'Pray against marrying women who use sex toys' – Pastor cautions young men

Pastor John Wesley Amenuku Agble has advised young men seeking lifetime partners to pray against ending up with women who rely heavily on sex toys, arguing that such habits could make it difficult for men to satisfy those partners sexually.

According to the pastor, he recently learned about some sexual habits among young people, including the use of remotely controlled sex toys by women in public spaces.

In a video sighted by GhanaWeb on August 21, 2026, Pastor John Wesley said his decision to spend time with younger people had exposed him to what he described as some of the “secrets of the young people.”

“Because I don’t want to be old, I’m hanging out with the young ones. They were telling me some of the secrets of the young people. My heart was broken. These panties, they wear, there’s a sex toy. They wear it now, the ladies; they are wearing it. Then they have a small remote, it’s in their bag,” he said.

He claimed that some women, including tertiary students, use such devices while attending lectures and in other public settings, with the remote control reportedly kept in their bags.

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“She is wearing a sex toy, she is in a trotro going to school. She’s in a lecture hall, the lecture is two hours. If it’s boring, she just wakes up, she goes to the washroom, she presses the remote. She’s enjoying herself. That’s where we have gotten to. There’s a vibrator down there vibrating,” he noted.

The preacher questioned whether anyone’s son who marries a woman who frequently uses sex toys would be able to satisfy her sexual needs.

The man of God, therefore, urged young men who may intend to marry to take the choice of a life partner seriously and make it a priority in their prayers.

“Tell me, if your son goes to marry this woman, can your son satisfy that woman? Hey, boys, all the boys stand up. Listen to me, you must pray for a wife. Life partner, don’t joke with this prayer. It should be number one on your list. That is if you want to marry…God did not make us vibrators. Women, are we vibrators? If you go and find this girl, can you satisfy her? You will die before your time. So pray that you don’t fall into the hands of such women,” he added.

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