'I take side chicks seriously' – Former KATH CEO Professor Otchere Addai-Mensah

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Dallas1 8 months ago

The truth of the matter is that monogamy is a big scam!

The truth of the matter is that monogamy is a big scam!
moongod 8 months ago

polygamy is african

polygamy is african
ONE MAN, ONE WIFE - DotCom 8 months ago

One man, one wife makes a secured, happy home. Having relationships outside marriage is a selfish behaviour. Wife and children would be crying at home while you entertain your chick. Think carefully and stop it.

One man, one wife makes a secured, happy home. Having relationships outside marriage is a selfish behaviour. Wife and children would be crying at home while you entertain your chick. Think carefully and stop it.
Karikakchar 8 months ago

Interesting twist of events

Interesting twist of events
FRANKIE 8 months ago

Side chicks are saviours. Honour them. If not for side chicks many marriages would have broken down. If you marry one woman she'll fight with you; if you marry two women they'll fight over you. The uninitiated will not overst ...
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Side chicks are saviours. Honour them. If not for side chicks many marriages would have broken down. If you marry one woman she'll fight with you; if you marry two women they'll fight over you. The uninitiated will not overstand this.
Dogo 8 months ago

I agree with you. You make sense .
Our ancestors lived very long and were healthy because polygamy gave them a balance in their lives

I agree with you. You make sense .
Our ancestors lived very long and were healthy because polygamy gave them a balance in their lives
SIGMA, LONDON 8 months ago

It happens quite often in Ghana. Kudos Prof! Father is ashamed.

It happens quite often in Ghana. Kudos Prof! Father is ashamed.
Kweku Tsin 8 months ago

What a fool... I know a popular rich Ghanaian who married 5 women. They all stuck around for the money but none of them really loved him..

What a fool... I know a popular rich Ghanaian who married 5 women. They all stuck around for the money but none of them really loved him..
Kwame Prah 8 months ago

It's a problem for most rich men. The women are there to be comfortable. A rich man who marries one woman who does not love him will be the same as marrying five women who do not love him. It means his selection process was w ...
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It's a problem for most rich men. The women are there to be comfortable. A rich man who marries one woman who does not love him will be the same as marrying five women who do not love him. It means his selection process was wrong. It's time we throw away this culture of the whiteman.
Give Us Barabas 8 months ago

Prof given your age, current GHC2.00 was called 20,000 cedis when you were born.

I am your mate at KNUST.

To take the amount of 20,000 cedis into perspective:
- One term basic boarding fees at secondary schools those ...
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Prof given your age, current GHC2.00 was called 20,000 cedis when you were born.

I am your mate at KNUST.

To take the amount of 20,000 cedis into perspective:
- One term basic boarding fees at secondary schools those times averaged 120.00 old cedis, i.e. GHC0.012 in current days currency;

- 65kg bag of cocoa was selling around 65 old cedis, i.e. GHC.0.065 in current days currency.

No abortion at that time would have been GHC2.00, i.e. 20,000 old cedis.

Besides, your Daddy might not have been so convincingly clear about the pregnancy as his. No disrespect to Mummy.

So side-chicks or chickens don't promote peace, respect, and long life guarantees for men.

If preferred, be bold and truthful to marry more women customarily rather than promoting adwaman NOOOO GOOD.

Efe 8 months ago

Stop this already
If you are as learned as he is, up in would know the vibes speaking in metaphors. When he says he stands by side chicks. You think what he went through was easy. He wouldn't even think of doing become ...
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Stop this already
If you are as learned as he is, up in would know the vibes speaking in metaphors. When he says he stands by side chicks. You think what he went through was easy. He wouldn't even think of doing become a second the consequences and what he endured was painful
Newself 8 months ago

