I can't have a relationship with my dad now- Ahuofe Patri

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Jo Jo 9 years ago

Is never too later don't regret later

Is never too later don't regret later
Kotei Ashie 9 years ago

Do not say what u don't know. There's nothing to regret. It's ger decision nad she's an adult

Do not say what u don't know. There's nothing to regret. It's ger decision nad she's an adult
NPP SENIOR CITIZEN 9 years ago

And so what? Go deal with your family issues attention seeker.

And so what? Go deal with your family issues attention seeker.
sanjay - Abu Dhabi 9 years ago

hmmm if we are going to continue commenting about this people, we wont finish, thank Allah i did not come from this tribe

hmmm if we are going to continue commenting about this people, we wont finish, thank Allah i did not come from this tribe
Peter Dogbe 9 years ago

Your inferiority complex is on display here!

Moron, what has this story got to do with Asantes or any ethnic group?

You just couldn't stop your twisted desire to showcase your senseless and unwarranted hatred for Asante ...
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Your inferiority complex is on display here!

Moron, what has this story got to do with Asantes or any ethnic group?

You just couldn't stop your twisted desire to showcase your senseless and unwarranted hatred for Asantes here!

Get a life!

Pity the fool!
Boss 9 years ago

Yes you can never be an Asante, it's greatest gift from God. We are very proud people!

Yes you can never be an Asante, it's greatest gift from God. We are very proud people!
Ojah fire 9 years ago

Stupid fool which tribe care for their children than Ashantis? Thank God no Ashanti will loved to be your tribe.
Your parents were working in our cocoa farms and how many Ashanti lives and work at where you comes from and ho ...
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Stupid fool which tribe care for their children than Ashantis? Thank God no Ashanti will loved to be your tribe.
Your parents were working in our cocoa farms and how many Ashanti lives and work at where you comes from and how many of your filrty people are still living among us? Kwasea.
JJG 9 years ago

And let asked oooo sanjan-Abu or watever ur name is, how many asante's hv u heard or see converting eir names Adwoa Yaro but tere ar countless people from tribe who has change their into our local name.we are God gifted peopl ...
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And let asked oooo sanjan-Abu or watever ur name is, how many asante's hv u heard or see converting eir names Adwoa Yaro but tere ar countless people from tribe who has change their into our local name.we are God gifted people tat is why we alws boast up our tribe n hei before i forget how many Ashanti's youth hv u seen in e street working as a kayayo is bcos our fathers cater for us but few done
MDK 1 year ago

As a matter of fact, we wouldn’t have wanted a SKUNK like you in our tube…you belong to the obscured, low echelon, hazy, concealed, low RANKING and shroud tribe that you come from so stay there, punk

As a matter of fact, we wouldn’t have wanted a SKUNK like you in our tube…you belong to the obscured, low echelon, hazy, concealed, low RANKING and shroud tribe that you come from so stay there, punk
MDK 1 year ago

As a matter of fact, we wouldn’t have wanted a SKUNK like you in our tube…you belong to the obscured, low echelon, hazy, concealed, low RANKING and shroud tribe that you come from so stay there, punk

As a matter of fact, we wouldn’t have wanted a SKUNK like you in our tube…you belong to the obscured, low echelon, hazy, concealed, low RANKING and shroud tribe that you come from so stay there, punk

dada 9 years ago

just 4give him anyway hapibday in advance

just 4give him anyway hapibday in advance
Joe 9 years ago

Fathers are suffering in this world paaaaa. Some ladies only want to be impregnated by men and that is all. They need the kids for themselves and will do everything to frustrate the men and later they will tell stories to the ...
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Fathers are suffering in this world paaaaa. Some ladies only want to be impregnated by men and that is all. They need the kids for themselves and will do everything to frustrate the men and later they will tell stories to the kids to hate their fathers so they can have them all
kwame 9 years ago

Eii! you see that has been the game plan of many women especially the elite. They just want us impregnate them, dissolve the marriage , look after them and set them against their fathers. Useless women . My fellow men be wise ...
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Eii! you see that has been the game plan of many women especially the elite. They just want us impregnate them, dissolve the marriage , look after them and set them against their fathers. Useless women . My fellow men be wise ok
Nana 9 years ago

I don't agree with you Kwame even though am also a man. Why the men don't go and visit the child after marriage disolutio? Some men even learn through media that their neglected childnare now successful. It might be too late ...
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I don't agree with you Kwame even though am also a man. Why the men don't go and visit the child after marriage disolutio? Some men even learn through media that their neglected childnare now successful. It might be too late cos the child might notneven know you.
K.K. USA 9 years ago

That is really true. She is also forgetting that to every story, there is an equal and opposite reaction. How comes your mom who will not even allow you to speak with your dad is telling you the true. Judgemental is never de ...
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That is really true. She is also forgetting that to every story, there is an equal and opposite reaction. How comes your mom who will not even allow you to speak with your dad is telling you the true. Judgemental is never determined by a one sided hearing so be wise. We are talking from similar experience.
rain 9 years ago

God bless u my bro. those women will get their reward from God.

