon having *society* and the *government* checking on him and always ready to *jail* , *shame* or *exile* him for absconding his duties of slavery.
Thus the government and society helps the woman in keeping her *slave*(man) in check.
Chinweizu gives a narration of how women are trained by older matriarchs to *tame* men. He explains how a man is trained to rely on women by his own mother.
A man is *shamed for cooking* for himself and other domestic chores by his *own mother* who is an agent of the global matriarchal rule.
By getting the man to hate *domestic* works and having it enforced by culture which warns men against going into the kitchen, doing *laundry* etc.
The mother trains his son for the woman who will captivate him and when the time comes she takes hold of the man's stomach and by getting the man addicted to her body she holds him by the two, in *bed* and in the *kitchen* .
With those two weapons she manipulates the man and turns him into her plaything.
In the “Myth of the Male Power”, Esther Villar's “A Man's Right to the Other Woman”; “The Polygamous S£¥”, the authors of those books challenge the narrative that men oppress women, and by detailed research across African, Western and Eastern both in ancient and modern societies, the authors unravel the hidden power of the ruthless matriarchal power that rules the world.
Also Helen E. Fisher did anthropological research of ancient human societies and wrote the book "The S.£¥ Contract, The evolution of human behaviour" 1982.
Asempa 4 days ago

Maybe only in Germany. Stop the noisesence !

Maybe only in Germany. Stop the noisesence !
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RAS MARLEY 4 days ago

Thank you FRANKIE for this valuable Research and Information. MARRIAGE IS NOT A COMMERCIAL TRANSACTION or a FINANCIAL INVESTMENT SCHEME. The Judge was very right in his Judgment.

Thank you FRANKIE for this valuable Research and Information. MARRIAGE IS NOT A COMMERCIAL TRANSACTION or a FINANCIAL INVESTMENT SCHEME. The Judge was very right in his Judgment.
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Asempa 4 days ago

The judge has been bribed !

The judge has been bribed !
Johnny 4 days ago

Exactly. The lady has a good case, she dropped out of university to support the husband complete his own. While working she used her savings to support the husband for further studies abroad .The man came back to Ghana and ha ...
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Exactly. The lady has a good case, she dropped out of university to support the husband complete his own. While working she used her savings to support the husband for further studies abroad .The man came back to Ghana and had to use the wife's savings to start his current biz.The judge shd had considered all these facts and given the wife a share in their biz. 50% of the man's properties will be a fair judgement. The wife has sacrificed so much for the man.
Amango Mo 4 days ago

Justice Dorgu is not serious. He needs to be reprimanded. Has he suffered brokenheart B4? I know him. He might has taken bribe. Rnaq guys greased him palm, probably.

Justice Dorgu is not serious. He needs to be reprimanded. Has he suffered brokenheart B4? I know him. He might has taken bribe. Rnaq guys greased him palm, probably.
Osei Kwabena 4 days ago

Ghanaweb, there is no consistency in your publication. The article needs to be checked entirely before it is published. The repetition of the contents are too much. Please take note.

Ghanaweb, there is no consistency in your publication. The article needs to be checked entirely before it is published. The repetition of the contents are too much. Please take note.
Kk 3 days ago

Its à useless and senseless publication paaaaaaza

Its à useless and senseless publication paaaaaaza

joebowy 2 days ago

The write-up is incoherent bcos the writer was doing 'cut and paste' to suit himself.

The write-up is incoherent bcos the writer was doing 'cut and paste' to suit himself.
Uncle L 4 days ago

He paid off the judge. The judgement goes against Ghanaian law and he should be sanctioned for taking bribe. The judge is not a moral authority to make judgements to discourage divorce. Divorce exists as a legal dissolution i ...
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He paid off the judge. The judgement goes against Ghanaian law and he should be sanctioned for taking bribe. The judge is not a moral authority to make judgements to discourage divorce. Divorce exists as a legal dissolution in Ghanaian statute and whether he personally agrees with it or not it is part of Ghanas legal system. Its not a crime to be punished with a deterrent. The competence and integrity of the judge is seriously compromised. He should He investigated by the bar and sacked. The quality of legal professionals in this country is seriously low.
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A 4 days ago