@ Give Us Barabas, your comparison of Ghc2 to those day's 20,000 cedis di not factor in inflation for value. In about 2007, $1 was equivalent to ghc1 which in turn was equivalent to 10,000 cedis. Therefore ghc2 was 20,000 ced ...
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@ Give Us Barabas, your comparison of Ghc2 to those day's 20,000 cedis di not factor in inflation for value. In about 2007, $1 was equivalent to ghc1 which in turn was equivalent to 10,000 cedis. Therefore ghc2 was 20,000 cedis. Today $1 is equivalent to ghc15 so the 20,000 is equivalent to 300,000 cedis in today's value. I reckon Professor Otchere Addai-Mensah might have been born about 30 years before 2007. Note also that inflation rose quickly after the redenomination of the cedi. Ghc 2 (20,000 cedis) was no chicken feed then.
Amos 8 months ago

That is seriously true but it doesn't shun polygamy.

That is seriously true but it doesn't shun polygamy.
Kweku Tsin 8 months ago

Most of you brain dead idiots missed the point. As a result of his parent's infidelity he grew up traumatized with financially abandoned, absentee father, four of his potential siblings were aborted, how about the possibility ...
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Most of you brain dead idiots missed the point. As a result of his parent's infidelity he grew up traumatized with financially abandoned, absentee father, four of his potential siblings were aborted, how about the possibility of STDs, and you fools are here celebrating the idea of side chicks.
Efe 8 months ago

Exactly. They read but do not understand

Exactly. They read but do not understand
Mr Bob 8 months ago

How can you eat the same food for the rest of your life?lol

How can you eat the same food for the rest of your life?lol
Kweku Tsin 8 months ago

But you expect the multiple wives to eat the same food for life? While at it don't forget about STDs..

But you expect the multiple wives to eat the same food for life? While at it don't forget about STDs..
(.v.) 8 months ago

Very sad!

Very sad!
CITIZEN 8 months ago

The white has cleverly scrubbed polygamy using the Bible which supports polygamy. We seem to swallow anything thrown at us without questioning.

The white has cleverly scrubbed polygamy using the Bible which supports polygamy. We seem to swallow anything thrown at us without questioning.
Ebenezer Ayim 8 months ago

Did the man tells you that he is a Christian? Christians are faithful to their marriage

Did the man tells you that he is a Christian? Christians are faithful to their marriage

The Wiseman 8 months ago

Na lie

Na lie
Shamsi Waleed 8 months ago

All polygamists in the bible suffered for it. Look at Jacob and his troubled household, David and his household (even rape occurred to one of bis daughters and this began a coup), Solomon turned away from God.

Yet you defe ...
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All polygamists in the bible suffered for it. Look at Jacob and his troubled household, David and his household (even rape occurred to one of bis daughters and this began a coup), Solomon turned away from God.

Yet you defend Polygamy?
Ghanaman 8 months ago

I know you are kidding yourself. You wouldn't mind having a side chick, that is if you can afford it. A real African man tries to fight off the urge to have more than one woman, because it is in his blood. By the way, you tal ...
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I know you are kidding yourself. You wouldn't mind having a side chick, that is if you can afford it. A real African man tries to fight off the urge to have more than one woman, because it is in his blood. By the way, you talk about the bible. The wisest man that ever lived on this planet according to the Bible was King Solomon and he had 300 wives and 700 side chicks.
Mus 8 months ago

Was monogamy peaceful in the Bible? The first murder in the Bible was Cain killing Abel. Was that not in a monogamy marriage? Also didn’t Isaac twins go after each other? Was Isaac not in a monogamous marriage?
Marriage ha ...
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Was monogamy peaceful in the Bible? The first murder in the Bible was Cain killing Abel. Was that not in a monogamy marriage? Also didn’t Isaac twins go after each other? Was Isaac not in a monogamous marriage?
Marriage has problems, but worse is the monogamous ones.
Shamsi Waleed 8 months ago

I gave 3 examples. You gave two. Now tell me which is worse

I gave 3 examples. You gave two. Now tell me which is worse
3dem 8 months ago

Sexually indisciplined like his father....

