Dear GhanaWeb: My husband is insisting on having two kids, he wants me to terminate my third pregnancy

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• Isaac 9 months ago

  Do not abort the child OK ?

  Do not abort the child OK ?

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• The Spear 9 months ago

  I agree, don't abort! DO NOT do it! Where did he put his brains when he was on top of you?
  
  Just don't talk about it again, and don't listen to him.

  I agree, don't abort! DO NOT do it! Where did he put his brains when he was on top of you?
  
  Just don't talk about it again, and don't listen to him.

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• The Spear 9 months ago

  "This pregnancy is unexpected..."
  "We weren't planning it..." Missed calculations on safe days... all sounding incredibly childish. Okay, so you had inaccurate calculations, and so?
  
  You see, you married a big child, with ...
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  "This pregnancy is unexpected..."
  "We weren't planning it..." Missed calculations on safe days... all sounding incredibly childish. Okay, so you had inaccurate calculations, and so?
  
  You see, you married a big child, with overbearing, silly tantrums. See how he's behaving because of just a conception which you could manage, even to the extent of distancing from his own kids who want him? It shows he's not exactly the person you thought he was, and it was only a matter of time before he displayed his real antics.
  
  Continue to be bold, God will be with you and the child.

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• judischrislam 9 months ago

  Do not cry too much for when the child is born, that child is going to be his favorite. Just pray for safe delivery.
  Be blessed.

  Do not cry too much for when the child is born, that child is going to be his favorite. Just pray for safe delivery.
  Be blessed.

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• Best Advice 9 months ago

  Is your husband more important to you than God? You want to kill an unborn baby to please a psycho of a husband?
  If he knew he didn't want a third baby why did he participate in creating one? And then you say you are confuse ...
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  Is your husband more important to you than God? You want to kill an unborn baby to please a psycho of a husband?
  If he knew he didn't want a third baby why did he participate in creating one? And then you say you are confused because you are concerned about the happiness of a psycho?
  Since when did we lose focus in understanding the difference between good and evil?

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• Mimi 9 months ago

  Keep the pregnancy since you can afford to take care of him or her even if he decided to end the marriage and stay strong for your children.

  Keep the pregnancy since you can afford to take care of him or her even if he decided to end the marriage and stay strong for your children.

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• Ei... 9 months ago

  You knew you were in your window! There's nothing like a mistake child please!
  That's what you women say then keep allowomg yourself to get pregnant and say it was a mistake. It's as though you lot are programmed to test yo ...
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  You knew you were in your window! There's nothing like a mistake child please!
  That's what you women say then keep allowomg yourself to get pregnant and say it was a mistake. It's as though you lot are programmed to test your husbands this way. talkn about I didn't know ...you knew! in your minds eye you said to yourself, everyone has three and the last was their mistake narrative ...selfish beings!

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• Willie_Dagarti 9 months ago

  You physiological inhuman being. When he was going in and out of her did he activate his emotions.? Kwasiakwa like you. Every enjoyment his an end result. My pretty beautiful sweet lady never try aborting the baby. I know w ...
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  You physiological inhuman being. When he was going in and out of her did he activate his emotions.? Kwasiakwa like you. Every enjoyment his an end result. My pretty beautiful sweet lady never try aborting the baby. I know what an saying

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• Esi 9 months ago

  Abortion???A BIG NO MY DEAR LADY

  Abortion???A BIG NO MY DEAR LADY

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• Alonso 9 months ago

  Let your husband know that children are a blessing. Couples dish out millions to get even one child but sometimes it becomes impossible. God thru His divine mercies have given you children and because of that he is fighting y ...
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  Let your husband know that children are a blessing. Couples dish out millions to get even one child but sometimes it becomes impossible. God thru His divine mercies have given you children and because of that he is fighting you. I pray God to forgive his soul.
  My dear if he would not want this child, stand firm. Don't allow his attitude intimidate you. Go ahead and deliver the child. And I promise you this child will be a destiny child. Most at times such children come with controversy. Please remain firm, don't abort it. Deliver him and I assure you you will see the blessings which will come with it's delivery. Wishing you God's blessings and His protection.

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• Koo 9 months ago

  Abortion is abomination before God. Only God decides when a human being comes into this world. Do not force yourself into a murderer to kill innocent baby. I do not know your relationship with God. If you have Christ in you a ...
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  Abortion is abomination before God. Only God decides when a human being comes into this world. Do not force yourself into a murderer to kill innocent baby. I do not know your relationship with God. If you have Christ in you and your husband wants to frustrate you because God is bringing another human being into the world through you, hand him over to God in prayer and God will deal with him His own way.

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• Xxibit 9 months ago

  You did nothing wrong. He should have gone for vasectomy if he really meant to have only two children after the second child was born. Just stop worrying about anything, give birth and wait to see if he will change. If he doe ...
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  You did nothing wrong. He should have gone for vasectomy if he really meant to have only two children after the second child was born. Just stop worrying about anything, give birth and wait to see if he will change. If he doesn't, pack your things and leave the marriage. Remember to carry all your children with you since you are capable of taking care of them without his assistance. You deserve better than a stupid and unreasonable husband.

