Dear GhanaWeb: 'I have fallen out of love three weeks into my marriage'

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Togbe Kporwomordzikpo KpornugloAvumako 4 months ago

This girl is not matured for marriage

This girl is not matured for marriage
SHE DOESN'T KNOW WHAT SHE WANTS.MARRIAGE COMES WITH HUGE RESPONSIBLITIES. MARRIAGE IS A GREAT INVESTMENT WHICH YIELDS A BUMPER HARVEST FOR THOSE WHO PERSEVERE IN SPITE OF GREAT CHALLENGES. 4 months ago

Marriage is not for the immature or faint hearted. It is not for those who are self-centred or narcissistic. It is not for those who cannot commit to be faithful to a spouse. It is not for those who do not understand that the ...
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Marriage is not for the immature or faint hearted. It is not for those who are self-centred or narcissistic. It is not for those who cannot commit to be faithful to a spouse. It is not for those who do not understand that the warm fuzzy feeling which some call "love" quickly fades away after the marriage ceremony. In healthy growing marriages this fuzzy feeling is eventually replaced by a steadily growing friendship and companionships, committed and sacrificial love. This is a process which takes years to bear rich fruit.

THE MARRIAGE JOURNEY IS A MARATHON ON AN OFTEN-BUMPY ROAD.
After a couple of decades, I can now truly say that my spouse is my best friend and vice versa. It did not happen overnight. It did not happen after a year. It did not happen after 5 years but each year the relationship grew and became more beautiful as we battled our way through thick and thin and all the challenges that are associated with being a couple and a family. The relationship matured as we learned to adjust to each other and be considerate towards each other. The peace and contentment that comes after years of perseverance is a prize worth striving for. A shared faith based on the Holy Scripture remains our sure and tested instructions and guidebook.
There is no such thing as a "perfect marriage" and there are no shortcuts in marriage. But near perfection is possible especially when God is invited to be a participant in this most challenging of relationships.
Apot 4 months ago

Get pregnant fast and use the pregnancy as excuse.
He is definitely not considerate

Get pregnant fast and use the pregnancy as excuse.
He is definitely not considerate
AND WHAT IF HE LEAVES HER WHEN SHE BECOMES PREGNANT? SOME SELFISH MEN DO JUST THAT. 4 months ago

What an idiotic piece of advice. Some men who have no self-control or discipline leave their women or have affairs when these women become pregnant. What if this SELF-CENTRED and clearly IMMATURE man decides to do the same?
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What an idiotic piece of advice. Some men who have no self-control or discipline leave their women or have affairs when these women become pregnant. What if this SELF-CENTRED and clearly IMMATURE man decides to do the same?
I know the type.They are the kind who will spend a small fortune buying an expensive watch or a pair of designer glasses or trainers even though there is isn't enough money to pay for the groceries their wife and children need. I call them BABY MEN.They have countless selfies of themselves online and on social media in various poses. It is sickening. Pray that if you have a daughter she doesn't end up with a narcissistic character like that- sadly they are the type that many superficial women are attracted to and get hitched to them only to discover rather too late that they married a paper cut-out of a "husband".
Sallie 4 months ago

He put on a mask this whole time and now it slid off. You have two options, do to marriage counseling or get a divorce/annulment if he doesn't agree. As an adult everyone should know and do the basic skill of cooking and clea ...
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He put on a mask this whole time and now it slid off. You have two options, do to marriage counseling or get a divorce/annulment if he doesn't agree. As an adult everyone should know and do the basic skill of cooking and cleaning, instead he was you to be his bangmaid. This type of man will ruin you guys financially as well, he is not someone to build a future with. DO NOT get pregnant with this man, he will not help you with the baby nor assist with any chore, he'll be useless.
Sallie 4 months ago

This is called masking. He put on a mask this whole time and now he's taken it off. You have two options, either go to marriage counseling or get a divorce/annulment if he doesn't agree. As an adult everyone should know and h ...
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This is called masking. He put on a mask this whole time and now he's taken it off. You have two options, either go to marriage counseling or get a divorce/annulment if he doesn't agree. As an adult everyone should know and have the basic skill of cooking and cleaning, instead he wants you to be his bangmaid. This type of man will ruin you both financially, he is not someone to build a future with. DO NOT get pregnant with this man, he will not help you with the baby nor assist with any household chores, and you situation will get worse. You will grow to resent him because he is useless and not an equal partner. Goodluck!
Koo 4 months ago

And you will entertain this nonsense for how long?!!!!

