Lifestyle: why is co-habitation the ‘ish’ and not marriage?

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• Joan 9 years ago

  Hmmm my comment is no comment

  Hmmm my comment is no comment

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• Larry 9 years ago

  You obviously are not hard-wired for marriage are you?
  
  I don't know your religious background but the Bible says there is a way that seems right to a man but the end thereof is death. The way out of your marital challenge ...
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  You obviously are not hard-wired for marriage are you?
  
  I don't know your religious background but the Bible says there is a way that seems right to a man but the end thereof is death. The way out of your marital challenge is not to get a 'side chic' as many people (including women) do BUT TO MANUP, BE CREATIVE AND SOLVE THAT PROBLEM, the experience you acquire in solving that problem will draw you closer to your wife and she will be drawn closer to you and that closeness takes you both to the next level of joy and happiness in your marriage. Put an end to the microwave relationship on the side and focus on your wife. You have created a problem with Cece and you have to solve it.
  
  I don't know your reason for getting married but whatever reason it was, it's being put to test and you running away from it. I am a metallurgist by profession: a metallurgist is someone who's been trained to extract a precious metal like gold from its ore. To get the gold, you subject the ore to anything between five to ten different process, based on the technology you'r using. Now you must understand that THERE IS GOLD IN YOUR WIFE (and in every woman as well as men but we not talking about men now) AND IT IS YOUR DUTY AS THE MAN TO DEVELOP THE SKILLS REQUIRED TO BRING OUT THE GOLD IN YOUR WIFE. The solution is not Cece, i promise you if you leave your wife for Cece, you'll face another type of waste material in her which you'll have to deal with. The nagging is only one of the waste materials in the ore of the woman. Please understand this, that God doesn't give us FINISHED PRODUCTS, HE GIVES US RAW MATERIAL PLUS WISDOM, KNOWLEDGE, UNDERSTANDING to work on the raw materials into finished products. I've gone through divorce but not until you've done everything you have to do and after ALL THAT, if the woman still wants to leave, that's her choice (that's another area to talk about).
  
  I've got a lot to share but let me end by quoting a statement by TD Jakes 'Every problem is an opportunity to discover creativity'. Your wife is nagging at you, it is the least of the problems a woman can give you so wise up, develop your skills and creative abilities to solve that problem.

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• Kwamena 9 years ago

  Well said Larry. Very good food for thought. God Bless you for your thoughts.

  Well said Larry. Very good food for thought. God Bless you for your thoughts.

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