Sexually indisciplined like his father....
Boat 8 months ago

But your mother became abortion machine

But your mother became abortion machine
First Degree Adongo 8 months ago

Has this doctor heard of HIV? He is undisciplined, just like his father. How can a doctor promote a story like this?

Has this doctor heard of HIV? He is undisciplined, just like his father. How can a doctor promote a story like this?
The SILLY Children Afenyo Markins and Annor Dompreh 8 months ago

Did you take time to read the whole article? Context is critical!

Did you take time to read the whole article? Context is critical!
Dogo 8 months ago

Don’t mind him. Some of these people need to go back to school. Comprehension is difficult for some folks

Don’t mind him. Some of these people need to go back to school. Comprehension is difficult for some folks

IRRELEVANT & IRRESPONSIBLE TOPIC TO PUBLISH 8 months ago

Look at Africans all over the world and come back to the black continent to hear what is discussed the most: nonsense, sex, who is sleeping with whoever and all that bullshit. Even Pastors have diverted to discuss sexual issu ...
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Look at Africans all over the world and come back to the black continent to hear what is discussed the most: nonsense, sex, who is sleeping with whoever and all that bullshit. Even Pastors have diverted to discuss sexual issues. Could this Journalist and the Doctor not find a topic in Hematology or public health to discuss? Dr. Side Chick, should you stoop down to the level of a Jounalist with Wasser Certificate?
judischrislam 8 months ago

In the western culture, women and men have wives and husbands and the women have their lovers and the men too have their lovers. They practice treesome, beastiality and you think it is okay.
When a woman is of age give her ...
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In the western culture, women and men have wives and husbands and the women have their lovers and the men too have their lovers. They practice treesome, beastiality and you think it is okay.
When a woman is of age give her a man and if a man is of age given him a woman.
If it has not been polygamy the black race would have been long gone. It is a procreative mechanism and so a social behavior.

I know of a guy who married a lady and his wife's closest friend is his side chic. He has three great kids with his side chic b ut his children with his wife are all problematic.
The Doctor has been been brave to initiate such a controversial topic.
Great men stabilize their sidechicsby providing them love and affection.
You are ignorant 8 months ago

Where does his story say he chases sidechicks. He is just telling the story of his mother and how he was born, and you idiotically think he is a womaniser by telling his story.

Where does his story say he chases sidechicks. He is just telling the story of his mother and how he was born, and you idiotically think he is a womaniser by telling his story.
Mus 8 months ago

HIV is rampant in monogamous societies than polygamous ones. This is why the north has the list rates like the pretending south.
Most of those in monogamous relationships have side chicks who are also serving other men.
In ...
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HIV is rampant in monogamous societies than polygamous ones. This is why the north has the list rates like the pretending south.
Most of those in monogamous relationships have side chicks who are also serving other men.
In polygamous marriages, men have defined sexual partners. How many Moslems do you see going on movie houses? Monogamy is the reason stds are common in the church.
hmm 8 months ago

I'm sure the father be Ewe man

I'm sure the father be Ewe man
hmm 8 months ago

I'm sure the father be Ewe man

I'm sure the father be Ewe man
Yaw Wontumi 8 months ago

Gbemela. The father was a short guy from kyebi. Gbeha.

Gbemela. The father was a short guy from kyebi. Gbeha.
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Give Us Barabas 8 months ago

Prof given your age, current GHC2.00 was called 20,000 cedis when you were born.

I am your mate at KNUST.

To take the amount of 20,000 cedis into perspective:
- One term basic boarding fees at secondary schools those ...
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Prof given your age, current GHC2.00 was called 20,000 cedis when you were born.

I am your mate at KNUST.

To take the amount of 20,000 cedis into perspective:
- One term basic boarding fees at secondary schools those times averaged 120.00 old cedis, i.e. GHC0.012 in current days currency;

- 65kg bag of cocoa was selling around 65 old cedis, i.e. GHC.0.065 in current days currency.

