Man in 'tears' as wife names firstborn after ex-boyfriend, sends him 'chop money'

A married man has sought help from a Ghanaian pastor after a series of marital issues have caused him emotional trauma.

Samuel, who has been married for five years and has two boys, explained that he is battling emotional trauma after discovering that his wife is still having an affair with her ex-boyfriend.

He revealed that their first son had been named after this ex-boyfriend by his wife.

Appearing on Pastor Prince Elisha Osei Kofi’s Secret Court programme, Samuel stated that since he got married, his wife always watched videos and pictures to get in the mood for sexual encounters.

He also explained that because of the issues surrounding his home, he has stopped eating her food and engaging in anything sexual.

Samuel claims he has been providing well for his wife, but notices that the money he sends her is always spent swiftly.

He later discovered that his wife had named their child after her ex-boyfriend, with whom she was still in contact.

"I was watching a video on her phone when her data ran out. I wanted to buy more data for her, but I noticed there had been transfers from her account. After investigating, I realized she had a joint account with her ex-boyfriend,” he said.

Samuel further shared disturbing details about their intimate life.

“Ever since I have known my wife, anytime we have sex, I have noticed that it is not natural because before we make love, my wife has to go to the washroom and take a look at some pictures or videos before she comes to bed.

“She does all this because she cannot naturally get wet, so she has to go and look at some pictures or videos and come. And you will be surprised that after she does this, she becomes wet. No matter what I do she will never get wet.”

He continued, “When God blessed us with our first child, she went through C-session, and because of that she said she wanted to make a wish.

“So, I decided to grant her the wish because of the pain.

“She did name the child. Later on, I discovered a WhatsApp audio where my wife was telling another man how he loves him and sending him money, as well as naming the child after him because she loves him.”



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