And you will entertain this nonsense for how long?!!!!
Henry 4 months ago

If he is not listening to your pleas and if all that you are saying are true then divorce him as soon as possible before it's too late

If he is not listening to your pleas and if all that you are saying are true then divorce him as soon as possible before it's too late
Gh 4 months ago

Kindly marry your corporate work..

Kindly marry your corporate work..

Express your feelings to him 4 months ago

If he does not change divorce him
You are not a maid

If he does not change divorce him
You are not a maid
Yaa Pompor 4 months ago

You never loved him. It's better you marry your corporate work.

You never loved him. It's better you marry your corporate work.
Akosua Dompo 4 months ago

So you didn't know these things about your husband. What at all do you two know about each other? Isn't it obvious you were playing the game of cricket all this while? Getting in just to get out?

So you didn't know these things about your husband. What at all do you two know about each other? Isn't it obvious you were playing the game of cricket all this while? Getting in just to get out?
Richard Cobbina 4 months ago

my sister don't opt out, remember the marriage vow (for better for worse).Discuss with him and get yourself a maid to help you.

my sister don't opt out, remember the marriage vow (for better for worse).Discuss with him and get yourself a maid to help you.
Paa solo 4 months ago

He is not serious, i think he is living in a
dream. If he doesn't change then get out of the marriage. Your not a slave, if you are a house wife then fine I would have understood him but if your also working and bringing so ...
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He is not serious, i think he is living in a
dream. If he doesn't change then get out of the marriage. Your not a slave, if you are a house wife then fine I would have understood him but if your also working and bringing something to the table, then he should be considerate if not then forgerrrit get out.
Ghana 4 months ago

Damn!!!!!!!
Awula, kɔ wai.
Hook-up is a more profitable enterprise and your freedom is 100% guaranteed.
Yabrɛ mo.

Damn!!!!!!!
Awula, kɔ wai.
Hook-up is a more profitable enterprise and your freedom is 100% guaranteed.
Yabrɛ mo.
Menz 4 months ago

You have married a fool and a bully.

You have married a fool and a bully.
Ebi 4 months ago

You guys should sit down and discuss this and make him reason with you my dear, don't live ok

You guys should sit down and discuss this and make him reason with you my dear, don't live ok
JULOR CAESAR 4 months ago

It's not surprising that you fell out of love just three weeks into your marriage, given that all you did in those three weeks was listen to Tina Turner's song 'Who needs love' while your confused husband wondered why he ever ...
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It's not surprising that you fell out of love just three weeks into your marriage, given that all you did in those three weeks was listen to Tina Turner's song 'Who needs love' while your confused husband wondered why he ever married you. Your husband, in an attempt to soothe his wounded heart, is now also constantly listening to the Bee Gees' song 'Love so right, turned to be so wrong'. Run to the Kingdom of Kubala, for Ajagurajah Jr, the King of Kubala, is looking for a Queen Mother that he can pamper with love.
Justice 4 months ago

No divorce after marriage. It is against the will of God, your are not of your own, God is the holder of your life, so do your things according to His Will. Involve a good pastor or elderly person in discussion to get a house ...
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No divorce after marriage. It is against the will of God, your are not of your own, God is the holder of your life, so do your things according to His Will. Involve a good pastor or elderly person in discussion to get a house help. Little from your salary and little from his can pay for the services of the house help. May the Lord be in the centre of your marriage.

KWABENA KASAPREKO. 4 months ago

BUT WHO CARES IF YOU HAVE "--FALLEN OUT OF LOVE, THREE WEEKS INTO YOUR MARRIAGE." WE NEED IMPORTANT NATIONAL ISSUES TO DISCUSS ON-LINE.

BUT WHO CARES IF YOU HAVE "--FALLEN OUT OF LOVE, THREE WEEKS INTO YOUR MARRIAGE." WE NEED IMPORTANT NATIONAL ISSUES TO DISCUSS ON-LINE.

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