Dear GhanaWeb: My pregnant side chick is threatening to take me to a shrine if I don’t accept the baby

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Sakou Nkrumah 7 months ago

Man up bro and support your child. Hopefully your wife won't leave you, which would be another headache. You look after your family by being a protector, provider and maintainer. What do you mean take you to a shrine. Sounds ...
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Man up bro and support your child. Hopefully your wife won't leave you, which would be another headache. You look after your family by being a protector, provider and maintainer. What do you mean take you to a shrine. Sounds like Juju to me. When we going to give up and stop believing in such nonsense.
Senyo 7 months ago

The lady can not be used and dumped. You don't know how to play this game so, the lady outsmart you. #justberesponsible

The lady can not be used and dumped. You don't know how to play this game so, the lady outsmart you. #justberesponsible
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Kofi 7 months ago

Kwasia guy!! Will you be happy if someone else did this to your daughter, sister or any female relative you love dearly?

Continue to support her like you were doing and make sure to have plans for her to be financially st ...
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Kwasia guy!! Will you be happy if someone else did this to your daughter, sister or any female relative you love dearly?

Continue to support her like you were doing and make sure to have plans for her to be financially strong to support you raise that baby.
JB 7 months ago

Please, don't abandon her with the pregnancy. The child is yours. Keep supporting her but make sure that you stop that unhealthy relationship with her completely. Apologize to your wife and straight up things with her, by God ...
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Please, don't abandon her with the pregnancy. The child is yours. Keep supporting her but make sure that you stop that unhealthy relationship with her completely. Apologize to your wife and straight up things with her, by God's grace she may forgive you. But try to tame your penis....else more trouble ahead of you. Pray to God for his help in this difficult moment.
Justice 7 months ago

Leave her for who to marry?

Leave her for who to marry?
Megastar 7 months ago

You are in trouble. She will definitely give birth and take you to DOVSU to compel you to share your salary with her in the name of child support. By the way, what did you take her for? You had no plans of taking her as a sec ...
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You are in trouble. She will definitely give birth and take you to DOVSU to compel you to share your salary with her in the name of child support. By the way, what did you take her for? You had no plans of taking her as a second wife but expect her to sit and waste away with you in a relationship for your sexual pleasure just because you gave her money every month? You have your family and continue to produce babies to perpetuate your bloodline but expect her not to have someone she can call her child? Regarding the threat of cursing you make sure you make peace with her so that she does not curse you to ruin your life and your innocent family.
Shamsi Waleed 7 months ago

Megastar. She violated the agreement. She agreed that she'd be a sex toy for money and not to conceive.

But the man is a fool. You have a wife with kids yet you get a side chick and pay her money? Foolish man
If your wife ...
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Megastar. She violated the agreement. She agreed that she'd be a sex toy for money and not to conceive.

But the man is a fool. You have a wife with kids yet you get a side chick and pay her money? Foolish man
If your wife got pregnant with another man, how would you fool. these men are getting foolish by the day
Haha 7 months ago

Exactly she didn't keep her part of the deal.

Exactly she didn't keep her part of the deal.
The Spear 7 months ago

How can he or the girl be sure her family planning is foolproof and that she wouldn't get pregnant? Pills or whatever can fail. The guy is an idiot.

How can he or the girl be sure her family planning is foolproof and that she wouldn't get pregnant? Pills or whatever can fail. The guy is an idiot.

