Dear GhanaWeb: My husband is sleeping with his boss, I'm scared to lose him

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Justice 6 months ago

Do not let anything push you out of your marriage unless there is physical violence that threatens the lives of you and your children; it is your marriage. Stay in it and keep praying to God for His intervention.

Do not let anything push you out of your marriage unless there is physical violence that threatens the lives of you and your children; it is your marriage. Stay in it and keep praying to God for His intervention.
Shamsi Waleed 6 months ago

She should divorce him and take child support. How can you be a boy-boy for ur madam when you're married?

Think of possible side chics he may have. STDs galore.

She should divorce him and take child support. How can you be a boy-boy for ur madam when you're married?

Think of possible side chics he may have. STDs galore.
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THERE IS ONLY ONE CHOICE - WALK AWAY.IF YOUNSTAY HE WILL SEE IT AS LICENSE TO CONTINUE TO ABUSE AND DISRESPECT YOU. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE MADAM. WHY ALLOW YOURSELF TO BECOME EMOTIONALLY DESTROYED? 6 months ago

That is all I am saying.Run madam ,run.It os suicide to stay!!!

That is all I am saying.Run madam ,run.It os suicide to stay!!!
Concern citizen 6 months ago

This is nonsense. No amount of prayers will help you. Go Out of His way and let him pay for His children. The Children will suffer more If you decided to stay. Think of yourself first

This is nonsense. No amount of prayers will help you. Go Out of His way and let him pay for His children. The Children will suffer more If you decided to stay. Think of yourself first
The Spear 6 months ago

If her boss doesn't own the company, send copies of the nude photos to the owners of the company and file for divorce, otherwise, distress and depression might hurt you and the unborn child.

If her boss doesn't own the company, send copies of the nude photos to the owners of the company and file for divorce, otherwise, distress and depression might hurt you and the unborn child.
DD 6 months ago

If it's not fake news please stay if you leave you might end up doing worse things.Stay my dear

If it's not fake news please stay if you leave you might end up doing worse things.Stay my dear
Nhyiraba Iyke 6 months ago

Please for the sake of the children and the unborn child in ur womb, stay and pray to God. Surely u will experience positive change in ur marriage. These are all part of the life journey u are embarking. The man is truly urs ...
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Please for the sake of the children and the unborn child in ur womb, stay and pray to God. Surely u will experience positive change in ur marriage. These are all part of the life journey u are embarking. The man is truly urs and i believe
he will come back to u regretly.
Esi 6 months ago

IT'S TIME TO GET ON YOUR KNEES AND CRY TO GOD.

IT'S TIME TO GET ON YOUR KNEES AND CRY TO GOD.
A LOT OF VERY BAD ADVICE HERE. DO YOU KNOW WHAT IT MEANS TO REMAIN IN AN EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP? STAYING ON WITH THIS PROSTITUTE HUSBAND IS THE WORST OPTION 6 months ago

Leaving that PROSTITUTE of a husband (and men can be prostitutes too you know) may look like a going out into a life of uncertainty but staying on and enduring such extreme emotional abuse due to ongoing marital infidelity ca ...
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Leaving that PROSTITUTE of a husband (and men can be prostitutes too you know) may look like a going out into a life of uncertainty but staying on and enduring such extreme emotional abuse due to ongoing marital infidelity can lead to the emotionally injured party to sink into severe chronic depression, nervous breakdown and even suicide. People who endure this kind of suffering can take years to recover from low self-esteem and emotional trauma if at all.
I suspect that a lot of those asking the lady to stay are men.I HAVE ONE QUESTION FOR THESE SELF-RIGHTEOUS MEN.WOULD YOU TOLERATE YOUR WIFE OPENLY HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH YOUR WIFE (WITH PICTURES AND VIDEOS AS EVIDENCE)? GIVE US A BREAK FOLKS.
Yes moving out may be traumatic and difficult but the trauma and distress of staying on in an extremely emotionally and spiritually abusive relationship can be 10 times worse.
Perhaps the thought of losing his wife and kids may jolt this fool of a husband back into his senses!

