Dear GhanaWeb: My husband cheated on me and contracted HIV, now I’m also positive

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• Sam 7 months ago

  God should help you and cure you. Just TRUST HIM

  God should help you and cure you. Just TRUST HIM

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• Shamsi Waleed 7 months ago

  Some men are wicked. Never go back to him. Divorce and let him contribute to child support. How can a married man go and be cheating anyhow.

  Some men are wicked. Never go back to him. Divorce and let him contribute to child support. How can a married man go and be cheating anyhow.

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• David Appiah 7 months ago

  I sympathy with but all is not lost, just go and see Rev. Obofour (APC) in Kumasi or Accra depending on your location,his God will heal you completely.

  I sympathy with but all is not lost, just go and see Rev. Obofour (APC) in Kumasi or Accra depending on your location,his God will heal you completely.

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• Ebena 7 months ago

  Don't live him and if you're Accra. Kindly go to adarbraka poly clinic and see people with hiv, so far us you take your medicine nothing will happen to you ok. Take heart because all is not lost

  Don't live him and if you're Accra. Kindly go to adarbraka poly clinic and see people with hiv, so far us you take your medicine nothing will happen to you ok. Take heart because all is not lost

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• Mariage is slammed 7 months ago

  Go back and give him slow medication ... it should be gradually, within a weeks, he is gone my dear sister

  Go back and give him slow medication ... it should be gradually, within a weeks, he is gone my dear sister

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• Truth 7 months ago

  Sorry you are going through this. Allow yourself to go through the stages of grief which are denial ( you not believing you had HIV), anger ( which is where you are now), bagaining, depression and acceptance. So you have to u ...
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  Sorry you are going through this. Allow yourself to go through the stages of grief which are denial ( you not believing you had HIV), anger ( which is where you are now), bagaining, depression and acceptance. So you have to understand that the depression and anger are normal in your circumstance. Even though your decisions are justifiable, it is highly recommended that you allow yourself to go through all the grief and heal. Additionally, don't tell anyone about your condition. The stigma kills faster than the disease. You can register in a different region or town for you HIV drugs. It is important to focus on your unborn child for now. Taking your drugs well will prevent transmission to the child, and trust me, s/he will wipe away your tears. Lastly, remember, people die from accidents, people become paralyzed after marriage, people fall terminally ill after marriage etc. What really matters is how you adjust and these are the for the worse periods.

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• BestAdvice 7 months ago

  Great advice

  Great advice

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• Telor 7 months ago

  Great Advice

  Great Advice

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• kulbogo 7 months ago

  Wel lady being Hiv is nt a death sentence ok, i understand ur pain having being faithful to him bt he decided to cheat on u n den brought u sickness, bt to be sincere wid u de harm has already been done n nothing u can do ab ...
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  Wel lady being Hiv is nt a death sentence ok, i understand ur pain having being faithful to him bt he decided to cheat on u n den brought u sickness, bt to be sincere wid u de harm has already been done n nothing u can do abt it except dat u jst v to go to de hospital to start ur trearment, at first pipo used to view Hiv as a killer desease bt nw it's manageble provided u r ready to accept n live wid it ok, for me i ll advise is dat u jst v to go back to him bcus u r already pregnant wid his child, sometyms it's better to remain where u r dan tinking dat moving away is de solution. make peace wid him n equal make peace wid urself ok.

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• Kweku 7 months ago

  Long story short ... forgive him.
  He has changed like that...forever.

  Long story short ... forgive him.
  He has changed like that...forever.

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• Shamsi Waleed 7 months ago

  Why should she forgive him.
  He cheated, dishonored his vows and wife, then gave her HIV. He's a wicked man. He won't stop...he's gonna continue cheating

  Why should she forgive him.
  He cheated, dishonored his vows and wife, then gave her HIV. He's a wicked man. He won't stop...he's gonna continue cheating

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• Kwame 7 months ago

  Try your best to love your husband as you use to love him.
  Try your best to see if you can get some medication for HIV.

  Try your best to love your husband as you use to love him.
  Try your best to see if you can get some medication for HIV.

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• Hannan 7 months ago

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• Accranie 7 months ago

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• NAME 7 months ago

  why don't you post your names? pls eh

  why don't you post your names? pls eh

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• Ghinstigator 6 months ago

  He's a stupid man. Because of his dumb actions, you've been affected. Forget about what his family is saying & divorce him straight away.
  Getting HIV isn't the end of the world. With anti retroviral drugs, you can live for a ...
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  He's a stupid man. Because of his dumb actions, you've been affected. Forget about what his family is saying & divorce him straight away.
  Getting HIV isn't the end of the world. With anti retroviral drugs, you can live for a very long time. Think about your health now. That's the most important thing. As for that stupid man, he'll burn in hell for what he did to you.

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