'Marrying my ex-wife is my greatest regret; she took half of my properties' - Bishop Bonegas

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• GOD IS GOOD 9 months ago

  THIS ISSUE IS UNFOLDING TO TELL US ALL THAT MANY OF THOSE WE CLAIM TO BE POWERFUL MEN OF GOD HAVE NOT BEEN CALLED BY GOD.

  THIS ISSUE IS UNFOLDING TO TELL US ALL THAT MANY OF THOSE WE CLAIM TO BE POWERFUL MEN OF GOD HAVE NOT BEEN CALLED BY GOD.

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• THIS IS THE RESULT OF NOT PAYING CLOSE ATTENTION TO THE CHOICES WE MAKE. IT IS CRITICAL TO FOCUS ON WHAT MATTERS AND SAVE OURSELVES A LOT OF HEARTACHE AND PAIN! 9 months ago

  If only more young men and women paid much closer attention to their choice of a potential husband or wife (spouse) then more marriages would endure and thrive.
  I remember some decades ago while I was still a student hearing ...
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  If only more young men and women paid much closer attention to their choice of a potential husband or wife (spouse) then more marriages would endure and thrive.
  I remember some decades ago while I was still a student hearing the pastor of the Church I was attending announcing that he, his wife and the Church elders were arranging a Courtship and Marriage Seminar for those between 12 and 18 years. There was a ripple of laughter in church at this announcement because until that time all Pre-Marriage seminars and talks were aimed at those above the age of 18 years. It was obvious that many in the congregation felt that courtship and marriage matters was “too early” for that age group. Our soft-spoken Pastor patiently explained to us all that the choice of a good marriage partner was influenced by the values and beliefs acquired by children and young persons during their formative years. He stressed the role of parents at even earlier age groups, the role of extended family and the important part the local Church could play in shaping the values and character of the younger generation. He correctly believed that helping kids as young as 12 years to acquire the right values was critical in shaping their character. A well-rounded character would be more likely to make good choices in life. Parents and other close relatives had the most important part to play as ROLE MODELS. Looking back now after some decades I can see how true this Pastor’s views were. These Pre-marriage and Courtship Seminars and Talks were moderated by several SEASONED MARRIED COUPLES who were excellent role models (not because they were saints as such but because they had successfully weathered the storms and challenges that are a normal part of any marriage while raising their families ) .
  The Pre-Marriage Seminar Panel members frequently referenced their own struggles, pitfalls, and triumphs over many years of marriage. They had survived and thrived because they gave priority to:
  1.Being committed and faithful to one to one another and taking active steps to prevent outsiders interfering with their marriage (They did this by building hedges and boundaries around their marriage) They believed that marriage was for life.
  2.They persevered and worked out their differences over time while making sometimes painful adjustments to each other. They learned to be unselfish, gentle, kind, considerate, truthful, and sensitive to their spouse’s feelings and needs. They were therefore able to GROW TOGETHER AS A COUPLE RESULTING IN MARRIAGES THAT GREW STRONGER WITH TIME.
  3. Most of the Marriage Counsellors or Seminar panellists started out in their marriages with little material possessions but through discipline, learning to economize (being frugal) they saved and planned. They practiced DELAYED GRATIFICATION- i.e. they delayed buying things they wanted but could not afford or which would make it difficult for them to save for the future. One couple delayed buying a car for 10 years and they bought no new clothing during the same period!
  4.They planned strategically for their future by enrolling on courses that would help them improve their earning power. They set realistic targets and goals for 5,10 or 15 years and adjusted as required.
  5.They took steps to prevent interference from certain extended family members and friends and learned earlier on during their marriage to maintain their financial and emotional independence as much as possible. One couple moved to another town in order to prevent interference by a “domineering” ,” gossipy” and “busy body” mother in-law and another couple disciplined themselves to stop running to their parents to discuss their disagreements as this only complicated their problems and led to terrible gossip and nearly cost them their marriage.

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• KWASI IN EUROPE 9 months ago

  Every monkey in Ghana is now a bshop.

  Every monkey in Ghana is now a bshop.

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• Risk taker 9 months ago

  You were in love with the blow job she gave you and did not see her personality of only wanting your cash.

  You were in love with the blow job she gave you and did not see her personality of only wanting your cash.

