Well Well Well, for me i really dont care what anyman thinks about my natural hair, it is mine and nobody else, so if anyman who claims to love me but doesn't love my natural hair can get the boot because i come in a complete ... read full comment
Well Well Well, for me i really dont care what anyman thinks about my natural hair, it is mine and nobody else, so if anyman who claims to love me but doesn't love my natural hair can get the boot because i come in a complete package and my hair is part of it, you can't pick and choose what you like about my body. I have confidence in myself and dont need any man to compliment it. I think women who kotow to their men about wearing weaves are weak and luck self confidence.
sukki babe 9 years ago
ObeyIng ur guy doesnt meen u r weak or u luck confIdent, bt rather trying to let him know u r doing al bcos of him. After al u doing ur hair bcos of him...
ObeyIng ur guy doesnt meen u r weak or u luck confIdent, bt rather trying to let him know u r doing al bcos of him. After al u doing ur hair bcos of him...
cute shay 9 years ago
Wow, you do your hair because of a man? Well if you the kind who totally depend on a man, then that makes sense. Respecting your man does not mean acting like his slave. That hair is on your head not his so you gotta love it ... read full comment
Wow, you do your hair because of a man? Well if you the kind who totally depend on a man, then that makes sense. Respecting your man does not mean acting like his slave. That hair is on your head not his so you gotta love it yourself to do it. I bet that man chooses how to cut his hair, not you. You gotta love yourself first, I ain't gonna put no funny looking weave on to make me look stupid just because my boo likes it, heck no, love me, love everything about me. Adenta, I totally agree with you smarty pants. I feel so sorry for these Ghana celebrities who put on thrown out hair, they look ridiculous when they touch it, and brush it with their hands like it's their own, I hope this weave and wig craze stops soon
Adenta 9 years ago
I guess some people would never get the point we are trying to make, no matter how we present it so lets leave them alone to mess up their natural beautiful hair. For those of us who have had the opportunity to try both weave ... read full comment
I guess some people would never get the point we are trying to make, no matter how we present it so lets leave them alone to mess up their natural beautiful hair. For those of us who have had the opportunity to try both weave and natural, we know the benefits of natural hair out weighs that of weaves. More grease to their elbows, celebrities and their wannabe celebrities .
cute shay 9 years ago
I know right. I'm actually shocked at how some women think in this century. Is heartbreaking
I know right. I'm actually shocked at how some women think in this century. Is heartbreaking
Adenta 9 years ago
My dear friend i guess some of our african sisters would never get it, no matter how hard we try. Lets leave them to continue what they like to do best looking all fake. I don't know how many men cut their hair because of the ... read full comment
My dear friend i guess some of our african sisters would never get it, no matter how hard we try. Lets leave them to continue what they like to do best looking all fake. I don't know how many men cut their hair because of their women, i am glad you and I and a few of our african sisters have seen the "light" to free ourselfs from these so called weave craze thing
cute shay 9 years ago
They can keep on whipping that fake hair back and forth like it's their own, lol
They can keep on whipping that fake hair back and forth like it's their own, lol
Adenta 9 years ago
It is my hope that someday our african sisters that are into this weave craze would see the light that made some of us to go natural, maybe oneday.
It is my hope that someday our african sisters that are into this weave craze would see the light that made some of us to go natural, maybe oneday.
Adenta 9 years ago
Did you listen to yourself very well? if you are wearing fake because of your guy then i pity, why can't you do it because you want to do it for yourselff? So you would jump from a roof top into a burning fire for your guy an ... read full comment
Did you listen to yourself very well? if you are wearing fake because of your guy then i pity, why can't you do it because you want to do it for yourselff? So you would jump from a roof top into a burning fire for your guy and let him know you did it because of him? Do you see the similarities between the two? I guess your guy can get you to do anything he wants since you are so obedient to him smh . Stop giving excuses lady and wise up! weaves are bad for your scalp and your hairline, if you obey your guy even though what he might be telling you to do is bad and you do it you are weak and luck confidence in yourself to do what is right, thats why the good book says luck of knowledge my people perish...fyi not all women do their hair for their guys, majority of women i know dont do that so dont speak for the masses speak for yourself. Check your spellings next time before you post on this forum missy...#Goodluck with wearing weave to please your man. If God wanted you to have long hair he would have given it to you from the day you wear born.
