Dear GhanaWeb: I'm not my dad’s biological son, and it's making me grow hatred toward my mum

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Abrewatia 11 months ago

Hmmm
Let it go. Just accept that your father is your father and leave the rest to God.
You may not be able to handle your mother going into her grave early.

I am sorry this will leave you emotionally disturbed and diffic ...
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Hmmm
Let it go. Just accept that your father is your father and leave the rest to God.
You may not be able to handle your mother going into her grave early.

I am sorry this will leave you emotionally disturbed and difficult to trust your future wife, but be rest assured, not all women are the same.
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TogbeKporwomordzikpo KpornugloAvunako 10 months ago

Don't start what you can't finish.

Don't start what you can't finish.
The Spear 10 months ago

Absolutely. He comes across as not smart. If he's curious he wouldn't have wanted to delve into this and ascertain his mother's dishonesty and immorality, because it could be true his mother passed her life making her husband ...
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Absolutely. He comes across as not smart. If he's curious he wouldn't have wanted to delve into this and ascertain his mother's dishonesty and immorality, because it could be true his mother passed her life making her husband look stupid.

We need to heal the society by questioning women's perfidy and holding them accountable. That would be a warning for younger girls, and a way to instill morality in our families.

No intelligent person would sit on this.
The Spear 10 months ago

He should let it go? Well, I promise him he will live the "lie" miserably hating himself if he choses to be a coward.

...and, he will NOT trust women, no matter what.

He should let it go? Well, I promise him he will live the "lie" miserably hating himself if he choses to be a coward.

...and, he will NOT trust women, no matter what.
ORAL LIES 10 months ago

Boy it is your own fault.
Why did you conduct the DNA of yourself at the age of 27?
Typical example of ORAL

Boy it is your own fault.
Why did you conduct the DNA of yourself at the age of 27?
Typical example of ORAL
Go ahead 11 months ago

Conduct the DNA test on the rest and confront your mother without fear. She is the only one who can help you find your real father. For now, keep your "father" in the dark on the issue. And keep your siblings in the dark too.

Conduct the DNA test on the rest and confront your mother without fear. She is the only one who can help you find your real father. For now, keep your "father" in the dark on the issue. And keep your siblings in the dark too.
Ike 11 months ago

Just forget about it because that's what most ladies do, they allow the guys they love to impregnate them and give it to innocent men who can take care of the baby. Some don't even mention the rightful owners of the babies to ...
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Just forget about it because that's what most ladies do, they allow the guys they love to impregnate them and give it to innocent men who can take care of the baby. Some don't even mention the rightful owners of the babies to them. When they feel like getting pregnant, they visit their lover and bring it to the responsible man they want to raise that child.
Forget man and have your peace.
Scrap 'Ahiagba'. A Disgrace to Eweland.. 11 months ago

Richard Ahiagba, are you hearing right? Your incongurous traits suggest you conduct a DNA check quick. Lest, you are neither here, nor there. Well, that failing, a Chimp/Monkey race, exists nevertheless. Avu!

Richard Ahiagba, are you hearing right? Your incongurous traits suggest you conduct a DNA check quick. Lest, you are neither here, nor there. Well, that failing, a Chimp/Monkey race, exists nevertheless. Avu!
Kwame 11 months ago

You should have left sleeping dogs to lie.
Most firstborns don't belong to the father.
Let it be

You should have left sleeping dogs to lie.
Most firstborns don't belong to the father.
Let it be

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Mohammed 11 months ago

Eeeeiiii leave it alone. You gone kill your mom if you do. Let it remain between you and your mom. What will the benefit be if you tell your dad? You will only cause him misery and heartache. Please leave it alone.

Eeeeiiii leave it alone. You gone kill your mom if you do. Let it remain between you and your mom. What will the benefit be if you tell your dad? You will only cause him misery and heartache. Please leave it alone.
Adwoa 10 months ago

Both first and second aren’t his. Unbelievable wickedness. Do well to give the Ist place to the third child when the father dies. Hope you find your own biological father in future and inherit him.