God bless u my bro. those women will get their reward from God.
Hmmm 9 years ago

Do u everthing of who is going to walk you to ur husband. Will your mother do it or a second father Stupid girl

Do u everthing of who is going to walk you to ur husband. Will your mother do it or a second father Stupid girl
Home 9 years ago

Good one

Good one
Zipper 9 years ago

What happened? You might not know and probably believed only what your mum told you. Do your own deep investigations by asking associates of your father and mother. By the way, whatever your relationship with your father shou ...
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What happened? You might not know and probably believed only what your mum told you. Do your own deep investigations by asking associates of your father and mother. By the way, whatever your relationship with your father should be your private matter and not for public consumption. Try to be circumspect on what to say about your life and that of family.
Kay 9 years ago

Mostly people listen to their mothers when there is a break up in family. If the kids becomes stars the mothers try to take all the credit n says bad things about their ex to the kids meanwhile the main secret n the fault is ...
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Mostly people listen to their mothers when there is a break up in family. If the kids becomes stars the mothers try to take all the credit n says bad things about their ex to the kids meanwhile the main secret n the fault is from them. So lady go n find out from your dad the reason before it is too late

BOWONDA 9 years ago

Pleeeease Ahuofe Patri,
Don't be this hasty in arriving at decisions.Do you know EXACTLY why your Dad has been this 'silent'? What has your Mum told you? Whatever the case, you CANNOT change history! You can ignore him as lo ...
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Pleeeease Ahuofe Patri,
Don't be this hasty in arriving at decisions.Do you know EXACTLY why your Dad has been this 'silent'? What has your Mum told you? Whatever the case, you CANNOT change history! You can ignore him as long as you like but he is still your father! Please try and get in touch with him and be fully informed of the situation. This is because THERE IS ALWAYS TWO SIDES to a story!
If I were you, even in order to 'put him to shame', I would invite him to my 25th Birthday Party and see what happens! Trust me, you would be doing yourself a GREAT FAVOUR! Try it! You have nothing to lose. Be careful of others who would advise you to forget him forever. Because you CANNOT! Everybody's experience is different! May the Good Lord help you to make a wise decision. Amen
eben 9 years ago

Good advice Bewonda. Patri, take it slowly and don't publicize it yet. Even if you are 100percent sure of what you are saying, keep it private for now and seek more advice on what to do. A father is a father. You are a young ...
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Good advice Bewonda. Patri, take it slowly and don't publicize it yet. Even if you are 100percent sure of what you are saying, keep it private for now and seek more advice on what to do. A father is a father. You are a young celebrity; know how much to say on social media. They can make and unmake you with your own words.
WISE UP 9 years ago

It is not abt wht the mother told her. Some men are really wicked & irresponsible. Do u think if the father has bn forthcoming, Patri will not hv known him? Did u not read in her statement tht he does not even call her? If th ...
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It is not abt wht the mother told her. Some men are really wicked & irresponsible. Do u think if the father has bn forthcoming, Patri will not hv known him? Did u not read in her statement tht he does not even call her? If the father had bn calling her, at least it will show tht he cares abt her & I don't think Patri will feel this way. Don't blame her mother for anything. Men must be responsible. Are u saying the father's side of the story will be the gospel truth? The father jst didn't care abt her. All these menace of armed robbery, killings here & there are the result of irresponsible men bcos at times the women also don't hv it & leave the children to their fate.
Bernice, USA 9 years ago

Go back and read the article. Her father was never in her life ever. Even as a child he wasn't there. What do you want her to do? Go look for that idiot of a man who was never responsible? Leave her alone

Go back and read the article. Her father was never in her life ever. Even as a child he wasn't there. What do you want her to do? Go look for that idiot of a man who was never responsible? Leave her alone
sober 9 years ago

You are truly speaking like a western brainwashed woman who sees only wrong in men & portrayal of women as victims. I know what it means to live with a female who has a misplaced sense of entitlement, misled by the mother, & ...
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You are truly speaking like a western brainwashed woman who sees only wrong in men & portrayal of women as victims. I know what it means to live with a female who has a misplaced sense of entitlement, misled by the mother, & not showing enough wisdom to read between the lines of the folly of that world view.

And yes, some women loudly claim they don't need a man & then turn around trying to entrap them with kids, but end up being dumped because they are very badly behaved. Being a loud mouthed person does not necessarily make one right!

Also, never forget that women give birth to sons who grow become men. How do you get it so wrong in child rearing since most males spend majority of their formative years with mothers (women)? See, the finger points right back at you.