The judgement is crude, unfair and heavy handed. Joana has from the scratch been with Richard. Invested heavily in the marriage financially, emotionally and physically. It’s my prayer the Appeal goes in her favor. Obvio ...
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The judgement is crude, unfair and heavy handed. Joana has from the scratch been with Richard. Invested heavily in the marriage financially, emotionally and physically. It’s my prayer the Appeal goes in her favor. Obviously not the ghc50 but something appreciable and the full house. Richard is a millionaire now and so she deserves more than a single house. Hmmm our Judges.
Atta Kay 4 days ago

The guy is a foolish man, he's allowed so called celebrities to compete with his wife now that he thinks he's a successful biz man.The wife has proven to be his backbone. Initially many thought she was a Gold Digger.

The guy is a foolish man, he's allowed so called celebrities to compete with his wife now that he thinks he's a successful biz man.The wife has proven to be his backbone. Initially many thought she was a Gold Digger.
Aku 4 days ago

Wow 300k awarded to prevent divorces. Hmmmmmmmm

Wow 300k awarded to prevent divorces. Hmmmmmmmm
Kofi uk 4 days ago

Oh okay, so this judge wants to discourage divorce, so irrespective of the abuse, the marriage must still go on? What a logical thinking, this only can happen in Ghana

Oh okay, so this judge wants to discourage divorce, so irrespective of the abuse, the marriage must still go on? What a logical thinking, this only can happen in Ghana
Seba 4 days ago

The judment does not reflect the real issue on the ground,i hope the appeals goes in her favour
At least 1 third of the of their total money should be given to her.

The judment does not reflect the real issue on the ground,i hope the appeals goes in her favour
At least 1 third of the of their total money should be given to her.
Yao 4 days ago

So what happens to the microfimance business? I am guessing the wife maintains her shares in the business. If I am not mistaken she put up some start up capital for the business.

So what happens to the microfimance business? I am guessing the wife maintains her shares in the business. If I am not mistaken she put up some start up capital for the business.
Mr Ibu 4 days ago

So the judge expect the woman to use the 300,000 ghc to take of the kids while the gentleman is chilling in private jets with Ashawo? By the way who says the woman initiated the divorce? The man's life changed towards the wom ...
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So the judge expect the woman to use the 300,000 ghc to take of the kids while the gentleman is chilling in private jets with Ashawo? By the way who says the woman initiated the divorce? The man's life changed towards the woman after she has helped him to make it in life. Now chilling with Hajia4real and co while stays at home in pain. The judge is aboa

Betty 4 days ago

THE JOURNEY FOR THE COUPLES TO GO AHEAD IN THAT MANNER,NOT GH300,000 OUT OF BILLIONS. EQUITION SHOULD APPLIED

THE JOURNEY FOR THE COUPLES TO GO AHEAD IN THAT MANNER,NOT GH300,000 OUT OF BILLIONS. EQUITION SHOULD APPLIED
KUMI K 4 days ago

The judge no be serious judge

The judge no be serious judge
OZYMANDIAS 4 days ago

If that is the true explanation of how they started life and where they had got to now, then the lady deserves exactly half of what they had made just before the divorce. The lady win win on appeal, if Ghana’s justice syste ...
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If that is the true explanation of how they started life and where they had got to now, then the lady deserves exactly half of what they had made just before the divorce. The lady win win on appeal, if Ghana’s justice system can be trusted.
Aquila 4 days ago

Yes

Yes
Asempa 4 days ago

Why did the judge say that she's a beautiful woman and she can get married again ?? What do you say to an ugly woman, then ? She needs to have a better lawyer, and appeal the judgement. Who bribed the judge?
This judgmen ...
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Why did the judge say that she's a beautiful woman and she can get married again ?? What do you say to an ugly woman, then ? She needs to have a better lawyer, and appeal the judgement. Who bribed the judge?
This judgment is noisesencial ! Remove the judge out of office, he's was bias.
Asempa 4 days ago

