Nollywood actor, Jim Iyke
Nollywood actor Jim Iyke has shared insights into why he struggles to form friendships.
He emphasized his inability to connect with resentful individuals, stating that he prioritizes relationships with people who are not burdened by past grievances.
During his appearance on the "Deep Dive" podcast hosted by comedian Teju Babyface, Iyke clarified that his evolving nature poses a challenge for many to keep pace with.
"We don’t dwell on emotions. We simply don’t have the time for it. That’s why I can't cultivate friendships with just anyone.
"I require someone who isn't fixated on my past actions. I'm constantly evolving, and my rate of growth is too rapid for most to keep up with. Who I was yesterday is not who I am today. Not everyone can adapt to that. I need someone who won't be offended if I don't contact them for weeks on end."
He continued, "There was a time I went without contacting a friend for four months, and neither did he reach out to me. It didn't bother us. But when we do connect, it's meaningful. I don’t seek a friend who expects my presence every day. It's simply impractical because I won't always be available for every occasion."
"I might miss your child's birthday or your anniversary. When you face challenges, I might not be the first person you think to reach out to. However, when I sense that you genuinely need me, I'll move mountains to support you. In essence, you determine the type of friends you want in your life."