I will not judge the young actress, but counsel that she gets out of this media baiting game which could come back to burn her badly. She's an adult now & can reach out to her biological father to ascertain the facts. The truth may shock her!

Give men a break! They are no longer willing to put up with the incessant male bashing in these times. Behind any UNSUCCESSFUL man is likely to be a scheming woman. Keep in mind that "What men can do, women also can if not WORSE."

Enough of this jazz already
Ali, Toronto 9 years ago

You are saying this because you know your father. The adopted children you speak of -- most of them gave everything up to find their biological parents and love them. Get this... BLOOD IS THICKER THAN WATER. It's hard to imag ...
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You are saying this because you know your father. The adopted children you speak of -- most of them gave everything up to find their biological parents and love them. Get this... BLOOD IS THICKER THAN WATER. It's hard to imagine why a father would forsake his own child -- assuming that's what you father did. You also have no idea the lengths an embittered mother can go to, to alienate children from their hated father.
POW@Watchout 4 Phooobia 2016 9 years ago

If you'll be a man enough to impregnate a woman, be a man enough to accept responsibilities and perform your fatherly duties.

If you'll be a man enough to impregnate a woman, be a man enough to accept responsibilities and perform your fatherly duties.
OSEI TUTU TAWIAH 9 years ago

There are so many ways a woman can harass a man with their child if there's a breakup till the man gives up. You may never understand if you've never been in that situation.

There are so many ways a woman can harass a man with their child if there's a breakup till the man gives up. You may never understand if you've never been in that situation.
POW@Watchout 4 Phooobia 2016 9 years ago

What ways at all can it be that a woman will harass a man so much that he'll not look after a child from his loins? A decent man, no matter what will even pay school fees, buy her stuff, visit every once in a while etc etc. A ...
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What ways at all can it be that a woman will harass a man so much that he'll not look after a child from his loins? A decent man, no matter what will even pay school fees, buy her stuff, visit every once in a while etc etc. An idiot and a village will leave the woman and tell to go to hell with her child. Don't buy into such bull crap or you might be doing the same thing elsewhere.
Bernice, USA 9 years ago

Thank you

Thank you

igna 9 years ago

masa komot for there as buy the truth....blood is thicker than sobolo not water....she knows what she has being through so plz stop guessing and accept the fact....me y3 barima nanso me ka nokware...

masa komot for there as buy the truth....blood is thicker than sobolo not water....she knows what she has being through so plz stop guessing and accept the fact....me y3 barima nanso me ka nokware...
MINOR CASE 9 years ago

She is an adult but immature . Thank God that she has her father's genes good genes in her and have contributed in no small measure in her success . Some genes produce thieves [kleptomanias ] , lazy people,criminals, prostitu ...
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She is an adult but immature . Thank God that she has her father's genes good genes in her and have contributed in no small measure in her success . Some genes produce thieves [kleptomanias ] , lazy people,criminals, prostitudes etc. She should thank her parents for bringing her into this world to be what she is today. Neglect by parents often spurs children to achieve certain goals in life and this may be true in her case. She will come around someday to look for her father. I have seen it happen often.
Bernice, USA 9 years ago

Does fathers genes pay school fees? Does her father's genes buy school uniforms and put food on the table? If men in Ghana are to be held accountable for the children they neglect to take care of, most men will be in jail. ...
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Does fathers genes pay school fees? Does her father's genes buy school uniforms and put food on the table? If men in Ghana are to be held accountable for the children they neglect to take care of, most men will be in jail. In some countries you will pay child support and if you don't you will be jailed.
If her mother had ignored her like her father did, we wouldn't even hear she exists. Irresponsible men not taking care of their children and thinking donating a sperm is enough to be honored as a father. Now that it is time for chop chop she should go and fish that idiot out. Shame on all you men who think it is okay to do that. In Ghana a lot of women have single handedly taken care of children they have fathered with supposed responsible men and now that the children have become somebody, the advisers adviser really out telling the children that blood is thicker than water bla bla bla. Nonsense! Where were you when these mothers were toiling?
BSR 9 years ago

Ahuofe Patri. Thumbs up for you. Don't look back. Name and shame him to serve as a deterrent to the wannabe men taking advantage vulnerability of young women.

Ahuofe Patri. Thumbs up for you. Don't look back. Name and shame him to serve as a deterrent to the wannabe men taking advantage vulnerability of young women.
luca braski 9 years ago

mothers are always like that telling their kids bad things about their fathers.,go fuck your self if you like dont talk to him is non of our business

mothers are always like that telling their kids bad things about their fathers.,go fuck your self if you like dont talk to him is non of our business
de gal 9 years ago

don't mind anybody if nt for u been famous he will never hv come for u .....am also a victim

don't mind anybody if nt for u been famous he will never hv come for u .....am also a victim
Ofosuhene A 9 years ago

I agree with u 100% . if u have not been a star he wouldn't have even dreamt of u. De one who help ur mother to take care of u s ur father. Don't mind that idiot idol

I agree with u 100% . if u have not been a star he wouldn't have even dreamt of u. De one who help ur mother to take care of u s ur father. Don't mind that idiot idol
OSEI TUTU TAWIAH 9 years ago

And where does it say that the father has gone to her for anything? You never know, the father may even be enjoying life better than her.