No abortion at that time would have been GHC2.00, i.e. 20,000 old cedis.

Besides, your Daddy might not have been so convincingly clear about the pregnancy as his. No disrespect to Mummy.

So side-chicks or chickens don't promote peace, respect, and long life guarantees for men.

If preferred, be bold and truthful to marry more women customarily rather than promoting adwaman.
NAMELESS 8 months ago

Hmm! I can imagine the psychological trauma you went through and still going through.

Please, forgive him and forget about him.

I hope all men and women will learn from your story and be sagacious and meticulous.

Hmm! I can imagine the psychological trauma you went through and still going through.

Please, forgive him and forget about him.

I hope all men and women will learn from your story and be sagacious and meticulous.
adom 8 months ago

True talk. Great lessons

True talk. Great lessons
Ghanaman 8 months ago

What a sad story! A lot of the blame goes to the women at the marital homes, they will move heaven and earth to keep the new woman and her child out of the life of the husband. The African man is inherently polygamous. No mat ...
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What a sad story! A lot of the blame goes to the women at the marital homes, they will move heaven and earth to keep the new woman and her child out of the life of the husband. The African man is inherently polygamous. No matter what anyone thinks, having more than one woman is in the blood of a typical and real African man. I am sure that if the so called modern women would not be obstacles in the way of the African men, they would responsibly take care of their so called side chicks. Come to think of it, who do they expect to marry the many women in Ghana who through no fault of theirs cannot find suitable men to marry them because there are more women than men in Ghana? It is time to reset our thoughts on relationships in Ghana.
GH8 8 months ago

What worries me is that from the narration it seems to me that the father was well to do and could easily have taken care of him. That's brings in your point of the wife's doing everything to stop that

What worries me is that from the narration it seems to me that the father was well to do and could easily have taken care of him. That's brings in your point of the wife's doing everything to stop that
Joko 8 months ago

@GH8 you hit the nail at the head. The man was well to do and could have easily taking care of his boy. It's really painful what he went through with his mother. Even if his wife advised him against it, he could have stood hi ...
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@GH8 you hit the nail at the head. The man was well to do and could have easily taking care of his boy. It's really painful what he went through with his mother. Even if his wife advised him against it, he could have stood his ground besides taking care of the boy will not affect his responsibility to his wife and other children. If I were the Professor, I will not forgive and I will not forget.
Ama 8 months ago

There was once VC of UG called Prof Ivan Addai-Mensah, is he the man this Prof is referring to ?I also know he is the father of Kojo Addai-Mensah ,CEO of Databank are they related?

There was once VC of UG called Prof Ivan Addai-Mensah, is he the man this Prof is referring to ?I also know he is the father of Kojo Addai-Mensah ,CEO of Databank are they related?
Circumstances Could Be Different!! 8 months ago

My dad also had a side-chick which resulted in twins being born. My mother had 6 of us.

My father was doing well to start with and he brought the twins at the age of 8 to join the family. In a few years time his business ...
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My dad also had a side-chick which resulted in twins being born. My mother had 6 of us.

My father was doing well to start with and he brought the twins at the age of 8 to join the family. In a few years time his business collapsed and things were tough in the family. The family of 8 had to depend on the salary of my nursing mother whilst the twins mother was having all the fun with no responsibility to take care of.

My mother was struggling taking care of 8children on her meagre nurses salary. She did her best to send the twins to Public School (cyto) because she couldn't afford to be crediting private sector school fees for 8 children when the twins mother was using her money to buy clothes and big wigs for her boyfriends.

Till today my mother is accused of being responsible for the my half brother/sister twins not having a good education and that she treated them badly. Recently, my mother now in her 90s explained to me "Kwesi, I was struggling with 6 of my own children, their school fees, feeding , hospital bills and how does anyone expect me to take care of somebody's own children at my expense. Your dad's business has collapsed. yes its his children but it cannot be at my expense. I did not ask him to go side-chicking. If you going to go side-chicking be prepared to pay the financial price and not make it another person's expense.

