Dear GhanaWeb: My best friend is carrying my husband’s child and he wants her to move in with us

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• JUMPING FROM FRYING PAN INTO FIRE. COMMON SENSE ADVICE 9 months ago

  Buy and read "LOVE MUST BE TOGH" By Dr James Dobson (available on Amazon, Ebay etc)
  If you can afford it or have access to someone who can purchase this book for you then get it and read it from cover to cover. Shockingly th ...
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  Buy and read "LOVE MUST BE TOGH" By Dr James Dobson (available on Amazon, Ebay etc)
  If you can afford it or have access to someone who can purchase this book for you then get it and read it from cover to cover. Shockingly this sort of thing happens all the time globally.
  One other thing- I wonder if your wayward and narcissistic husband would show the same forgiveness and generosity of heart that he seems to think you should show if you got pregnant and then informed him that the child was his best friend's or that of one of his brother?
  If you follow your selfish ,insensitive and thoroughly untrustworthy husband's suggestion you could be jumping from frying pan into fire!!
  And by the way did you marry him primarily because of his "wealth"?
  CHARACTER SHOULD ALWAYS BE OUR NUMBER ONE DETERMINANT WHEN LOOKING FOR A LIFE-LONG MARRIAGE PARTNER.

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• CORRECTION 9 months ago

  Should read Buy and read "LOVE MUST BE TOUGH" By Dr James Dobson (available on Amazon, Ebay etc)

  Should read Buy and read "LOVE MUST BE TOUGH" By Dr James Dobson (available on Amazon, Ebay etc)

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• Charles oppong 9 months ago

  I am sorry to say you are a very foolish woman and wife,you have sold out your marriage.women/wives should learn from your experience not to let women,even family female close to thier husbands/marriagies

  I am sorry to say you are a very foolish woman and wife,you have sold out your marriage.women/wives should learn from your experience not to let women,even family female close to thier husbands/marriagies

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• Dee 9 months ago

  You must tell yourself that you have been a fool, who took so many things for granted, trusted your friend with every info about your marriage. What were you really thinking, that your friend was happy for you? What is wrong ...
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  You must tell yourself that you have been a fool, who took so many things for granted, trusted your friend with every info about your marriage. What were you really thinking, that your friend was happy for you? What is wrong with young women and men of today, when you enter a serious institution of marriage without your brains? Your inlaws warned you but cannot keep quiet for things to get worse. How could your insensitive husband ask your friend to move into your home, just like that? IF you talk things over and he keeps stubborn, go to court and collect the house and many other properties from him, remain with your children and take care of them. On the other other hand, if you so love your husband, talk and advice him to find another less expensive place for your friend and child, cos I will never allow him to bring another woman into our home.

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• Neenyi 9 months ago

  The damage has already been done but you have the capacity to recover the broken pieces again. Sit yourself down and find out what actually went wrong on your side. Here learn to control your emotions and your body language a ...
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  The damage has already been done but you have the capacity to recover the broken pieces again. Sit yourself down and find out what actually went wrong on your side. Here learn to control your emotions and your body language anytime dealing with your husband. If your attitude and character were the driving force behind it, begin the recovery from there also. Learn to protect your marriage and remember anything that makes you happy must be observed as private

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