And where does it say that the father has gone to her for anything? You never know, the father may even be enjoying life better than her.
POW@Watchout 4 Phooobia 2016 9 years ago

Why are you all over the place supporting this nonsense? May be you're her father and you're trying to make meaning stupid behavior. That's a shame to enjoy life and be unconcerned about your children's life.

Why are you all over the place supporting this nonsense? May be you're her father and you're trying to make meaning stupid behavior. That's a shame to enjoy life and be unconcerned about your children's life.
observer 9 years ago

And why are you all over the place being anti-Dads? Are you Patri's mother? Come on, you man hater.

And why are you all over the place being anti-Dads? Are you Patri's mother? Come on, you man hater.
POW@Watchout 4 Phooobia 2016 9 years ago

I love your response paaaa but truth speaking I'm not anti dads. I just hate men who do that and if you're doing that, please refrain from such practice and be a man to do manly duties. Lol

I love your response paaaa but truth speaking I'm not anti dads. I just hate men who do that and if you're doing that, please refrain from such practice and be a man to do manly duties. Lol
observer 9 years ago

The thing is that you don't know a diddle and you don't have a needle of a fact. You are here just being presumptuous.

The thing is that you don't know a diddle and you don't have a needle of a fact. You are here just being presumptuous.
POW@Watchout 4 Phooobia 2016 9 years ago

Be it presumptions or assumptions, the fact is, a man impregnated a lady, went out of her life, leaving her alone to take care of the child. Now the child is grown and struggling to have a relationship with the father. It's a ...
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Be it presumptions or assumptions, the fact is, a man impregnated a lady, went out of her life, leaving her alone to take care of the child. Now the child is grown and struggling to have a relationship with the father. It's as simple as ABCD. It's my wish she forgive him and patch up every broken link. Having said that, we also have to condemn this life style of fathers who do that. It's stupid and has no excuse to it. whatsoever.
observer 9 years ago

Your bias clearly shows. Listen to yourself: “A man impregnated a lady” Do you know if he purposely set out to impregnate her? How about you try A MAN AND A WOMAN HAD AN AFFAIR WHICH RESULTED IN A PREGNANCY?
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Your bias clearly shows. Listen to yourself: “A man impregnated a lady” Do you know if he purposely set out to impregnate her? How about you try A MAN AND A WOMAN HAD AN AFFAIR WHICH RESULTED IN A PREGNANCY?
Do you know why the man” went out of the woman’s life”? Its’ possible he just didn’t own up, but also you don’t know if her people rejected him or worse still wanted to gorge out his eyes for getting their daughter pregnant?
You still don’t know the facts!
POW@Watchout 4 Phooobia 2016 9 years ago

None of what you've said should ever be the excuse for abandoning the child from your loins. If you're doing this please change.

None of what you've said should ever be the excuse for abandoning the child from your loins. If you're doing this please change.
C J 9 years ago

You are a stupid girl learn more in Life and don't be a child, bofore you lose all that you have now, be careful. You have no idea.

You are a stupid girl learn more in Life and don't be a child, bofore you lose all that you have now, be careful. You have no idea.
Kejetia Nkomo 9 years ago

Ahoufe your mother is too beautiful to be left alone to suffer by any sensible man. There might be a course. The world is very controversial. There are a lot of tentacles which always entangle the truth of the matter. You are ...
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Ahoufe your mother is too beautiful to be left alone to suffer by any sensible man. There might be a course. The world is very controversial. There are a lot of tentacles which always entangle the truth of the matter. You are a woman. You will understand this one day. But again some men too are just like lizard. They always live their eggs in the sand to hatch by itself. A word from Kejetia. Just my opinion
grace konadu 9 years ago

No matter wat the problem was, the father could have taken care of her not only with money but to show that he still care for her. Cos its the mother that he has problem with not the child.