Abukari Ibrahim 6 months ago

I bet you, it's always better to have someone date your husband than to be the one dating someone else husband. Stay or you might end up dating someone else husband in other to take care of your needs and that of the children ...
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I bet you, it's always better to have someone date your husband than to be the one dating someone else husband. Stay or you might end up dating someone else husband in other to take care of your needs and that of the children. 90percent of women who leave because their husbands are dating out side end up dating someone else husband. Stay, you won't regret staying.
Shamsi Waleed 6 months ago

it's always better to have someone date your husband than to be the one dating someone else husband.>>>> you're simply foolish

it's always better to have someone date your husband than to be the one dating someone else husband.>>>> you're simply foolish
Sycamore 6 months ago

You're even more foolisher ! You're allergic to reality, that's how God created the universe man is polygamous by nature read your Bible well and stop the tomfoolery.

You're even more foolisher ! You're allergic to reality, that's how God created the universe man is polygamous by nature read your Bible well and stop the tomfoolery.
Rahman 6 months ago

Listen to this foolish Mohammedan. Show him where in the Bible he should read to understand how polygamy is naturally ordained. Even with his polygamous marriage your prophet, Mohammed, never stopped raping women and sleeping ...
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Listen to this foolish Mohammedan. Show him where in the Bible he should read to understand how polygamy is naturally ordained. Even with his polygamous marriage your prophet, Mohammed, never stopped raping women and sleeping with his slaves. A pervert is a pervert and no amount of wives is enough for him. Maybe he should read the hadiths too to know how raping women and sleeping with slaves too is natural.
Rev.boafo 6 months ago

An idiot like u and a little pig Brain like u hv no conscience n dignity, how did his comment connect to insulting the Holy prophet? May curses rain on ur generations, Abraham the friend of God was polygamous, Jacob, David ,S ...
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An idiot like u and a little pig Brain like u hv no conscience n dignity, how did his comment connect to insulting the Holy prophet? May curses rain on ur generations, Abraham the friend of God was polygamous, Jacob, David ,Solomon etc.how does being polygamous make u an evil? If that's the case then are these prophet's evil too? You need to attend to the nearest psychiatric hospital for a check up b4 it's too late.90% of Christians hippocrates like u still hv multiple side chicks, idiot
Shamsi Waleed 6 months ago

Idiot. Since when is abraham Jacob and Solomon prophets? Kwasia ..go to church you won't go. Now see what you're saying. Disgraced Reverend.

Polygamy isn't godly. Period. If men are polygamous..women are more polygamous c ...
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Idiot. Since when is abraham Jacob and Solomon prophets? Kwasia ..go to church you won't go. Now see what you're saying. Disgraced Reverend.

Polygamy isn't godly. Period. If men are polygamous..women are more polygamous cause most men raise other men's kid. Paternity fraud is around 40% worldwide. Ofui
Shamsi Waleed 6 months ago

Sycamore you're wrong. Stop being a fool. Women are polygamous naturally. What do you think house wife do when the husband is at work? She's bonking Efo carpenter on the kitchen stool

HAHAHAHA

Sycamore you're wrong. Stop being a fool. Women are polygamous naturally. What do you think house wife do when the husband is at work? She's bonking Efo carpenter on the kitchen stool

HAHAHAHA
Charles oppong 6 months ago

Don't U ever think of leaving ur marriage woman,u "ll live to regret it.get on ur "kneels" and cry to GOD ALMIGHTY,He "ll surely intervin.best of luck!

Don't U ever think of leaving ur marriage woman,u "ll live to regret it.get on ur "kneels" and cry to GOD ALMIGHTY,He "ll surely intervin.best of luck!
Paulga 6 months ago

Stay for your own good,if you quit he will still be in relationship with her so why not stay.

Stay for your own good,if you quit he will still be in relationship with her so why not stay.
kk 6 months ago

stay and keep praying. leaving him doesnt solve the problem. stay in and pray after all he is not harming you.

stay and keep praying. leaving him doesnt solve the problem. stay in and pray after all he is not harming you.

