Dear GhanaWeb: My boyfriend is not willing to help himself and it's getting me worried

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Colombo 6 months ago

Give him money to establish himself if you really love him

Give him money to establish himself if you really love him
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Charles oppong 6 months ago

If you were my daughter i "ll slape you for having a relationship with such a lazy man.if he can't work here in ghana,what do u think he can do abroad?

If you were my daughter i "ll slape you for having a relationship with such a lazy man.if he can't work here in ghana,what do u think he can do abroad?
Nana 6 months ago

Don’t just walk away but run and run more. We have a lot of people like that even here in USA they’re like bone to be lazy all they life

Don’t just walk away but run and run more. We have a lot of people like that even here in USA they’re like bone to be lazy all they life
Benedicta 6 months ago

I will break up with him immediately because he is not ready to listen to you and change his behaviour.
If you marry a man like him, you are going to suffer and moreover you are going to play the role of a father and a mothe ...
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I will break up with him immediately because he is not ready to listen to you and change his behaviour.
If you marry a man like him, you are going to suffer and moreover you are going to play the role of a father and a mother whiles there is a man in the house.
so, its better you end that relationship now than to be in hell forever.
Ambijoe 6 months ago

Move away fr him ok

Move away fr him ok
Korvi 6 months ago

SHARP, DROP HIM & STAY FAR AWAY. FLEE FROM HIM if you value your life.

SHARP, DROP HIM & STAY FAR AWAY. FLEE FROM HIM if you value your life.
Agangfeka Gabriel 6 months ago

Why are u eving waisting ur time with this lazy man who is ermles?. my dear love we dont slep in abroad and get money ooh, if u cant work in ghana forget America,this relationship have to stop now befor it is too late. Love w ...
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Why are u eving waisting ur time with this lazy man who is ermles?. my dear love we dont slep in abroad and get money ooh, if u cant work in ghana forget America,this relationship have to stop now befor it is too late. Love with good man and hard working is beter love ok"
King 6 months ago

Completely leave him! Dont further waste your time on him. If he’s serious to get the relationship going on, he would act positively. Some men are too lazy!!!

Completely leave him! Dont further waste your time on him. If he’s serious to get the relationship going on, he would act positively. Some men are too lazy!!!
Ghana Ba 6 months ago

Walk out.

Walk out.

Hannan 6 months ago

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Ina 6 months ago

The writing is on the wall. Thank God you have figured it out quick. There's a difference between leaving a lazy man and leaving a hardworking man who unfortunately got broke. Don't confuse the 2. You are young and live with ...
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The writing is on the wall. Thank God you have figured it out quick. There's a difference between leaving a lazy man and leaving a hardworking man who unfortunately got broke. Don't confuse the 2. You are young and live with your parents that's why you are even asking this question. When you move to live with him after marriage, that love may turn to hatred and then you will know that there's only one truth in every situation. Leave. You don't owe him.
@spect 6 months ago

Continue to look for More answers as day break draw near to you my sister, when day break you can see and understand better.

Continue to look for More answers as day break draw near to you my sister, when day break you can see and understand better.
fred 6 months ago

Kindly walk out peacefully from this relationship.
Simple.

Kindly walk out peacefully from this relationship.
Simple.
Citi Child 6 months ago

Run don't just leave
Run so fast for ur future

Run don't just leave
Run so fast for ur future
Lazy dreamer 6 months ago

What work is he going to do abroad..To sleep or what? He has nothing to loose with you in his life...he gets everything free in life. Talk to him for one last time... About what you truly feel...if he doesn't listen just quit ...
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What work is he going to do abroad..To sleep or what? He has nothing to loose with you in his life...he gets everything free in life. Talk to him for one last time... About what you truly feel...if he doesn't listen just quit the relationship if you truly care for him. He would wake up if you leave him
DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME ON A LOSER 6 months ago

The man is going nowhere and he is taking you with him. IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT IN LIFE?
I am amazed that you stuck it for so long with this "water". Young lady , do yourself a favour and cut yourself off COMPLETELY from this ...
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The man is going nowhere and he is taking you with him. IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT IN LIFE?
I am amazed that you stuck it for so long with this "water". Young lady , do yourself a favour and cut yourself off COMPLETELY from this loser.
One other thing: stop looking for someone who is going "abroad" or who has a "foreign passport"! That is not the most important criterion for looking for a husband or wife!!
Justice 6 months ago

First of all, I want to congratulate you for taking a decision to stay away from sex until you get married; a very good decision and God's favour is on you.
Your boyfriend's lifestyle is a big red flag. A serious man who wan ...
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First of all, I want to congratulate you for taking a decision to stay away from sex until you get married; a very good decision and God's favour is on you.
Your boyfriend's lifestyle is a big red flag. A serious man who wants to build a family will not remain idle at his age. If he is not ready to take up any challenge as a man, then he not yet prepared for marriage. Please stay away from him and give the chance to a more serious marriage minded man to come into your life. You are growing so the earlier you get serious with your marriage, the better.
Please God is with you, so remember to keep your principle of no sex before marriage, every man will respect you for this decision.
God bless you so much as He leads into the hands of a hardworking and god-fearing man.
Ina 6 months ago

Wonderful advice

Wonderful advice

Akosat 6 months ago

Most men marry nurses for financial stability, ( not to say they will be dependent on the nurses).Your man doesn't want to work but to depend on you. You would take care of him like a baby, in addition to your future kids. H ...
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Most men marry nurses for financial stability, ( not to say they will be dependent on the nurses).Your man doesn't want to work but to depend on you. You would take care of him like a baby, in addition to your future kids. He could end up frustrating you with his enviness and jealousy over you, from friends and family... No peace. Worst of all he can be very dangerous on your life once he realises he is loosing you. Let him off the hook before it's too late
Yaa 6 months ago

You're even too kind to still be with him

You're even too kind to still be with him

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