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Dear GhanaWeb,
I accompanied a friend to church one Sunday, and during the service, the pastor pointed his hands toward where I was seated.
Initially, I thought he was calling the person behind me, but he clarified, "Do not turn around. I’m calling you, not the guy behind you."
I approached the altar, and the pastor shared a profound prophecy that has lingered in my thoughts ever since. He conveyed what the Holy Spirit had revealed to him about me.
The pastor disclosed that the woman I have built a life with, faced hardships alongside, and worked hard to support me in becoming the man I am today is not the woman I will be marrying.
He prophesied that I would meet my true wife in two years. He advised me not to resist or disregard the prophecy, as it would undoubtedly come to pass.
In the meantime, I proposed to my current girlfriend a few months ago, and we have been making wedding arrangements. We vowed to love each other until the world's rivers ran dry.
I am struggling to find a way to end things with my current girlfriend. She has been my rock, and we have overcome many obstacles together. It pains me to think about leaving her.
How do I tell Mercy that I want to break up with her? How do I explain to her that, as a pastor, she is not the woman I will spend my life with and have children with?
I am feeling overwhelmed and lost. This situation is weighing heavily on me, and I am unsure of how to proceed. I am seeking advice from your audience, please.
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