I'm not responsible for your twin brother and sister not going to secondary school. What was their mother doing that she couldn't do something to take care of her children? Don't market women sell in the market to educate their children to University. I'm not responsible for how your twin sister and brother turned out. First blame your dad. He was the one who went side-chicking and couldn't cater for the results of his adventures, and secondly blame the twins mother. In the end they had to be returned from Accra to the village back to their mother. I have no regrets" my mother said!
Sopo 8 months ago

@Circumstances Could Be Different!!
Would your mom have treated them the same if she had them with another man? I believe children from another spouse should be treated like your own children.

@Circumstances Could Be Different!!
Would your mom have treated them the same if she had them with another man? I believe children from another spouse should be treated like your own children.
My Mother Is Not Dept of Welfare 8 months ago

My mother was not born to become a Social Welfare Dept for other peoples children

My mother was not born to become a Social Welfare Dept for other peoples children
Dogo 8 months ago

Your mother cannot be blamed for how the side chicken products turned out. She did her best feeding them, clothing them and sheltering them but as far as investing in their education, their mother could have come in to contri ...
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Your mother cannot be blamed for how the side chicken products turned out. She did her best feeding them, clothing them and sheltering them but as far as investing in their education, their mother could have come in to contribute. Your father was selfish. I feel like he could have stepped in to get the side chick to help.
judischrislam 8 months ago

Probably among all the man's kids, he is the one who came out as great and well to do. Yes the man could have stepped in to help him but he was afraid of his wife or his wife might have used some charm on him making him not ...
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Probably among all the man's kids, he is the one who came out as great and well to do. Yes the man could have stepped in to help him but he was afraid of his wife or his wife might have used some charm on him making him not to care about the boy.
Johnny Boy 8 months ago

Well have the goverment pay the support needed for the side chick. The side chick needs to tell the government who bred her so government can collect from daddy.

Well have the goverment pay the support needed for the side chick. The side chick needs to tell the government who bred her so government can collect from daddy.
THAT IS WHY WE HAVE WAJU!! 8 months ago

Those gay policewomen with their fat stomach and big buttocks don't joke with men who try to escape their responsibilities with side -chicks.

I saw how they "ajosed" one man at Nima pulling him on the ground to the police ...
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Those gay policewomen with their fat stomach and big buttocks don't joke with men who try to escape their responsibilities with side -chicks.

I saw how they "ajosed" one man at Nima pulling him on the ground to the police station showing him no mercy because he refused to pay school fees for his side-chick child.
Shamsi Waleed 8 months ago

Men aren't inherently polygamous. Stop the nonsense. Women cheat more than men...paternity fraud is rampant in Africa. So me too I'll say that women are polygynous as well.

The wife didn't want to share her husband. The ma ...
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Men aren't inherently polygamous. Stop the nonsense. Women cheat more than men...paternity fraud is rampant in Africa. So me too I'll say that women are polygynous as well.

The wife didn't want to share her husband. The man could've divorced his first wife and marry the second but was a coward. Of course he left the slide chic since he doesn't want to destroy his family.

Next time don't be a side chic. She missed out on a happy married life all for some married dick
Donkra 8 months ago

You are lucky you had an educated mother working at SSNIT and you also new who your father was. I did not know my father at all and my mom was a jobless illiterate woman. Life must go on bro, no tears, just plough on. Take ed ...
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You are lucky you had an educated mother working at SSNIT and you also new who your father was. I did not know my father at all and my mom was a jobless illiterate woman. Life must go on bro, no tears, just plough on. Take education seriously and you can persevere. I am fine now friends, let's give thanks to the Almighty.
Joko 8 months ago

May God continue to bless you Donkra.