cute shay 9 years ago
Onua, I sometimes watch these ratchet shows on TV, and I think this was love and hip hop Hollywood, Ray J told his girlfriend to go knock out another woman and the fool got up and went to attack that woman, I was like really? ... read full comment
Onua, I sometimes watch these ratchet shows on TV, and I think this was love and hip hop Hollywood, Ray J told his girlfriend to go knock out another woman and the fool got up and went to attack that woman, I was like really? , after the reunion he broke up with her and she threatened to commit suicide so he called 911 I'm like what a shame. This is to support the argument that most women who do every darn thing their men ask them to do are capable of anything and also they are most often insecure for so many reasons. In Ghana, I think that insecurity stems from the fact that we expect the man to buy us every little thing including pads and all that, so why won't you do anything he says. If this women were to be working hard and getting their own money, they may have a different story. On a much lighter side those women may be used to only adam and eve style nkoaaaaaa coz they can't take dominion, that's a joke , lol
cute shay 9 years ago
I thought that puppy love thing ends after a couple of dates then reality sets in, but obviously some women continue with the puppy thing throughout...
I thought that puppy love thing ends after a couple of dates then reality sets in, but obviously some women continue with the puppy thing throughout...
Ogo 9 years ago
Let me ask you a question. Have you ever asked for something from anyone and they gave you what you want? Was it fullfilling or not?
If you ever answered in the affirmative, then please reflect on the fact that your partner ... read full comment
Let me ask you a question. Have you ever asked for something from anyone and they gave you what you want? Was it fullfilling or not?
If you ever answered in the affirmative, then please reflect on the fact that your partner may also be fullfilled when you accept and do his requests.
cute shay 9 years ago
Realistic stuff, yes and if I feel pretty ok with it why not, but I won't do the Ghanaian way where people do things not from the bottom of their hearts, I do things wholeheartedly, at least for the most part. I won't do some ... read full comment
Realistic stuff, yes and if I feel pretty ok with it why not, but I won't do the Ghanaian way where people do things not from the bottom of their hearts, I do things wholeheartedly, at least for the most part. I won't do something and regret anyway. Like guys requesting ladies to tattoo their names on their bodies and since they want to please them, they do it and break up after, isn't it dumb? You gotta be yourself even if you in a relationship, don't be a fool then when you dumbed, you cry I've been used coz of all the crazy things you did supposedly for the man. I know a story where a girl wanting to please her man accepted for him to have anal sex with her, and it resulted in extreme complications, that's plain stupid. You gotta be smart, most African women are passive, and they suffer in their relationships, yall should wise up and stop the 1880 attitude. Plus lemme end by saying if you feel happy fulfilling your partner's wishes and fantasies, do you and others would do them. After all there will always be the strong and the weak, the smart and the dumb, the nerd and the dummy, you always have choices. Fact, most passive women are eventually thrown out of their homes with nothing from the marriage and a strong and confident woman takes over, I'm not saying it's right, but it happens often , because fake humility and puppy love get old fast. I pray African women would be strong and stand for themselves, I know what I'm talking about so wise up ladies. FYI I got an awesome boo, who knows which century we in and we great. Wish all women who will die for their men Goodluck, that's a full time job for real, wooop
Adenta 9 years ago
So you mean to tell me throwing some fake ass hair on top of their head even though you know their kind doesnt produce that naturally ? If thats what you consider fulfillment when you ask for one is sad. At the end of the day ... read full comment
So you mean to tell me throwing some fake ass hair on top of their head even though you know their kind doesnt produce that naturally ? If thats what you consider fulfillment when you ask for one is sad. At the end of the day you would be asking to marry someone who is real and not fake. Ask for realistic stuff and not fake please.
Gifty 9 years ago
for me i put on these weave because my hair is not heavy and beside it looks nice
for me i put on these weave because my hair is not heavy and beside it looks nice
Shankeley CANADA 9 years ago
i love ladies with long hair
i love ladies with long hair
humble 9 years ago
I love n love n love ladies with their natural hair, I really wish all Ghanaian ladies will leave their hair natural. u ladies look extremely beautiful in that.