No matter wat the problem was, the father could have taken care of her not only with money but to show that he still care for her. Cos its the mother that he has problem with not the child.
OSEI TUTU TAWIAH 9 years ago

What if the mother tried everything to prevent the father from taking care of her because of bitterness? You may be right that some men are jerks but sometimes the situation is caused by the mother's bitterness. I've seen wom ...
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What if the mother tried everything to prevent the father from taking care of her because of bitterness? You may be right that some men are jerks but sometimes the situation is caused by the mother's bitterness. I've seen women trying to put their children's father in jail for breaking up with them because of bitterness without even thinking about the children's future.
POW@Watchout 4 Phooobia 2016 9 years ago

How can a woman put a man in jail for breaking up with her? What kind of law is that and where did that happen? If you're saying the man was not taking care of the kids and the mother reported, that's a different issue. Stop ...
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How can a woman put a man in jail for breaking up with her? What kind of law is that and where did that happen? If you're saying the man was not taking care of the kids and the mother reported, that's a different issue. Stop making up stories and face facts.
OSEI TUTU TAWIAH 9 years ago

I think you are just blabbing. You have not seen enough in life. You are either inexperienced with women or you are just trying to be ignorant. You don't know how a woman can make life miserable for a man when she is bitter. ...
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I think you are just blabbing. You have not seen enough in life. You are either inexperienced with women or you are just trying to be ignorant. You don't know how a woman can make life miserable for a man when she is bitter. We all know about dead beat dads but please stop being one-sided. You may not have that experience because you are probably from a Patrilineal heritage, but I know many Ghanaians overseas and even in Ghana who have completely shut off their kids from their biological dads.
sam 9 years ago

Continue to dis your father In public. By the time u realise your stupidity it will be too late. If not your father-bad as you think he is, you will not be here today enjoying your so called stardom. If you don't like your fa ...
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Continue to dis your father In public. By the time u realise your stupidity it will be too late. If not your father-bad as you think he is, you will not be here today enjoying your so called stardom. If you don't like your father keep it to youself cus Some of us really do and cherish every minute with our dads. Dont think you will be that ahuorfe patri forever. The industry will drop u like ho plantain when your tine passe
Aden 9 years ago

Some panelist on this platform should understand that her response is purely due to her emotions and perhaps the hard life she's being through, i know some of you will agree with that she must have seen her mother go through ...
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Some panelist on this platform should understand that her response is purely due to her emotions and perhaps the hard life she's being through, i know some of you will agree with that she must have seen her mother go through some struggles to care for her and this feeling will leave a bitter taste in any one's mouth. I may not completely share her response but I feel her pain. When parents decide to break up for some reason, the children are not responsible for this mishap so both parents have to make it their responsibility to care for these kids. Generally in our society the fathers tend to break away and leave the responsibility for the mother alone, please men admit your mistakes in this regard and maybe a better relationship could come out of this between the child, the mother, and the father. Her response is purely an emotional one.
son of man 9 years ago

but children belong to thier mother in the Akan lands, so why u people are too worry. that is thier culture.

but children belong to thier mother in the Akan lands, so why u people are too worry. that is thier culture.
chap 9 years ago

No man should marry a a woman who has no relationship with the father for she might not know how to relate with u

No man should marry a a woman who has no relationship with the father for she might not know how to relate with u
POW@Watchout 4 Phooobia 2016 9 years ago

What a clown? No woman should marry or date a man like you because you'll only impregnate her and like some stupid fathers do, you'll not care about the woman or the child. Shame on the mess.

What a clown? No woman should marry or date a man like you because you'll only impregnate her and like some stupid fathers do, you'll not care about the woman or the child. Shame on the mess.
Chap 9 years ago

You are obviously ignorant about life or paid to do the bidding of your pay- master. Learn more about life and grow. Within this article you have commented more than the commentators here. Get a life!

You are obviously ignorant about life or paid to do the bidding of your pay- master. Learn more about life and grow. Within this article you have commented more than the commentators here. Get a life!
mike 9 years ago

This is below the belt and low crass. How can u just make a decision base on one party without engaging the other party. Ur mother might have told u alot but tink deep n luk for ur dad n stop this stupid attitude. It's a chi ...
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This is below the belt and low crass. How can u just make a decision base on one party without engaging the other party. Ur mother might have told u alot but tink deep n luk for ur dad n stop this stupid attitude. It's a childish talk. Havent u ever sought forgiveness from anyone before. U never know what ur dad may have gone tru. Grow up duh..
korkor erica 9 years ago

she has the right to decide wether to have a relationship with him or not but i think the best is to forgive himm but shouldnt call him until he calls and shows interest...let every pain go dear.....forgive him as God forgivw ...
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she has the right to decide wether to have a relationship with him or not but i think the best is to forgive himm but shouldnt call him until he calls and shows interest...let every pain go dear.....forgive him as God forgivws you.
WOFA yaw 9 years ago

Look before you leap, GIRL. Am in the same soup like your father despite keeping my 24 and 21 years old 'girls' with me. I send them to school up to the UNIVERSITY level but of late, they are calling on me to bring back thei ...
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Look before you leap, GIRL. Am in the same soup like your father despite keeping my 24 and 21 years old 'girls' with me. I send them to school up to the UNIVERSITY level but of late, they are calling on me to bring back their mother else no lady will know peace in the house. I will one day tell them my full side of the real story. Women become stupid where the see just little money. They will then understand why they are only two from prolific families: their maternal grand mother had 9 kids and my mum, 11.
STAFFORD 9 years ago

TIME WILL TELL IF THIS FATHERLY LOVE MELTS DOWN TOTALLY....Stafford

TIME WILL TELL IF THIS FATHERLY LOVE MELTS DOWN TOTALLY....Stafford
igna 9 years ago

Some so called Father's deserves it....nea y3 nim ah ne s3 y3 bu y3 pa.....