May God continue to bless you Donkra.
CITIZEN 8 months ago

Very inspiring. God bless side chicks

Very inspiring. God bless side chicks
adom 8 months ago

very very inspiring but this should not encourage any lady to be a side chick. Be the real hen!

very very inspiring but this should not encourage any lady to be a side chick. Be the real hen!
Write a memoir to motivate others 8 months ago

Wonderful revelations. Indeed everyone is battling in this life. Let's keep helping others. Men, love your children irrespective of how they arrive in this world. And married women must be kindhearted to children born to thei ...
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Wonderful revelations. Indeed everyone is battling in this life. Let's keep helping others. Men, love your children irrespective of how they arrive in this world. And married women must be kindhearted to children born to their husbands from other women. You never know tomorrow!
Shamsi Waleed 8 months ago

Stop this. Will a man ever allow a woman to bring home a baby from an affair into his house? So men should stop bringing home kids from affairs to their homes

Stop this. Will a man ever allow a woman to bring home a baby from an affair into his house? So men should stop bringing home kids from affairs to their homes
adom 8 months ago

Exactly!

Exactly!
Adukonu 8 months ago

What a sad story! Some of us went through similar one but wasn't serious like this.

What a sad story! Some of us went through similar one but wasn't serious like this.
Issaka 8 months ago

Why are some of these villagers so stupid?

Why are some of these villagers so stupid?
3dem 8 months ago

Women should read and learn. A married man was potentially grooming and sleeping with a minor who had had 5 pregnancies by 20 and had a baby by 21, and another man, who is the result of one of these pregnancies says he UNDERS ...
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Women should read and learn. A married man was potentially grooming and sleeping with a minor who had had 5 pregnancies by 20 and had a baby by 21, and another man, who is the result of one of these pregnancies says he UNDERSTANDS why his dad will sleep with a minor and force her to have abortions for his convenience!!!!! Even a single man is not worth it, how much less a married one? The sheer foolishness of it!!!!!!
Shamsi Waleed 8 months ago

Edem you're the only sensible one here. He shouldn't accept hid criminal father foolishness. I partly blame these young girls too

Edem you're the only sensible one here. He shouldn't accept hid criminal father foolishness. I partly blame these young girls too
adom 8 months ago

Hmmmm!

Hmmmm!
adom 8 months ago

Ey3 as3m ooo. Hmmm!

Ey3 as3m ooo. Hmmm!
Some Side Chicks Are Also Temptress Incarnate!! 8 months ago

The devil himself do get into them. I went from London to spend a holiday at my Sisters place at Sakumono for 3 weeks.

The 24 yr old housegirl was a devil reincarnate. When my sister goes to work she will then change into ...
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The devil himself do get into them. I went from London to spend a holiday at my Sisters place at Sakumono for 3 weeks.

The 24 yr old housegirl was a devil reincarnate. When my sister goes to work she will then change into this short skirt and start sweeping the lounge when its already being swept making sure that I'm seeing heaven fiilli-fiili.

The third week after holding off the devils attack and speaking all sorts of tongues and even doing fasting the devil won the battle. She wrestled me to the floor and totally took control of me.

What she did to me I swear no woman has even done that to me before. I cannot wait for August for this daughter of the devil to wrestle me to the ground!
Some Side Chicks Are Also Temptress Incarnate!! 8 months ago

The devil himself do get into them. I went from London to spend a holiday at my Sisters place at Sakumono for 3 weeks.

The 24 yr old housegirl was a devil reincarnate. When my sister goes to work she will then change into ...
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The devil himself do get into them. I went from London to spend a holiday at my Sisters place at Sakumono for 3 weeks.

The 24 yr old housegirl was a devil reincarnate. When my sister goes to work she will then change into this short skirt and start sweeping the lounge when its already being swept making sure that I'm seeing heaven fiilli-fiili.

The third week after holding off the devils attack and speaking all sorts of tongues and even doing fasting the devil won the battle. She wrestled me to the floor and totally took control of me.