I love n love n love ladies with their natural hair, I really wish all Ghanaian ladies will leave their hair natural. u ladies look extremely beautiful in that.
DR KUFFOUR 9 years ago
For me it is " The Corn Roll " or " Natural Down Cut ". It fits every lady.
For me it is " The Corn Roll " or " Natural Down Cut ". It fits every lady.
sonia 9 years ago
#cute shay, dnt be a hipocrite. we all do our hair styles purposely to look good ad feel good. but if only u are in a relationship, your guy might oneday request for you to do a hair do because fancy it alot. so stop braggn ... read full comment
#cute shay, dnt be a hipocrite. we all do our hair styles purposely to look good ad feel good. but if only u are in a relationship, your guy might oneday request for you to do a hair do because fancy it alot. so stop braggn missy
cute shay 9 years ago
You and who? Stop using we all coz I don't. So you telling me all women succumb to that? Wake up honey, I'm sorry but I ain't in your group. I think you mad coz you never thought it is possible. Well if you work so hard and y ... read full comment
You and who? Stop using we all coz I don't. So you telling me all women succumb to that? Wake up honey, I'm sorry but I ain't in your group. I think you mad coz you never thought it is possible. Well if you work so hard and you can totally support yourself, you don't have that insecurity lazy women have. Thank goodness I've never dated any guy who would ask me to do my hair to please him, heck I don't be telling them how to fix their hair. Wow I'm blessed then coz I'd tell him boo you can't control my hairstyle. Then it is a struggle for some of yall then. I guess you'd even go bald for your man then, or that you'd stand up and be woman enough to say no? Who is hypocritical now. Men like to play with weak women whiles admiring strong women, that is a fact I can personally attest to. He sure is fantasizing about some independent strong woman he can't get so the closest thing is to have you do your hair like that woman so it kinda satisfies his fantasy. Be empowered through hard work and you'll gain all the self confidence, then you wouldn't need any validation from a man coz men don't need no validation from us. I'm sad some women still feel this type of way.
Pride of Mother In-Laws 9 years ago
Hi cute shay,you sound so confident and truthfull to yourself.Please tell me something.Are you Gay. Be truthfull to yourself like you are preaching here,and tell me wholeheartedly. Listen to what you wrote ,´´Thank goodness ... read full comment
Hi cute shay,you sound so confident and truthfull to yourself.Please tell me something.Are you Gay. Be truthfull to yourself like you are preaching here,and tell me wholeheartedly. Listen to what you wrote ,´´Thank goodness I´ve never dated any guy who would ask me to do my hair to please him´´.
cute shay 9 years ago
I'm sorry but I love to suck not lick, and maybe I've just been lucky then, looking at how some girls are mad that I get to do me most times. And I'm not saying I won't do anything at all for my man, but I won't compromise on ... read full comment
I'm sorry but I love to suck not lick, and maybe I've just been lucky then, looking at how some girls are mad that I get to do me most times. And I'm not saying I won't do anything at all for my man, but I won't compromise on what I stand for just for him, we are humans as much as you love someone, something can happen and you two would go your separate ways then the regret about things you did just to please him hurts more, I've seen girlfriends go through it. I don't like chemicals in my hair, if my man loves women with chemicals that's fine...I take that back why would he see me with my natural hair and love me and then wants me to change?. All I'm saying is be realistic in stuff you'd do for your boo, especially when those things can eventually affect your health. I can say then that some women would bleach to satisfy their men then, ok , that's all I'm saying for women to be confident, believe in themselves and take charge of their affairs, don't be controlled all the time, that ain't right. I know there are some women who love to be controlled, so I ain't talking about them so they shouldn't even try to attack me, I'm talking about those who don't even see what they're doing. And this ain't even have nothing to do with being gay or not, so I don't even know what you were thinking of, oh well
I, The Pride of Mother In-Laws 9 years ago
Hi cute,i swear i am not trying to be rude or something of that sort. I am lost or i did not read your comments well. With every due respect,are you a man or a woman. You know i am living in Western European country where eng ... read full comment
Hi cute,i swear i am not trying to be rude or something of that sort. I am lost or i did not read your comments well. With every due respect,are you a man or a woman. You know i am living in Western European country where english is barely written nor spoken. I have not written or spoken english for over 20 years .And i sometimes make mess of myself with english.But please answer me so that i know how to address you next time, please.Hope you are not angry with me. To be truthful i mistook you for a man. soooo sorry.
