Blowjob vs Anal Sex: Controversial voice note causes tension between couple

A couple has sought pastoral intervention to mend their fractured marriage after the wife, Lucy, vowed to never have sex with her husband, Joe, again.

The couple turned to Pastor Prince Elisha Kofi Osei during his confession show for mediation following accusations of infidelity involving their maid.

The crux of the marital discord emerged when Lucy discovered 'evidence' of Joe's sexual relations with their maid while using her husband's phone due to network issues.

According to her, she stumbled upon a voice note that revealed Joe's ongoing affair with the maid, including allegations of anal sex.

Lucy recounted, “I wanted to send documents for work, but I had a bad network connection, so I used my husband’s phone because he uses a different network. While doing this, a WhatsApp message popped up. It was a voice note, and the name he had saved caught my attention, so I decided to check it.

“I forwarded the message to my phone, and after I was done with my work, I played it. I realized my husband had been sleeping with our maid.

“He has been having anal sex with her, and for us to have sex, I always have to give him oral sex before his manhood will become erect. So, the same manhood that I’ve been putting in my mouth has been used for anal sex. How can I have sex with him again? I didn’t ask him because he clearly wanted her, which is why he went for her. I will never have sex with him again.

“In the voice note, the maid said she is pregnant, and my husband was telling her that he has only been having anal sex with her. So how can she be pregnant?”

Lucy further stated that she is still interested in the marriage however she cannot have anything sexual with her husband.

Joe, meanwhile, has apologized for his actions, attributing his lapse in judgment to an encounter with the maid in her nightgown.

He justified the affair by claiming the maid, who purportedly wanted to remain a virgin until marriage, had consented to anal sex only.

Pastor Prince Elisha Kofi Osei has intervened, urging Lucy to reconsider her decision. The pastor has recommended that Joe undergo a series of tests to ensure there are no infections, hoping to restore some semblance of reconciliation in the marriage.



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