Dear GhanaWeb: My husband fathered children outside of our marriage during a difficult time in my life

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Gabon Dee 1 year ago

Go and ask King Solomon he had 700 wives and 300 side chicks but they all lived together without any rivalry stings,keep kuul and enjoy your marriage wai,obi nya wo ay3

Go and ask King Solomon he had 700 wives and 300 side chicks but they all lived together without any rivalry stings,keep kuul and enjoy your marriage wai,obi nya wo ay3
Bombaclat 1 year ago

What nonsense. What has King solomon got to do with this?

What nonsense. What has King solomon got to do with this?
Ex-Pope 1 year ago

NOTHING ABOUT KING SOLOMON IS TRUE. IT'S ALL A RELIGIOUS FABRICATION.

King who? That religious fabrication? Those religious religious liars also have King Solomon as being the richest man of his time, with gold mines. Yet ...
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NOTHING ABOUT KING SOLOMON IS TRUE. IT'S ALL A RELIGIOUS FABRICATION.

King who? That religious fabrication? Those religious religious liars also have King Solomon as being the richest man of his time, with gold mines. Yet no one can point to any old old gold mines. And 700 wives? Where did he house these 700 wives? King Solomon is nothing but another religious deception for consumption by the gullible ones.
Amanor USA 1 year ago

Let him marry that woman as a second wife but he must find her a different place to live. You must also not divorce but keep your marriage. It is almost like Sarah and Haggah, two great generations are about to start ...
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Let him marry that woman as a second wife but he must find her a different place to live. You must also not divorce but keep your marriage. It is almost like Sarah and Haggah, two great generations are about to start from your husband.
Kwabena David 1 year ago

I dont think he should marry the second lady because that wasn't the agreement, Secondly he must confirm by DNA if the Children are really his own and if they are his own he must take full responsibly up until they are 21.

I dont think he should marry the second lady because that wasn't the agreement, Secondly he must confirm by DNA if the Children are really his own and if they are his own he must take full responsibly up until they are 21.
Elsie 1 year ago

My sister, there is nothing you can do. Either you stay or leave. Men will not change. They will cheat saaaa even if you are beautiful and a whore in the bedroom. You can give them good home meal and give them your hand earne ...
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My sister, there is nothing you can do. Either you stay or leave. Men will not change. They will cheat saaaa even if you are beautiful and a whore in the bedroom. You can give them good home meal and give them your hand earned money and they will still cheat. Set yourself as a priority and enjoy your life. Don’t cry yourself because of all of this. Look after your children and live for yourself.
Hannan 1 year ago

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Maxwell 1 year ago

Stay and protect your marriage and your unborn child,
It wasn't his intention to Mary that woman.
Your husband really loves you.
Don't make a mistake of leaving him.

Stay and protect your marriage and your unborn child,
It wasn't his intention to Mary that woman.
Your husband really loves you.
Don't make a mistake of leaving him.
Elsie 1 year ago

Would you tell his husband to stay and protect his marriage if the wife had a baby with her side lover? I am sure he will be advised to leave his wife but the woman is asked to stay when her husband is unfaithful and has had ...
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Would you tell his husband to stay and protect his marriage if the wife had a baby with her side lover? I am sure he will be advised to leave his wife but the woman is asked to stay when her husband is unfaithful and has had a child outside of the marriage. Typical of us to encourage women to stay in an unfaithful marriage but not then men.
Bombaclat 1 year ago

Exactly. The double standard is sickening!

Exactly. The double standard is sickening!

Bombaclat 1 year ago

Hmmm it’s a difficult one. He has shown that he has no moral compass and doesn’t respect the value of his marriage. If it were the other way round I wonder what he would do.

Hmmm it’s a difficult one. He has shown that he has no moral compass and doesn’t respect the value of his marriage. If it were the other way round I wonder what he would do.
Ebena 1 year ago

Don't leave your marriage and if you're husband wants to marry her, let him compassionate you and go and build a new house for the other woman because if you leave him now. Trust me i you be a second wife or side chick

Don't leave your marriage and if you're husband wants to marry her, let him compassionate you and go and build a new house for the other woman because if you leave him now. Trust me i you be a second wife or side chick
Paa solo 1 year ago

Don't leave the marriage and don't leave the house now that your gonna have your own child. Leave it with the man to deal with it.

Don't leave the marriage and don't leave the house now that your gonna have your own child. Leave it with the man to deal with it.
Ex-Pope 1 year ago

Do as the Old Testament says: "An eye for an eye". Go out and mother some children outside of your marriage, and you'll be even.

Do as the Old Testament says: "An eye for an eye". Go out and mother some children outside of your marriage, and you'll be even.
Justice 1 year ago

Try that and you will see pepper in your eyes. DNA will expose you and you will see your shame. God has not created man and woman the same. Encourage the woman to stay faithfully in her marriage once she not being subjected t ...
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Try that and you will see pepper in your eyes. DNA will expose you and you will see your shame. God has not created man and woman the same. Encourage the woman to stay faithfully in her marriage once she not being subjected to any physical violence but love and care from the husband.
Ex-Pope 1 year ago

Your problem is that you've been listening to a country music song titled, 'Stand by your man'. That woman doesn't have to stay put in her marriage if her husband is violating the vows of his marriage. She has every right to ...
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Your problem is that you've been listening to a country music song titled, 'Stand by your man'. That woman doesn't have to stay put in her marriage if her husband is violating the vows of his marriage. She has every right to walk away from that marriage, just as she had a right to walk into that marriage. If you enjoy seeing women being used abused, controlled and treated like chattel, then live your life that way. You have evidence to prove that polygamy helps to reduce the numbers of single mothers. What you fail to understand is that many polygamous marriages in Ghana end up with many of the women in those marriages having to leave or are made by the husband to leave so that the trifling man can go for another young lady to make more babies. The only reason why many Ghanaians don't hear about these divorces in polygamous marriages is because these marriages and divorces are customary and therefore never recorded. Many of the women in polygamous marriages who end up being kicked to curb by their husbands often stay single while struggling to financially support their children. Polygamy is an outdated institution that has no place in today's society. The only ones still advocating for polygamy are selfish men and indoctrinated women who have been brainwashed to believe it's a meaningful practice.
Justice 1 year ago

Women who are not getting men to marry them are also human beings. Men who can marry more than one wife should be allowed to do so. It will help reduce the number of unmarried women and single mothers.

Women who are not getting men to marry them are also human beings. Men who can marry more than one wife should be allowed to do so. It will help reduce the number of unmarried women and single mothers.
Ex-Pope 1 year ago

O.K., smarty ass, what will it take to reduce the number of unmarried men and single fathers? No wonder African countries keep birthing so many children who end up fleeing to Europe, America, Asia, Brazil, and Australia as fa ...
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O.K., smarty ass, what will it take to reduce the number of unmarried men and single fathers? No wonder African countries keep birthing so many children who end up fleeing to Europe, America, Asia, Brazil, and Australia as fake refugees. Thinking too much with our dicks is part of the reason why we Africans can't seem to plan meaningfully for the future of Africa's children. You boast about being polygamists with houses full of enough children to fill a village, yet no jobs for these children who eventually grow up and fall into the "Sendi sika wo Ghana syndrome".

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