Stupid judge. Together these two people started their businesses, now, now, he is cheating on her, so she is divorcing you. She bear you beautiful children. Do you know how painful and difficult is to bring out babies ?
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Stupid judge. Together these two people started their businesses, now, now, he is cheating on her, so she is divorcing you. She bear you beautiful children. Do you know how painful and difficult is to bring out babies ?
The judge's stupid comments tells me he's not fit to be a judge. This lady deserves 50M dollars. This man is worth more than 200M DOLLARS !
Bishop Slim 4 days ago

If the story posted by Ghana web is authentic then the judge should be sent to mental hospital.Our local chiefs (Ga palace or manshia palace )can easily settle this case.
Chief Justice, this is the sort of judges you’re wo ...
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If the story posted by Ghana web is authentic then the judge should be sent to mental hospital.Our local chiefs (Ga palace or manshia palace )can easily settle this case.
Chief Justice, this is the sort of judges you’re working with.
Serious misinterpretation of law.
Dwarf 4 days ago

The man has cheated and used the lady to acquire wealth. She deserves better compensation. No wonder the so-called wealthy people get away with crimes in court

The man has cheated and used the lady to acquire wealth. She deserves better compensation. No wonder the so-called wealthy people get away with crimes in court
Kojo 4 days ago

The whole judiciary system in Ghana needs to be reexamined

The whole judiciary system in Ghana needs to be reexamined
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plo 4 days ago

So,why the divorce after all these long years of hard work?Please, take the case to GOD.

So,why the divorce after all these long years of hard work?Please, take the case to GOD.
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Ivory Mensah 4 days ago

This judgement is flawed. The lady should appeal. The Chorkor rascal bribed the dishonorable judge. The lady contributed a lot to the wealth. But one thing is sure. A Ga man will still have rascality in him whether h ...
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This judgement is flawed. The lady should appeal. The Chorkor rascal bribed the dishonorable judge. The lady contributed a lot to the wealth. But one thing is sure. A Ga man will still have rascality in him whether he becomes a Prof or Rev. They are so greedy and avaricious.
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mosese 4 days ago

women with money, so she wants all his money. she go and work hard, like Nii Armah is currently doing.

women with money, so she wants all his money. she go and work hard, like Nii Armah is currently doing.
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ObuasiMan 4 days ago

The judge on this case is a disgrace to the Ghana legal community and should be investigated for taking bribes.

The judge on this case is a disgrace to the Ghana legal community and should be investigated for taking bribes.
Baz 4 days ago

Some people are very funny, u read just an article on Ghanaweb and u think u have enough information to rule on the case, is it ignorance on what

Some people are very funny, u read just an article on Ghanaweb and u think u have enough information to rule on the case, is it ignorance on what
Paul 4 days ago

She should invest the 300k into a good business and make it work just as the husband did. If 3k initial investment is the only thing needed to make millions then she should start.

She should invest the 300k into a good business and make it work just as the husband did. If 3k initial investment is the only thing needed to make millions then she should start.
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Our judicial needs a clear up . Most judges re being compromised with money to pass certain judgement. N this is one of those cases including dat of Agraada.

Our judicial needs a clear up . Most judges re being compromised with money to pass certain judgement. N this is one of those cases including dat of Agraada.
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Bitter truth 3 days ago

RNAQ, why should u allow your ex-wife to drag u like this because of little settlement and compensation..don’t be a cheap man..how much will it take to settle this your ex-wife..u seem to be a generous man, so why can’t u ...
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RNAQ, why should u allow your ex-wife to drag u like this because of little settlement and compensation..don’t be a cheap man..how much will it take to settle this your ex-wife..u seem to be a generous man, so why can’t u compensate thia your ex-wife to bring an end to all this wahahala..this doesn’t fit u koraa..am sure $500,000 will make this your ex-wife quiet..this is not fair to your wife..Afterall u have kids with her..someone who is worth a billion dollar should not be this cheap to allow your wife to drag u like this..remember your ex-wife has nothing to loose..come on, u can be generous to outsiders but can’t be generous to the mother of your kids..I respect u paa bu t this is below the belt..

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