What she did to me I swear no woman has even done that to me before. I cannot wait for August for this daughter of the devil to wrestle me to the ground!
Broni Panayoti 8 months ago

I am talking from experience! Mostly what such fathers do is to beg for forgiveness when particularly, the deserted child, becomes successful in life. Distant yourself from him if, he's still alive. First, your mum who suffer ...
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I am talking from experience! Mostly what such fathers do is to beg for forgiveness when particularly, the deserted child, becomes successful in life. Distant yourself from him if, he's still alive. First, your mum who suffered for you, should be your God followed by your wife and children and all who helped when your mum was going through hardships from pregnancy through to the time you became a-man-on-your-own.
Antiba 8 months ago

Touching. I beg, don’t ever give a dime to that man whom you called your father.

Touching. I beg, don’t ever give a dime to that man whom you called your father.
Miaw 8 months ago

He's come to look for you because people like to be associated with success. Imagine you ending up on the streets?

He's come to look for you because people like to be associated with success. Imagine you ending up on the streets?
Jake 8 months ago

It is Ashantis who behave like this. No serious human being will do this. after all they say the children are for the women and the children also like their mother more than the father.

It is Ashantis who behave like this. No serious human being will do this. after all they say the children are for the women and the children also like their mother more than the father.
Kojo 8 months ago

I am not tribalistic but it's mainly the Akan tribe with nonsense. In the north where patrininial is practiced this idiocy don't exist

I am not tribalistic but it's mainly the Akan tribe with nonsense. In the north where patrininial is practiced this idiocy don't exist
May 8 months ago

Very inspiring story.

Very inspiring story.
Ataa Obeng site 19 Tema 8 months ago

Master forget about the man called your father and move on supposedly you became a nobody in society will be call you a son ? God bless your mother and take a good care of her

Master forget about the man called your father and move on supposedly you became a nobody in society will be call you a son ? God bless your mother and take a good care of her
Yaw 8 months ago

The senior's words were very touching.

The senior's words were very touching.
Kaminski 8 months ago

Beautiful piece worth learning from. But who wrote this without dates ?? That's very unprofessional

Beautiful piece worth learning from. But who wrote this without dates ?? That's very unprofessional
Akosat 8 months ago

Forgive your father, don't curse him nor insult him because you are also a father, but for all that he did to you, ignore him as well. Let his angelic kids take care of him. Only attend to him when it's a matter of life and ...
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Forgive your father, don't curse him nor insult him because you are also a father, but for all that he did to you, ignore him as well. Let his angelic kids take care of him. Only attend to him when it's a matter of life and death.
Johnny Boy 8 months ago

BREEDING LIKE ANIMALS IS A VERY STUPID IDEA UNLESS YOU CAN AFFORD TO PAY FOR THE RESULTS!

BREEDING LIKE ANIMALS IS A VERY STUPID IDEA UNLESS YOU CAN AFFORD TO PAY FOR THE RESULTS!
Rekado 8 months ago

For u to come out and tell us d abortion ur mom did before is a shame , do u think ur mom will be happy with this ? Sad !

For u to come out and tell us d abortion ur mom did before is a shame , do u think ur mom will be happy with this ? Sad !
3dem 8 months ago

A shame to who? The victim or the married pedophile who took advantage of her???

A shame to who? The victim or the married pedophile who took advantage of her???
Concerned citizen 8 months ago

Stop promoting imorality in ghana mistakes are mistake don't institutionalised them and force it down our throats

Stop promoting imorality in ghana mistakes are mistake don't institutionalised them and force it down our throats
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The headline is different from what the man meant. 8 months ago

Listen to the interview on THE BKB SHOW and you will understand what he was trying to say.
Ghanaians like fast judgement.