cute shay 9 years ago
Oh dear, I get that on here, I mean people addressing me like I'm a dude, it cracks me up. I don't know why though. You are a man, maybe you can tell me how I'm able to come off as a dude, lol. ..I guess men are cute nowadays ... read full comment
Oh dear, I get that on here, I mean people addressing me like I'm a dude, it cracks me up. I don't know why though. You are a man, maybe you can tell me how I'm able to come off as a dude, lol. ..I guess men are cute nowadays too so women have lost their cute title, hahaha. And I'm cool, I ain't even mad. I told my boo the gay thing and he laughed, so at least we got a good laugh out of it. And you write good, most of us have become lazy with these slangs and short forms of words that they're taking the best of our writing, I'm so guilty of that. You stay blessed, but my pretty sister, Adenta ain't gonna pacify no gods, so hard luck bro, lol
Adenta 9 years ago
So you think she is infering that she is gay because of that statement? Or is it your understanding of the English language that is the problem? What do you have to contribute on the topic at large? I guess none huh? Contribu ... read full comment
So you think she is infering that she is gay because of that statement? Or is it your understanding of the English language that is the problem? What do you have to contribute on the topic at large? I guess none huh? Contribute on the topic madam or just enjoy what others have written ...
I, The Pride of Mother In-Laws 9 years ago
Hello Adenta, my precious one. Infact i got really lost on the whole issue. I have even aologised to Cute Shay. You can read it too. I think i hastily read her comments and for that matter came out with unnessary comments. I ... read full comment
Hello Adenta, my precious one. Infact i got really lost on the whole issue. I have even aologised to Cute Shay. You can read it too. I think i hastily read her comments and for that matter came out with unnessary comments. I am sooo SORRY. But my pretty, why do you call me madam. I am a Man. You will also have to pacify the gods.
cute shay 9 years ago
Hahaha, you are a mess. I thought you are a woman coz I saw mother-in-law, but I get it now, you are the pride of your mother-in-law?. And not to be rude, the plural form is mothers-in-law, unless you wrote that for a reason. ... read full comment
Hahaha, you are a mess. I thought you are a woman coz I saw mother-in-law, but I get it now, you are the pride of your mother-in-law?. And not to be rude, the plural form is mothers-in-law, unless you wrote that for a reason. And you omitted the "p" in apologized and it is unnecessary, you have to pacify the grammar gods also, I'm just kidding. Feels good to see calm and collected people on here, it's so refreshing, I get tired of fighting with the crazy ones. I'm also sorry if I went at you, I've been told I'm a firecracker, but i'm working on it, lol
I, The Pride of Mothers In-Law 9 years ago
OK, OK,cute i know i am messing up .But you know what,i will start ordering english magazins as from tomorrow. And i am going to present myself for this christmax an Oxford english dictionaly. I promise myself.And now to the ... read full comment
OK, OK,cute i know i am messing up .But you know what,i will start ordering english magazins as from tomorrow. And i am going to present myself for this christmax an Oxford english dictionaly. I promise myself.And now to the women and their wigs and so on. Don´t you think it is doing some woman somewhat good? It is bringing at least some beauty in some faces of some women.You may have a pretty face,so you do not have problems wearing your natural hair .I only have problems with the voluminous wigs and the meter-long hair extensions.
Adenta 9 years ago
Sorry my dear I guess my response to a person on this forum called "pride of mother-in law " or whatever threw you off because that person was asking whether you were gay or lesbo and I responded to her question that it didn' ... read full comment
Sorry my dear I guess my response to a person on this forum called "pride of mother-in law " or whatever threw you off because that person was asking whether you were gay or lesbo and I responded to her question that it didn't have anything to do with the topic at stake, and that her question of your sexual orientation was irrelevant, calm your little heart down you are alright with me missy, that response was not meant for you haha.