Some so called Father's deserves it....nea y3 nim ah ne s3 y3 bu y3 pa.....
Sad father 9 years ago

My marriage ended about 15 years ago, as a result of interpersonal differences. The mother was given custody, but I was there for my 3 little children both emotionally and financially. Not once did I miss monthly child suppo ...
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My marriage ended about 15 years ago, as a result of interpersonal differences. The mother was given custody, but I was there for my 3 little children both emotionally and financially. Not once did I miss monthly child support payments, and I fully exercised my visitation rights and tried to take an active role in their upbringing. However, their mother had a winner-take-all mentality, hated me so much, and started to turn the children against me. She succeeded. Now the only relationship I have with my children is my monthly support payments, the children don’t want to see me. I love my children and I have tried so hard but to no avail to have a relationship with them. At a point you just have to give up in order to preserve yourself mentally and emotionally, in the hope that when as adults they wake up and exercise their own minds, you will be there for them.
john 9 years ago

Sorry for you,this type of thing happens to people.

Sorry for you,this type of thing happens to people.
Sam 9 years ago

It seems u don't care about ur relationship with ur father but believe u, me u do care. This is about third time or more u talking about ur relationship with ur father. Just stop the talking in public and act on what u feel a ...
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It seems u don't care about ur relationship with ur father but believe u, me u do care. This is about third time or more u talking about ur relationship with ur father. Just stop the talking in public and act on what u feel about ur father. Please do before is too late. I didn't have bad relationship with my Dad but I wish both of them are alive so I can send them money every month.
Isaac Attobrah 9 years ago

just 4give hm and don't 4get dat he brought u to life pls

just 4give hm and don't 4get dat he brought u to life pls
Isaac Attobrah 9 years ago

pls for give him and don't for get that he brought you to life.By the way happy birthday

pls for give him and don't for get that he brought you to life.By the way happy birthday
kwame 9 years ago

Utter nonsense, how can allow ur immaturity to corner you in that immature enclosure? Is this a reasonable reason to defame, ridicule n tarnish the hard won reputation of your reverred father we have all known so well? In fac ...
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Utter nonsense, how can allow ur immaturity to corner you in that immature enclosure? Is this a reasonable reason to defame, ridicule n tarnish the hard won reputation of your reverred father we have all known so well? In fact u're an ingrate, petty, populist in thought and seem to be the biggest disaster that may befall humanity. In fact come to my area and the bevy of ladies who have professionalized themselves into prostitute and down their dirty smelly panties at any coin thrown at them at East Legon. After your father had kept all the night vigils interceding for you because of virtuous genes in you, is that, the compensation he deserves? In fact u re a big compound associative and multiplicative fool.Grow up n stop following ur mother blindly.Wake early tommorow, go to church, pay your tithe, come back home, visit ur father, pay him tax on all ur returns for all the dirty and vulturous denigrative comments u made about the revered n affable personaity who was behind u this while. A big fool!
mozo 9 years ago

This Patricia girl should be careful what comes out of her mouth; what makes her think the father wants/needs her at all ?? I'm a fan but for this i cease to be. NONSENSE !!!

This Patricia girl should be careful what comes out of her mouth; what makes her think the father wants/needs her at all ?? I'm a fan but for this i cease to be. NONSENSE !!!
Adimah (Virgin-brother) 9 years ago

you don't need to share personal issues of this nature with the media miss celebrity.seek counselling if you can't deal with it.

you don't need to share personal issues of this nature with the media miss celebrity.seek counselling if you can't deal with it.
Tonehene 9 years ago

Plz don't insult her is very painful to be left alone to taken care of by yur mum whiles yur dad is still alive and working . But PAT plz start to learn how to forgive him He wants that now In his life up there

Plz don't insult her is very painful to be left alone to taken care of by yur mum whiles yur dad is still alive and working . But PAT plz start to learn how to forgive him He wants that now In his life up there
nana ama 9 years ago

waaaaa am celebrating with u we the same date of birth

waaaaa am celebrating with u we the same date of birth
Peter Dogbe 9 years ago

Your inferiority complex is on display here!

Moron, what has this story got to do with Asantes or any ethnic group?

You just couldn't stop your twisted desire to showcase your senseless and unwarranted hatred for Asante ...
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Your inferiority complex is on display here!

