'Men who can't live with their girlfriends aren't ready for marriage' - Woman goes viral

A Nigerian woman has shared her views on relationships and marriage, questioning men who are unwilling to spend extended periods living with their partners.

“You men, you people have very stupid audacity,” she stated in a video shared on X.

“How can you tell me that you can’t allow your girlfriend—your girlfriend, not even a one-year relationship, like a three-year relationship—to stay with you?

“If she stays with you for more than two weeks, you’ll be tired,” she said.

She went on to compare dating arrangements with the realities of married life, suggesting that long-term commitment requires partners to spend significant time together.

“So how would you marry? Wedding and marriage are two different things. A wedding is a day; marriage is for life. So how do you intend to marry?” she asked.

The woman further questioned how such relationships would function after marriage if partners struggled to live together for extended periods beforehand.

“Abi, should the woman be going to her parents’ house and coming to your side, stay for two weeks, then go back?” she added.

“How can you tell me that you can't allow your girlfriend to stay with you for more than two weeks because you will be bored and tired? How will you get married?” — Lady asks men

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— Instablog9ja (@instablog9ja) June 20, 2026