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• Willie_Dagarti 9 months ago

  True talk

  True talk

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• Yaw 9 months ago

  Don't bother about what your husband is doing; just focus on the child and God. If he takes any bad decision against you, he will live to regret it, you made the right choice. God bless you, sister

  Don't bother about what your husband is doing; just focus on the child and God. If he takes any bad decision against you, he will live to regret it, you made the right choice. God bless you, sister

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• Be humble and listen to him before you lose him 9 months ago

  Obey is better than sacrifice. Women don't listen

  Obey is better than sacrifice. Women don't listen

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• Ina 9 months ago

  Some men behave like this and later have children with another woman. Because they changed their mind. For others it's a power thing - you disobeyed him and disrupted his perfect life. Indeed!
  Stay focused and healthy wai. H ...
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  Some men behave like this and later have children with another woman. Because they changed their mind. For others it's a power thing - you disobeyed him and disrupted his perfect life. Indeed!
  Stay focused and healthy wai. He will come around. Yes you can

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• PASCO GEE 9 months ago

  Dont mind that stupid man(ur husband), many people are praying for even one child but got nothing so tell him to thank Allah for dat third child. And let him know dat he is very foolish. But dont abort the child please

  Dont mind that stupid man(ur husband), many people are praying for even one child but got nothing so tell him to thank Allah for dat third child. And let him know dat he is very foolish. But dont abort the child please

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• Hannan 9 months ago

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• Paulga 9 months ago

  Dont abort this child , this child will bring you together again after he or she have been born.

  Dont abort this child , this child will bring you together again after he or she have been born.

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• Duut Joshua Mintoo 9 months ago

  Write your comment. I don't want you to aborte the child.For sake of God.it is the lord who take control of the family.Please, madam, don't worry about your pregnancy and the trust God.Keep on praying hard and the lord will a ...
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  Write your comment. I don't want you to aborte the child.For sake of God.it is the lord who take control of the family.Please, madam, don't worry about your pregnancy and the trust God.Keep on praying hard and the lord will answer prayer. May the lord be with you.Amen.Do not fear.

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• David Appiah 9 months ago

  Don't abort the unborn child he or she is innocent, give birth I will help you take care of the child. Tell him you can take care of the child.

  Don't abort the unborn child he or she is innocent, give birth I will help you take care of the child. Tell him you can take care of the child.

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• ASORE SUMAILA 9 months ago

  For now stay cam,and stop bringing alot of people into the issue and reverse your comments, because it may come to had you one day

  For now stay cam,and stop bringing alot of people into the issue and reverse your comments, because it may come to had you one day

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• Kofai 9 months ago

  That is your business, don't disturb us. We all have our various problems

  That is your business, don't disturb us. We all have our various problems

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• idiot 9 months ago

  then why are you here

  then why are you here

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• Peace man 9 months ago

  Who put the baby there in the first place, never mind go ahead and have that child , it gonna be a miracle child trust me ,
  Loosing your husband is not a problem cos he will definitely take another woman and make another bab ...
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  Who put the baby there in the first place, never mind go ahead and have that child , it gonna be a miracle child trust me ,
  Loosing your husband is not a problem cos he will definitely take another woman and make another baby , it never make sense .

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• SAINT SHERIFF RICHMOND 9 months ago

  DON,T ABORT THE CHILD IN YOUR WORM,THE MAN IS AN EVIL PERSON.THINK WISE AND LEAVE THE MARRIAGE NOW

  DON,T ABORT THE CHILD IN YOUR WORM,THE MAN IS AN EVIL PERSON.THINK WISE AND LEAVE THE MARRIAGE NOW

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• Akosat 9 months ago

  Don't worry about this issue.... Stand firm and keep this baby, if he insist of the abortion, tell him you haven't created a human being before, so you can't. Take it from me,that you will be surprised how he's likely to love ...
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  Don't worry about this issue.... Stand firm and keep this baby, if he insist of the abortion, tell him you haven't created a human being before, so you can't. Take it from me,that you will be surprised how he's likely to love this particular child ( if only it's his)..... Sometimes men can behave strangely. Don't forget to continue loving and respecting him, and managing the home

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• Ohemaa kitty 9 months ago

  Don't care about your husbsand but your unborn child and how to take care of them too

  Don't care about your husbsand but your unborn child and how to take care of them too

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• Kwabena Ansa 9 months ago

  Please tell me, aside from the desire to satisfy your partner's sexual drive or urges in marriage, what's the main objective of marriage?
  I think to procreate is the main objective of marriage. I find your predicament to be ...
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  Please tell me, aside from the desire to satisfy your partner's sexual drive or urges in marriage, what's the main objective of marriage?
  I think to procreate is the main objective of marriage. I find your predicament to be mind-numbing. How can your husband be so dispassionate and insensitive to your desires and wishes?
  Madam, you said that you don't want to end your marriage with him. Why is that? Considering his treatment of you and the children, if I were you, I would take him to Court and request for the dissolution of the marriage and equitable distributions of your jointly acquired assets.
  Lastly, you said that you are now regretting that you did not terminate the pregnancy earlier, I think, probably to please your husband. What's wrong with you? Do you know what God has in store for you and the baby in your womb? Please, cut your husband loose and let him go his way without you, and be free to enjoy your life in whatever way you want. God be with you, precious one.

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