Hannan 6 months ago

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Nana 6 months ago

Confront the woman with a healthy chat... and the nonsense feelings will vanished. U can go with the two kids also. She is not in the known, most often, once other side of the story is known, the human desire vanishes

Confront the woman with a healthy chat... and the nonsense feelings will vanished. U can go with the two kids also. She is not in the known, most often, once other side of the story is known, the human desire vanishes
ANDREWS AKPAKPA 6 months ago

REPORT HIM TO THE POLICE RIGHTNOW!

REPORT HIM TO THE POLICE RIGHTNOW!
Sugar 6 months ago

Have your third child and stay for the sake of the kids. Please don't leave your marriage. You will regret someday if you leave. He will come back to you. He is only having fun.

Have your third child and stay for the sake of the kids. Please don't leave your marriage. You will regret someday if you leave. He will come back to you. He is only having fun.
Michael 6 months ago

Please stay,dear sister.if he is worthy man he will when to come back, don't over react please even though is difficult to pretend everything is alrighif.
If you can,in a very calm voice with know pressure tell him you know ...
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Please stay,dear sister.if he is worthy man he will when to come back, don't over react please even though is difficult to pretend everything is alrighif.
If you can,in a very calm voice with know pressure tell him you know what is going on between them,the sum of money,the promotion and all that,let him know you are not a fool then tend to do what is expected of you as a mother and wife(your mental sanity is what I care about,the children and don't excalate matters dear....
Michael 6 months ago

If he is a worthy man he will 'know' when to come back....

If he is a worthy man he will 'know' when to come back....
Linda Ashong 6 months ago

Ghana Government do not accept such stories and advice on their web

Ghana Government do not accept such stories and advice on their web
Dio 6 months ago

Raping your own mother is better than insulting a prophet, My God destroy your whole generation.AMEN

Raping your own mother is better than insulting a prophet, My God destroy your whole generation.AMEN
Shamsi Waleed 6 months ago

Dio you're disgusting. God will punish you for raping your mother. What's insult got to do with incest and rape. Typical mindset of your kind

Dio you're disgusting. God will punish you for raping your mother. What's insult got to do with incest and rape. Typical mindset of your kind
ADVISER. 6 months ago

This is disheartening though, I will advice you to be patient and take the situation into private prayer. Be sure that the Lord hates such behavior and by that your prayer will be answered positively. Try not quarrarel with h ...
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This is disheartening though, I will advice you to be patient and take the situation into private prayer. Be sure that the Lord hates such behavior and by that your prayer will be answered positively. Try not quarrarel with him, i;stead do all with absolute patience

Miriam 6 months ago

And you too are you just sitting home and making babies or what? You want to leave marriage with 3 children. Do you have a meaningful job? What is your security? Where are you going with the kids? After the 2 kids you should ...
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And you too are you just sitting home and making babies or what? You want to leave marriage with 3 children. Do you have a meaningful job? What is your security? Where are you going with the kids? After the 2 kids you should have found something lucrative to do. Acquire some skill, trade, business or work that will pay you to complement what your husband is giving you smh
PASCO GEE 6 months ago

God will punish anyone who insults a prophet

God will punish anyone who insults a prophet
The Spear 6 months ago

Where are the prophets, in Ghana? Eat good food before going to bed so you won't continue to have bad dreams.

Where are the prophets, in Ghana? Eat good food before going to bed so you won't continue to have bad dreams.
Mus 6 months ago

Your husband is running double shifts. The most important thing is he is bringing money home. Take it that he has two wives and takes very good care of both.
Don’t complicate your life. Once he is there for you, just keep ...
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Your husband is running double shifts. The most important thing is he is bringing money home. Take it that he has two wives and takes very good care of both.
Don’t complicate your life. Once he is there for you, just keep quiet.
Life is not easy.
kulbogo 6 months ago

Jst stay wid tym he ll change ok, there's tym for everytin n surely he would soon get tired of de boss n walk away fr her for gud, so dnt worry urself by leaving ur marriage, u really work for dis relationship n dat was de re ...
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Jst stay wid tym he ll change ok, there's tym for everytin n surely he would soon get tired of de boss n walk away fr her for gud, so dnt worry urself by leaving ur marriage, u really work for dis relationship n dat was de reason u were linking him to others to help him rise in life.

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