Moron, what has this story got to do with Asantes or any ethnic group?

You just couldn't stop your twisted desire to showcase your senseless and unwarranted hatred for Asantes here!

Get a life!
Peter Dogbe 9 years ago

This response is meant for Sanjay - Abu Dhabi's post.

This response is meant for Sanjay - Abu Dhabi's post.
Efo Odenkey 9 years ago

Ahuofe, u nd i were not there; so try nd find out ur father's side of the story be4 u draw conclusions. Ur mother couldn't have been an angel by then.

Ahuofe, u nd i were not there; so try nd find out ur father's side of the story be4 u draw conclusions. Ur mother couldn't have been an angel by then.
ahmed ali 9 years ago

ahofe patri, that's not best way to sell your father on the media. your father has responsibility on you and you also have responsibility on him and all must fulfill his, for all will be charged according his or her responsib ...
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ahofe patri, that's not best way to sell your father on the media. your father has responsibility on you and you also have responsibility on him and all must fulfill his, for all will be charged according his or her responsibility on the other even the bible say so if you ate a Christian and so is Quran for one does not predict his or her end because you don't how it will look like.
Chris Austria 9 years ago

Your 25th b'day will be marked,later,don't come n tell us diff age,Whether u look for ur father or not,nobody cares"!!!

Your 25th b'day will be marked,later,don't come n tell us diff age,Whether u look for ur father or not,nobody cares"!!!
Chris Austria 9 years ago

It is none of business!fuckin bitch!maybe ur mother played ashawo for her to be left......who knows?????

It is none of business!fuckin bitch!maybe ur mother played ashawo for her to be left......who knows?????
Mo! 9 years ago

Are you a soothsayer or something? Your point deserves attention

Are you a soothsayer or something? Your point deserves attention
my father's son 9 years ago

Go get a "DNA fix" shallow minded brat!

Go get a "DNA fix" shallow minded brat!
PHILLIPASARE 9 years ago

L love you

L love you
PHILLIPASARE 9 years ago

L also looking for love

L also looking for love
Felix 9 years ago

Don't be a fool. You were brainwashed by your mother.
You pig head

Don't be a fool. You were brainwashed by your mother.
You pig head
Papa Kobina Otumanyi 9 years ago

Patri please try and finish NAFTI. I hear you've dropped out of this one too. Did you drop out of Cape Vas as well? You will go places. You will need to reconcile with dad because you will regret when you hear he is dead

Patri please try and finish NAFTI. I hear you've dropped out of this one too. Did you drop out of Cape Vas as well? You will go places. You will need to reconcile with dad because you will regret when you hear he is dead
A A B 9 years ago

joe is nt true i m we?l married to a man we ve three kids he has abandon n is married to an american woman in d usa i ve been a single mother for ten yrs now so if these chld grow do u expect them to love their father?

joe is nt true i m we?l married to a man we ve three kids he has abandon n is married to an american woman in d usa i ve been a single mother for ten yrs now so if these chld grow do u expect them to love their father?
Naa 9 years ago

Priscilla, remember when you used to spend your holidays with your dad. Also remember when your dad and l visited you at Swesco. Ask your mum what happened. Do not conclude.

Priscilla, remember when you used to spend your holidays with your dad. Also remember when your dad and l visited you at Swesco. Ask your mum what happened. Do not conclude.
Judy 9 years ago

We all know how painful it is if ya biological father doesn't play his role in ya...Buh Ahofe Patri should exercise patients

We all know how painful it is if ya biological father doesn't play his role in ya...Buh Ahofe Patri should exercise patients
Agonaba 9 years ago

Thank you for your good courage to fight "dead beat fathers",Ahuofe.God grant you the serenity to accept the things you cannot change, the courage to change the things you can , and the wisdom to know the difference "

Thank you for your good courage to fight "dead beat fathers",Ahuofe.God grant you the serenity to accept the things you cannot change, the courage to change the things you can , and the wisdom to know the difference "
bawa 9 years ago

your mother will not tell you the truth and men should stop marrying ladies raised up by their mothers alone.such marriages normally do not last because of irresponsible parenting. their mother's pamper them and tell them a l ...
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your mother will not tell you the truth and men should stop marrying ladies raised up by their mothers alone.such marriages normally do not last because of irresponsible parenting. their mother's pamper them and tell them a lot of lies.
ABRA 9 years ago

if there is a breack some father's don't wont to look after ther children at all if you are responsible you will look after your children no matter what happen

if there is a breack some father's don't wont to look after ther children at all if you are responsible you will look after your children no matter what happen
William Dzikunu 9 years ago

Forget about so called father and move on with who love you..