cute shay 9 years ago
Girl I knew you were talking to pride... did you read his comment to you? I laughed so hard, he said you have to pacify I don't know which god he's talking about, lol. ..I was like no she's not. Girl, I know you got me, you m ... read full comment
Girl I knew you were talking to pride... did you read his comment to you? I laughed so hard, he said you have to pacify I don't know which god he's talking about, lol. ..I was like no she's not. Girl, I know you got me, you my smarty pants bestie on ghanaweb :)
Adenta 9 years ago
You know some comments are not worth reading or responding to. Critical thinking is what some people luck on ghanaweb so I just ignore most of them, sometimes I respond to a few . They just write stuff which has nothing to d ... read full comment
You know some comments are not worth reading or responding to. Critical thinking is what some people luck on ghanaweb so I just ignore most of them, sometimes I respond to a few . They just write stuff which has nothing to do with the topic at stake which is annoying .
cute shay 9 years ago
I know right, it's so crazy, and partly embarrassing to English teachers in Ghana, lol
I know right, it's so crazy, and partly embarrassing to English teachers in Ghana, lol
DI ASEM PA 9 years ago
I really love my love to be natural. Don't try to be fake and deceive men with your long hair, makeups, fake hips, and with your stinking bleaching lotions which I hate to smell on a lady. Be natural.
I really love my love to be natural. Don't try to be fake and deceive men with your long hair, makeups, fake hips, and with your stinking bleaching lotions which I hate to smell on a lady. Be natural.
kk 9 years ago
confidence makes a hot woman. little to do with hair style.
only a fag knows all those brands of hair women wear. The only one I had herd about before is Brazilian hair. and I haven't the slightest idea what it looks like. ... read full comment
confidence makes a hot woman. little to do with hair style.
only a fag knows all those brands of hair women wear. The only one I had herd about before is Brazilian hair. and I haven't the slightest idea what it looks like.
I just like a confident woman with a nice body. what is on her head is of little concern to me
Miss Leean 9 years ago
I love to be natural.so any man who loves me should appreciate my hair and not to tell what he likes my hair to look like
I love to be natural.so any man who loves me should appreciate my hair and not to tell what he likes my hair to look like
Albert 9 years ago
...just don't wanna spend much money every week buying all those kinda hairs and wigs. Ladies, pls what about sakora? I actually don't mind my lady putting on any hair or wig or doing any style except for that fact that it wi ... read full comment
...just don't wanna spend much money every week buying all those kinda hairs and wigs. Ladies, pls what about sakora? I actually don't mind my lady putting on any hair or wig or doing any style except for that fact that it will not drain me.
Well Well Well, for me i really dont care what anyman thinks about my natural hair, it is mine and nobody else, so if anyman who claims to love me but doesn't love my natural hair can get the boot because i come in a complete ...
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ObeyIng ur guy doesnt meen u r weak or u luck confIdent, bt rather trying to let him know u r doing al bcos of him. After al u doing ur hair bcos of him...
Wow, you do your hair because of a man? Well if you the kind who totally depend on a man, then that makes sense. Respecting your man does not mean acting like his slave. That hair is on your head not his so you gotta love it ...
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I guess some people would never get the point we are trying to make, no matter how we present it so lets leave them alone to mess up their natural beautiful hair. For those of us who have had the opportunity to try both weave ...
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I know right. I'm actually shocked at how some women think in this century. Is heartbreaking
My dear friend i guess some of our african sisters would never get it, no matter how hard we try. Lets leave them to continue what they like to do best looking all fake. I don't know how many men cut their hair because of the ...
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They can keep on whipping that fake hair back and forth like it's their own, lol
It is my hope that someday our african sisters that are into this weave craze would see the light that made some of us to go natural, maybe oneday.
Did you listen to yourself very well? if you are wearing fake because of your guy then i pity, why can't you do it because you want to do it for yourselff? So you would jump from a roof top into a burning fire for your guy an ...
read full comment
Onua, I sometimes watch these ratchet shows on TV, and I think this was love and hip hop Hollywood, Ray J told his girlfriend to go knock out another woman and the fool got up and went to attack that woman, I was like really? ...
read full comment
I thought that puppy love thing ends after a couple of dates then reality sets in, but obviously some women continue with the puppy thing throughout...
Let me ask you a question. Have you ever asked for something from anyone and they gave you what you want? Was it fullfilling or not?