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• BABA 9 months ago

  this idiot should have died,you have damaged more families than the properties your wife took away from you.May you never have peace

  this idiot should have died,you have damaged more families than the properties your wife took away from you.May you never have peace

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• DJANGO 9 months ago

  Deuteronomy 24:1-4 is about divorce and remarriage. The passage tells us that a man or woman cannot return to a former spouse and marry him or her if the former spouse had subsequently married another person

  Deuteronomy 24:1-4 is about divorce and remarriage. The passage tells us that a man or woman cannot return to a former spouse and marry him or her if the former spouse had subsequently married another person

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• kukua 9 months ago

  she took away half of what you took from poor church members.

  she took away half of what you took from poor church members.

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• Christopher Ang-Nieten Dassah 9 months ago

  If a lady voluntarily go to court looking for divorce and requesting property, is that not enough for the legal luminaries to know such a lady is a trickster?

  If a lady voluntarily go to court looking for divorce and requesting property, is that not enough for the legal luminaries to know such a lady is a trickster?

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• 3dem 9 months ago

  Really, she should leave envy handed because she did not contribute to the marriage? Only a GREEDY man will refuse to share property with an ex spouse. Straight up that's a greedy and man man. No wonder the wife will leave

  Really, she should leave envy handed because she did not contribute to the marriage? Only a GREEDY man will refuse to share property with an ex spouse. Straight up that's a greedy and man man. No wonder the wife will leave

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• Hh 9 months ago

  Do you have any property? All are people's money

  Do you have any property? All are people's money

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• Hannan 9 months ago

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• Stefano 9 months ago

  Pastors so much possessed by earthly things? These are the nonsense they teach their members. They can't just equip their members with the hope of redeeming their treasures in heaven because that would deprive them of earthly ...
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  Pastors so much possessed by earthly things? These are the nonsense they teach their members. They can't just equip their members with the hope of redeeming their treasures in heaven because that would deprive them of earthly possessions. How did he even acquired the properties he is talking about?

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• Peace 9 months ago

  Fama nyame, or? The God you serve, who gave you your ex-wife, will replenish. But I thought that dor a Bishop worldly properties are not worth lamenting about publicly, or?

  Fama nyame, or? The God you serve, who gave you your ex-wife, will replenish. But I thought that dor a Bishop worldly properties are not worth lamenting about publicly, or?

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• VERY FAKE PASTOR 9 months ago

  Why do you regret? Are you not leaving those earthly materials and rather focus on things stored up for you in heaven.

  Why do you regret? Are you not leaving those earthly materials and rather focus on things stored up for you in heaven.

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• KWABENA KASAPREKO. 9 months ago

  BUT AS A BISHOP, WHY DO YOU NEED PROPERTIES FOR ? JESUS CHRIST DID NOT HAVE 0R ACQUIRED ANY PROPERTY(IES) DURING HIS LIFE ON THIS EARTH. SO IF YOU ARE FOLLOWING JESUS, AS YOU CLAIM TO BE DOING, WHY SHOULD YOU CRY OVER PR ...
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  BUT AS A BISHOP, WHY DO YOU NEED PROPERTIES FOR ? JESUS CHRIST DID NOT HAVE 0R ACQUIRED ANY PROPERTY(IES) DURING HIS LIFE ON THIS EARTH. SO IF YOU ARE FOLLOWING JESUS, AS YOU CLAIM TO BE DOING, WHY SHOULD YOU CRY OVER PROPERTIES ???????? ARE YOU NOT ASHAMED TO BE SAYING THAT TO THE GHANAIAN PUBLIC ?

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• The Truth 9 months ago

  Stupid man, a WHOLE MAN OF GOD THAT EAT FUFU AT DAWN, WHY MAAME WATER WOULD NOT COME AND SLEEP WITH YOU

  Stupid man, a WHOLE MAN OF GOD THAT EAT FUFU AT DAWN, WHY MAAME WATER WOULD NOT COME AND SLEEP WITH YOU

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• Kojo Yankee 9 months ago

  You should regret the money you took from ghanafuools who are gullible enough to buy godliness! Me ah go soon bi pasta and kollet allawa barima!

  You should regret the money you took from ghanafuools who are gullible enough to buy godliness! Me ah go soon bi pasta and kollet allawa barima!

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• KB 9 months ago

  Is leader of a church say what he does is a calling of God or what he does is his Career. ???

  Is leader of a church say what he does is a calling of God or what he does is his Career. ???

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• Prof Kwame Serbeh-Yiadom 9 months ago

  Bishop, how poor were you, how long was the marriage, and how rich has you become at the time of divorce. Let her go with the half and begin growing your wealth again.

  Bishop, how poor were you, how long was the marriage, and how rich has you become at the time of divorce. Let her go with the half and begin growing your wealth again.

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