Dear GhanaWeb: My wife found out I have kids with another woman and my home has been chaotic

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1 Man 6 months ago

Through 1 man (Adam), sin and death came to all men.
Through 1 man (Jesus), forgiveness and eternal life is available for all men.

Run to Jesus for your salvation.

Through 1 man (Adam), sin and death came to all men.
Through 1 man (Jesus), forgiveness and eternal life is available for all men.

Run to Jesus for your salvation.
hmm 6 months ago

kwasia man commot for there u were praying for this day to happen. U planned this all along u want ur wife to call for divorce so u can be free but na lie u go suffer am.

kwasia man commot for there u were praying for this day to happen. U planned this all along u want ur wife to call for divorce so u can be free but na lie u go suffer am.
hmm 6 months ago

kwasia man commot for there u were praying for this day to happen. U planned this all along u want ur wife to call for divorce so u can be free but na lie u go suffer am.

kwasia man commot for there u were praying for this day to happen. U planned this all along u want ur wife to call for divorce so u can be free but na lie u go suffer am.
Yaw 6 months ago

What nonsense is this?

What nonsense is this?
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Nana 6 months ago

JUST STAY IN THERE MOST OF THEM ARE LIKE THAT SHE THINKS SHE IS TELLING THEM TO SEE YOU US A BADMAN BUT SHE IS GOING TO DO IT TO A POINT PEOPLE WILL NOT MIND HER ANYMORE

JUST STAY IN THERE MOST OF THEM ARE LIKE THAT SHE THINKS SHE IS TELLING THEM TO SEE YOU US A BADMAN BUT SHE IS GOING TO DO IT TO A POINT PEOPLE WILL NOT MIND HER ANYMORE
coop-city 6 months ago

Don't pay her any mind. It has already happened so there is nothing you can do. Leave her alone.... and let her continue ranting.

Don't pay her any mind. It has already happened so there is nothing you can do. Leave her alone.... and let her continue ranting.
Georges 6 months ago

Even in your write up, you create the impression of an arrogant man who thinks because you can give her the world, she should not complain. You should have been man enough to tell her yourself and not let her find out herself ...
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Even in your write up, you create the impression of an arrogant man who thinks because you can give her the world, she should not complain. You should have been man enough to tell her yourself and not let her find out herself.
Having 1 child is a mistake but 2 isn't. Find a way to make it up to her. Uour posture won't help. Just apologise n move on. If she wants it fine if she doesn't then move on
Prof abq 6 months ago

Write your comment; My children, adv men n women well to desist from their evil mistakes. l beg u my children.read the story well God bless u.

Write your comment; My children, adv men n women well to desist from their evil mistakes. l beg u my children.read the story well God bless u.
Prof abq 6 months ago

Write your comment;Uar boasting of ur wealth today, did u knows tomorrow. for if u do good,n if u do bad is for ur future think ?.

Write your comment;Uar boasting of ur wealth today, did u knows tomorrow. for if u do good,n if u do bad is for ur future think ?.

Vodooo 6 months ago

lollll

lollll
judischrislam 6 months ago

To solve this problem married the other woman and once she gets a competitor she will shut up her mouth and do all she can to gain your attention.
Secondly stop eating her food. Eat from the other woman. When she askes why ...
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To solve this problem married the other woman and once she gets a competitor she will shut up her mouth and do all she can to gain your attention.
Secondly stop eating her food. Eat from the other woman. When she askes why you tell her you don't trust her any longer. I tell you sidechicks are more trustworthy than our wives because she depends on you and she loses when you are gone.
That is how are grand parents controlled their families. Women respect and adore men who are rough with them.
Shamsi Waleed 6 months ago

So the nss sidechic who took the married man to court is trustworthy? You think you're the only man in the sidechic life? Didn't kikibee die in his sidechic apartment when he has a wife and family at home?

Continue fooling ...
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So the nss sidechic who took the married man to court is trustworthy? You think you're the only man in the sidechic life? Didn't kikibee die in his sidechic apartment when he has a wife and family at home?

Continue fooling wae. Foolish man should divorce his wife and give her peace
Akosat 6 months ago

You sound arrogant and intentional.Having Kids from two different women is quite an issue. You are likely to face rivalry issues between the two mothers and between the two groups of kids. So try as much as you can to handle ...
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You sound arrogant and intentional.Having Kids from two different women is quite an issue. You are likely to face rivalry issues between the two mothers and between the two groups of kids. So try as much as you can to handle the issues with no bias, otherwise you may end up with nothing to be proud of. All the best
Abaqua 6 months ago

Write your comment; Ask ur wife to tell us her side story. for if this is done to ur daughter or sister. uar a wicked womanizer or being tamed. uar not a good friend shame.