Forget about so called father and move on with who love you..
Abena 9 years ago

Your father tried all the way from when you were born. Ask your grandmother, mum and your aunt very well. Your father tried to give the little he can afford then but your people refused because of they said it was too little. ...
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Your father tried all the way from when you were born. Ask your grandmother, mum and your aunt very well. Your father tried to give the little he can afford then but your people refused because of they said it was too little. They then didn't want to know. Your dad struggled to do his best but they didn't want to know. What could he have done? Priscilla l know you are aware he is in the UK with his family and doing well. He is not interested in your fame but happy for you. If you do not want to have a relationship with him stop talking about it and move on but ask let your mum tell you the truth. He wishes you well. ENOUGH.
SIMPLY GEORGE . 9 years ago

It is only irresponsible evil mothers who wouldn't like to see their own children having fathers.

It is only irresponsible evil mothers who wouldn't like to see their own children having fathers.
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truth 9 years ago

so much o hold onto that.

so much o hold onto that.
Eric 9 years ago

Young lady I ask you to forgive your dad in Christ's name. Do not forget that the only commandment with a reward in the bible is to honour thy mother and also father. If you cant forgive him ask God to help you do this. And d ...
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Young lady I ask you to forgive your dad in Christ's name. Do not forget that the only commandment with a reward in the bible is to honour thy mother and also father. If you cant forgive him ask God to help you do this. And do not mention the pain you have for your father on any platform. Some of us might have gone through worst things, we forgave and God has sustained us today and continue to bless us. Forgive him and let him carry his cross. Look at the sins you have committed, should God decide not to forgive you, where would you be? where will your ahuofe be? and where would your profession be? Abedi Pele has three children who are all great footballs. Have you asked yourself why Kofi Annan's children are not great footballers? There is something called a gen in you that has a spiritual connection with your fathers and perhaps that is a contributing factor to your success in life. I don't know your dad, neither do I know you but forgive and forget!
WISE MAN 9 years ago

u get BLESSED by FATHER ONLY ACCORDING TO THE BIBLE NOT MOTHEER:READ GENESIS ABOUT ABRAHIM BLESSING ISACH:WOMAN CANT BLESS EVEN BLESS A DOG

u get BLESSED by FATHER ONLY ACCORDING TO THE BIBLE NOT MOTHEER:READ GENESIS ABOUT ABRAHIM BLESSING ISACH:WOMAN CANT BLESS EVEN BLESS A DOG
KBI 9 years ago

My advice is :its not too late to reconcile with your father, it doesn't matter how painful he had offended you .if he feels remorseful (sorry)and he is truly repented,there's no need not to forgive him and forget.
Remembe ...
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My advice is :its not too late to reconcile with your father, it doesn't matter how painful he had offended you .if he feels remorseful (sorry)and he is truly repented,there's no need not to forgive him and forget.
Remember there's no law with promise attached to it than respect your parents (so that you will live longer on this planet ).
People may advice you badly now,that you are famous,but if maybe your father had not left you,you wouldn't be where you are today.in whatever happen in like we should give thanks to God.
In my life no one had neglected his or her parent and it has been well with him or her,nomatter how bad they have treated them,is advice.
So try to iron out any problem between you, before he or she dies,by then it will be too late.
Mr Bond 9 years ago

Who cares about have no relationship with your father,It's your problem deal with.

Who cares about have no relationship with your father,It's your problem deal with.
JK 9 years ago

...GET OVER IT!

This matter has been discussed and hashed over and over, and each time, this woman tries to demonize the father.

Granted, the lady has indicated that the man abandoned her. I am almost certain that ther ...
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...GET OVER IT!

This matter has been discussed and hashed over and over, and each time, this woman tries to demonize the father.

Granted, the lady has indicated that the man abandoned her. I am almost certain that there may be parts of this story that she is not privy to, and may never find out.

While stating that the father doesn't even call her, she does not say if she has called him.

Sooner or later someone is going to regret not making contact, and my bet is that it is going to be this 'daughter'. If with the so-called fame and glory, the father has continued to shy away from her, there must be a reason. If he is ashamed, so be it, but I get the sense that we are not looking at a fair-weather father here. If we were, he would be clamoring for some credit where he has not earned any.

My advice to this young lady is she puts a stop to washing the dirty laundry in public and starts approaching the father. It is never too late to build a relationship. If the father has nothing to teach her, she may very well learn to grow and value relationships at a different level.

People with closed minds never learn anything, while those with open ones, are blessed with possibilities.

Surprises of positive nature, do exist.
Kofi - USA 9 years ago

Its too bad that you can have a relationship with your dad. It will go a long way and may affect your relationships. You Ghanaian actresses talk tooooooo much. It is a pity and you will be the loser in the long run

Its too bad that you can have a relationship with your dad. It will go a long way and may affect your relationships. You Ghanaian actresses talk tooooooo much. It is a pity and you will be the loser in the long run

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