Both first and second aren’t his. Unbelievable wickedness. Do well to give the Ist place to the third child when the father dies. Hope you find your own biological father in future and inherit him.
Godfred 10 months ago

Oga for me de3 just try to get the answer from ur mother before she die

Oga for me de3 just try to get the answer from ur mother before she die
Ogyaooo ogya 10 months ago

Ghana women, wickidness. Down in there hearth? Hmmmm demons in human body

Ghana women, wickidness. Down in there hearth? Hmmmm demons in human body
Amano 10 months ago

Gentleman grow up. Don't break your fathers heart which might send him to his early gravel.
Love him as he loves you and Leave the rest to God.
Be wise.it can happen to you

Gentleman grow up. Don't break your fathers heart which might send him to his early gravel.
Love him as he loves you and Leave the rest to God.
Be wise.it can happen to you
Amano 10 months ago

Gentleman grow up. Don't break your fathers heart which might send him to his early gravel.
Love him as he loves you and Leave the rest to God.
Be wise.it can happ*en to you
*grave

Gentleman grow up. Don't break your fathers heart which might send him to his early gravel.
Love him as he loves you and Leave the rest to God.
Be wise.it can happ*en to you
*grave
Asídu Keta 10 months ago

Make sure there are no errors in the tests.

Make sure there are no errors in the tests.
Alhaji Abdulai Yakubu 10 months ago

Please stop the DNA test,and concentrate on building a happy home.
Are you aware there can mistakes during the test?
And are you aware Allah the Almighty can decide to test you?
Please forget it.

Please stop the DNA test,and concentrate on building a happy home.
Are you aware there can mistakes during the test?
And are you aware Allah the Almighty can decide to test you?
Please forget it.
Paulus 10 months ago

What a fool!!! There are certain things which are not done. Now that you have conducted the DNA and you know the outcome, what else? Renounce the man you knew to be your father or take an axe and cut your mumbinto pieces.

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What a fool!!! There are certain things which are not done. Now that you have conducted the DNA and you know the outcome, what else? Renounce the man you knew to be your father or take an axe and cut your mumbinto pieces.

You see how foolishness can bring about such unsolicited consequences.

You are destroyed forever
Kwasiato

Kay 10 months ago

Masa you were lucky to have such a ‘dad’. Lots of fathers have discovered after sometime that among their children some are not biological but have let it slide to let sanity and peace prevail.just move on,opening up stuf ...
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Masa you were lucky to have such a ‘dad’. Lots of fathers have discovered after sometime that among their children some are not biological but have let it slide to let sanity and peace prevail.just move on,opening up stuff will break the fam beyond repairs
Jesse Mensah 10 months ago

Go ahead with rest and layer invite your mom out and discuss it with her after a very good lunch.
After knowing the truth let it slip. It's not your DUTY to tell your father or other family members.
Tell your mom the rest ...
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Go ahead with rest and layer invite your mom out and discuss it with her after a very good lunch.
After knowing the truth let it slip. It's not your DUTY to tell your father or other family members.
Tell your mom the rest is up to her but it's not in your place to tell other, and let's it end with you there.
Best Advice 10 months ago

Let this go, it has never been in your power to control what is not in your domain. Your mum is an adulterer, you don't need further explanations. And don't let your curiosity ruin the little happiness in the family. Let God ...
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Let this go, it has never been in your power to control what is not in your domain. Your mum is an adulterer, you don't need further explanations. And don't let your curiosity ruin the little happiness in the family. Let God handle, what God needs to handle. And continue being good to your parents as much as you can because being good to your parents is a divine commandments. So even if your parents were murderers or pagans, you still need to treat them nicely
Most importantly avoid visiting your parents whenever your emotions go out of control within that week or month.
Concentrate on your life, your mum doesn't owe you an explanation. If indeed she committed adultery, God will surely punish her or forgive her, whichever option God chooses, has nothing to do with you. Mind your Business young man
Ohemaa kitty 8 months ago

Forgive her and if your step-father still accept you as his son then you too accept him and forget he is not your real father

Forgive her and if your step-father still accept you as his son then you too accept him and forget he is not your real father

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