Dear GhanaWeb: His infidelity is out of control and I want to inform his wife about it

Dear GhanaWeb,

I know it’s not my business to inform my friend’s wife about her husband’s promiscuous lifestyle but I’m being compelled to do so anytime I see him with a different woman.

Men cannot do away with cheating just like how Bob Marley could not live without his weed so I do not pass any judgment. Having just one side chick should be enough but with my friend, every day comes with a different woman.

He also does it in the open and doesn’t care if his wife or wife’s friends or relatives see him.

As a good friend, I sat him down and earnestly begged him to stop his behaviour. I can’t recall the number of times he gave me his word that the woman I saw him with was his last.

I even suggested divorce if he thinks he no longer feels nothing for his wife but he claims his wife is the love of his life.

It beats my imagination to see him do this to his wife. My friend is married to a good woman; a woman a lot of men would go to great lengths to have as a wife.

Her calm demeanor kills me. She is God-fearing, and do not even know what adjective I can use to qualify her attitude. Nana Yaa is an angel sent from heaven and it hurts to see my friend do this to this beautiful woman.

I know you would be wondering why I am expressing worry over this but the lady, my heart beat for her for almost a year but I didn’t have the mettle to propose to her.

I’m honestly at crosswords and do not know whether I should go on with my plan or let her find out herself.

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