If you ever answered in the affirmative, then please reflect on the fact that your partner ...
read full comment
Realistic stuff, yes and if I feel pretty ok with it why not, but I won't do the Ghanaian way where people do things not from the bottom of their hearts, I do things wholeheartedly, at least for the most part. I won't do some ...
read full comment
So you mean to tell me throwing some fake ass hair on top of their head even though you know their kind doesnt produce that naturally ? If thats what you consider fulfillment when you ask for one is sad. At the end of the day ...
read full comment
for me i put on these weave because my hair is not heavy and beside it looks nice
i love ladies with long hair
I love n love n love ladies with their natural hair, I really wish all Ghanaian ladies will leave their hair natural. u ladies look extremely beautiful in that.
For me it is " The Corn Roll " or " Natural Down Cut ". It fits every lady.
#cute shay, dnt be a hipocrite. we all do our hair styles purposely to look good ad feel good. but if only u are in a relationship, your guy might oneday request for you to do a hair do because fancy it alot. so stop braggn ...
read full comment
You and who? Stop using we all coz I don't. So you telling me all women succumb to that? Wake up honey, I'm sorry but I ain't in your group. I think you mad coz you never thought it is possible. Well if you work so hard and y ...
read full comment
Hi cute shay,you sound so confident and truthfull to yourself.Please tell me something.Are you Gay. Be truthfull to yourself like you are preaching here,and tell me wholeheartedly. Listen to what you wrote ,´´Thank goodness ...
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I'm sorry but I love to suck not lick, and maybe I've just been lucky then, looking at how some girls are mad that I get to do me most times. And I'm not saying I won't do anything at all for my man, but I won't compromise on ...
read full comment
Hi cute,i swear i am not trying to be rude or something of that sort. I am lost or i did not read your comments well. With every due respect,are you a man or a woman. You know i am living in Western European country where eng ...
read full comment
Oh dear, I get that on here, I mean people addressing me like I'm a dude, it cracks me up. I don't know why though. You are a man, maybe you can tell me how I'm able to come off as a dude, lol. ..I guess men are cute nowadays ...
read full comment
So you think she is infering that she is gay because of that statement? Or is it your understanding of the English language that is the problem? What do you have to contribute on the topic at large? I guess none huh? Contribu ...
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Hello Adenta, my precious one. Infact i got really lost on the whole issue. I have even aologised to Cute Shay. You can read it too. I think i hastily read her comments and for that matter came out with unnessary comments. I ...
read full comment
Hahaha, you are a mess. I thought you are a woman coz I saw mother-in-law, but I get it now, you are the pride of your mother-in-law?. And not to be rude, the plural form is mothers-in-law, unless you wrote that for a reason. ...
read full comment
OK, OK,cute i know i am messing up .But you know what,i will start ordering english magazins as from tomorrow. And i am going to present myself for this christmax an Oxford english dictionaly. I promise myself.And now to the ...
read full comment
Sorry my dear I guess my response to a person on this forum called "pride of mother-in law " or whatever threw you off because that person was asking whether you were gay or lesbo and I responded to her question that it didn' ...
read full comment
Girl I knew you were talking to pride... did you read his comment to you? I laughed so hard, he said you have to pacify I don't know which god he's talking about, lol. ..I was like no she's not. Girl, I know you got me, you m ...
read full comment
You know some comments are not worth reading or responding to. Critical thinking is what some people luck on ghanaweb so I just ignore most of them, sometimes I respond to a few . They just write stuff which has nothing to d ...
read full comment
I know right, it's so crazy, and partly embarrassing to English teachers in Ghana, lol
I really love my love to be natural. Don't try to be fake and deceive men with your long hair, makeups, fake hips, and with your stinking bleaching lotions which I hate to smell on a lady. Be natural.
confidence makes a hot woman. little to do with hair style.
only a fag knows all those brands of hair women wear. The only one I had herd about before is Brazilian hair. and I haven't the slightest idea what it looks like. ...
read full comment
I love to be natural.so any man who loves me should appreciate my hair and not to tell what he likes my hair to look like
...just don't wanna spend much money every week buying all those kinda hairs and wigs. Ladies, pls what about sakora? I actually don't mind my lady putting on any hair or wig or doing any style except for that fact that it wi ...
read full comment
Ei sakora paaaa, I ain't even gonna go there, lol