Write your comment; Ask ur wife to tell us her side story. for if this is done to ur daughter or sister. uar a wicked womanizer or being tamed. uar not a good friend shame.
Sheeigi 6 months ago

I think you have money, you can even go for the 3rd -4th wife, so the second one shouldn't be happy though, nonsense and arrogant man. You see where your trouble have landed you? Dont try to divorce the pressure or you end up ...
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I think you have money, you can even go for the 3rd -4th wife, so the second one shouldn't be happy though, nonsense and arrogant man. You see where your trouble have landed you? Dont try to divorce the pressure or you end up disowning some of you children. Thus you punishment 4life.
Yaw 6 months ago

Tell her that you are an African man and polygamy is in your blood.

Tell her that you are an African man and polygamy is in your blood.
ANDREWS AKPAKPA 6 months ago

PLEASE GO FOR COUNCILING AND COURT TOMORRO!

PLEASE GO FOR COUNCILING AND COURT TOMORRO!
Nii Adjei Sowa 6 months ago

Only a fool and lazy man will marry a wife. You will understand the meaning of one wife at your old age

Only a fool and lazy man will marry a wife. You will understand the meaning of one wife at your old age
Charles oppong 6 months ago

She is gone too far,what else does she want u to do?some women/wives "ll even keep it a secret frm family members to protect their husbands image.let her continue to grieve until she is tired."even the dead welcomes more,how ...
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She is gone too far,what else does she want u to do?some women/wives "ll even keep it a secret frm family members to protect their husbands image.let her continue to grieve until she is tired."even the dead welcomes more,how much the living"?

KingBee 6 months ago

You have no shame. Stop this macho nonsense and be accept the blame

You have no shame. Stop this macho nonsense and be accept the blame
Boakye David 6 months ago

My brother from another mother, just get to her and say you are sorry remorsefuly and romantically just to calm her down.
If she still persist, just do your normal duties and let her continue to do the unnecessary.
Spreadin ...
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My brother from another mother, just get to her and say you are sorry remorsefuly and romantically just to calm her down.
If she still persist, just do your normal duties and let her continue to do the unnecessary.
Spreading untrue and secret statements about you make her less matured and a child to herself.
My brother just carry on with your duties and forget about divorce. She will get tires bcos the do cannot be undo.
Agya Pa 6 months ago

Bro your story is similar to mine in terms of what your wife is doing . However in my case , I do not have any kids with her but rather her 3 kids living with us . I got a side chick and have a baby with her. I play every rol ...
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Bro your story is similar to mine in terms of what your wife is doing . However in my case , I do not have any kids with her but rather her 3 kids living with us . I got a side chick and have a baby with her. I play every role as a husband but nothing is appreciated. She drags my name in the mud, discuss me with her family and friends every single day , moody and I can feel that she hates me to the skin.
Hannan 6 months ago

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Lord Lugard 6 months ago

If she continues to disturb you allow her to go. You haven't committed any crime.

If she continues to disturb you allow her to go. You haven't committed any crime.
Esi 6 months ago

You're not fair at all!

You're not fair at all!
Nana 6 months ago

Your story is very irritating:you have two kids with your side chick and you call it a mistake. You were brought up thinking money is everything so all you are talking or boasting is your money but imagine its your wife who h ...
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Your story is very irritating:you have two kids with your side chick and you call it a mistake. You were brought up thinking money is everything so all you are talking or boasting is your money but imagine its your wife who has the money and decides to have another husband. Sorry to say your erection sent you to the wrong direction.
Michael 6 months ago

Never be sober about it, been remorseful is enough in my opinion pose the question to her ,what she wants you to do now?that she found out and going around darkening your name!
Next question,to her,does she want a divorce or ...
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Never be sober about it, been remorseful is enough in my opinion pose the question to her ,what she wants you to do now?that she found out and going around darkening your name!
Next question,to her,does she want a divorce or she want you to stay together??
Willichie 6 months ago

The excess she is misbehaving shows how deeply and dear she love, trust and believes you so take it easy rather.

The excess she is misbehaving shows how deeply and dear she love, trust and believes you so take it easy rather.
Abi 6 months ago

Since u were the man that u were talking about by providing everything except honesty,trust, dignity why didn't u tell ur loved wife boldly what u were doing since u can afford it?u this uncultured men after ur lust and uncon ...
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Since u were the man that u were talking about by providing everything except honesty,trust, dignity why didn't u tell ur loved wife boldly what u were doing since u can afford it?u this uncultured men after ur lust and uncontrolled characters when u fail then u want to brag.women dnt need cars we need trust and respect.

Ab 6 months ago

What a heartless man. But that's what ladies who run after already made men deserve.

What a heartless man. But that's what ladies who run after already made men deserve.
B.o.b 6 months ago

What nonsense, did I just read? Did he say mistake? 1 child, maybe, but 2 children is very intentional. Smh

What nonsense, did I just read? Did he say mistake? 1 child, maybe, but 2 children is very intentional. Smh
kulbogu 6 months ago

man much as i support polygamy bt u must as wel respect n show more remorse ok,

man much as i support polygamy bt u must as wel respect n show more remorse ok,

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