People like you make men look bad 7 months ago

Massa, when you have unprotected sex you should expect that you are going to procreate.
Who's daughter should continue pumping chemicals into their body while you live your good life?
Besides, if the young woman wanted a f ...
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Massa, when you have unprotected sex you should expect that you are going to procreate.
Who's daughter should continue pumping chemicals into their body while you live your good life?
Besides, if the young woman wanted a family, how long were you planning to string her along in your childish game before you abandoned her?
And who do you think should end up with your leftover after you were done with her?
The way I see it, you are the one who changed on the poor girl after she got pregnant.
Like others have said, continue to take care of her like you have been doing. There's a price to pay for everything.
This is not even a bad situation you find yourself in, but you're starting on the wrong foot and it won't end well for you if you don't grow up and take this girl back.
Dastun 7 months ago

You protect your family by respecting your vows and not have a relationship with another woman. You don't need a side chick to take care of financially and emotionally. That Ghc 4k a month can be put into savings for your ch ...
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You protect your family by respecting your vows and not have a relationship with another woman. You don't need a side chick to take care of financially and emotionally. That Ghc 4k a month can be put into savings for your children to pay their fees or any family medical emergency that may happen in the future. You can't eat your cake and have it. You protect your wife and children by not having affairs. Don't come here for advice
Shamsi Waleed 7 months ago

Well said. He has just destroyed his family. How can the wife trust him. This lifestyle could've introduced STDs. Foolish man

Well said. He has just destroyed his family. How can the wife trust him. This lifestyle could've introduced STDs. Foolish man
Justice 7 months ago

You can not neglect a lady you have impregnated. Support her financial and emotionally to give birth safely. Never mention abortion in any circumstance; it is a terrible sin. I urge you to give your life to Christ and live yo ...
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You can not neglect a lady you have impregnated. Support her financial and emotionally to give birth safely. Never mention abortion in any circumstance; it is a terrible sin. I urge you to give your life to Christ and live your life pleasing God.
Akuffu Addo 7 months ago

This days that Ghana is hard you are able to give your girlfriend 4k every month? Private security firms are paying 1200 a month for 12hrs work and you are dishing out foolish money to modern day ashawo girls. From the way yo ...
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This days that Ghana is hard you are able to give your girlfriend 4k every month? Private security firms are paying 1200 a month for 12hrs work and you are dishing out foolish money to modern day ashawo girls. From the way you were taking care of she will lock you up with pregnancy and that's exactly what she has done, its called ''securing your future'' . My only worry is for you to go check your STD status.
Ghinstigator 7 months ago

Guidance on what? You should have thought about the consequences before getting involved with another woman. Take accountability wai. You have no one to blame but yourself. These women are eye red o. Most women prefer married ...
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Guidance on what? You should have thought about the consequences before getting involved with another woman. Take accountability wai. You have no one to blame but yourself. These women are eye red o. Most women prefer married men than men who're not married. She saw an opportunity to make money & you fell for her trap. Don't be mad when your wife divorces you wai. You had it coming.
Hannan 7 months ago

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Job 7 months ago

Hmmm! I went into a similar situation. My boy is now 9 years old. I’m happy she refused to terminate the pregnancy. I have secretly set her up and taking good care of them. He is going to be my pension boy as my wife and th ...
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Hmmm! I went into a similar situation. My boy is now 9 years old. I’m happy she refused to terminate the pregnancy. I have secretly set her up and taking good care of them. He is going to be my pension boy as my wife and the children are out of Ghana. Everything happens for good. Accept it, you will be happy you did in the future.
Shamsi Waleed 7 months ago

You're despicable. Shame

You're despicable. Shame
Mimi 7 months ago

Where do you get this stuff from at all?

Where do you get this stuff from at all?

Clap for yourself 7 months ago

Was the deal sign on paper for her to keep it and moreover she has the right to keep it I think this wasn’t the first time she has conceived and aborted it we should feel her pains take her as a sister and you will understa ...
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Was the deal sign on paper for her to keep it and moreover she has the right to keep it I think this wasn’t the first time she has conceived and aborted it we should feel her pains take her as a sister and you will understand sometimes money is not everything .
Comfortably Chillax 7 months ago

Aboa twè, stfu and clean up your mess! You made your dirty bed so stop whining and lie on it!

Aboa twè, stfu and clean up your mess! You made your dirty bed so stop whining and lie on it!

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