Listen to the interview on THE BKB SHOW and you will understand what he was trying to say.
Ghanaians like fast judgement.
Fiifi 8 months ago

hmmm Don't name your children after him or don't let your children take your own name which is his name. I did this to my own who also abandoned me and reconnect with him when I was old enough to take care of my own. After me ...
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hmmm Don't name your children after him or don't let your children take your own name which is his name. I did this to my own who also abandoned me and reconnect with him when I was old enough to take care of my own. After meeting him I told him I will use his name but my children will not his name which is my surname.
Shamsi Waleed 8 months ago

Fiifi the surname isn't your fathers name if he didn't name himself. It's also your grandfathers name. Possibly an ancestor name. So yeh, it's not your father's name

Fiifi the surname isn't your fathers name if he didn't name himself. It's also your grandfathers name. Possibly an ancestor name. So yeh, it's not your father's name
Mimi 8 months ago

Glory to God for your life

Glory to God for your life
Asakramitoga 8 months ago

What a sad story

What a sad story
Kwabena 8 months ago

A story to behold. Lots of intrigues. The moral for me is non-rejection, prayer and hard work.

A story to behold. Lots of intrigues. The moral for me is non-rejection, prayer and hard work.
Raw 8 months ago

Two sides of a coin. I saw the other side of it….Prof’s Mum and he suffered because of the former being a side chick.His father might truly love the Mum, nonetheless. The Mum deserves all accolades for prioritizing human ...
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Two sides of a coin. I saw the other side of it….Prof’s Mum and he suffered because of the former being a side chick.His father might truly love the Mum, nonetheless. The Mum deserves all accolades for prioritizing human existence over everything.She might as well have some regrets for ever being a side chick.
Shamsi Waleed 8 months ago

How do you love someone and pressure her to get many abortions. Not marry her and ignore her.
If that's love, then I can't think of what hate is

How do you love someone and pressure her to get many abortions. Not marry her and ignore her.
If that's love, then I can't think of what hate is
Nii 8 months ago

God brought you this far so don't mind that idiot called father and the entire family.

God brought you this far so don't mind that idiot called father and the entire family.
TT 8 months ago

Some of your father’s children he cherished so much may not even be his. Free and automatic DNA at birth will turn this country upside down.

Some of your father’s children he cherished so much may not even be his. Free and automatic DNA at birth will turn this country upside down.
CADA 8 months ago

Oh how could he?
Prof do you bear his name,?
Anyway, vengeance is of the Lord of and may the Good Lord continue to bless you and promote you

Oh how could he?
Prof do you bear his name,?
Anyway, vengeance is of the Lord of and may the Good Lord continue to bless you and promote you
No! To NPP...Never Again to Npp-pigs! It is Finished! 8 months ago

What a Loose Canon! This is the true "Side Chick for Grade". Being vent for leakages in the Economy. Not innocent victims of npp/BBC vile propaganda. Shame!!

What a Loose Canon! This is the true "Side Chick for Grade". Being vent for leakages in the Economy. Not innocent victims of npp/BBC vile propaganda. Shame!!
Olla Rinke 8 months ago

A bastard by definition seeking validation. In a decadent and corrupt society, there are countless bastards, a few manage to succeed whilst majority turn out to be criminals and social outcasts. Unless the glorification of il ...
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A bastard by definition seeking validation. In a decadent and corrupt society, there are countless bastards, a few manage to succeed whilst majority turn out to be criminals and social outcasts. Unless the glorification of illegitimacy is discourage by encouraging the authentic African traditional way of life, the number of bastards will continue to increase , leading the collapse of authentic family structure.
NPP 38. 2% 8 months ago

Chase these dogs out of ur life

Chase these dogs out of ur life
Spree 8 months ago

People are missing the point here. Recap; 4 abortions and another pregnancy at age 21. Was your mother a side chick, a public property or a b***ch. Either way, it can never justify adultery. No wonder you've been fired. Your ...
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People are missing the point here. Recap; 4 abortions and another pregnancy at age 21. Was your mother a side chick, a public property or a b***ch. Either way, it can never justify adultery. No wonder you've been fired. Your narrative speaks volumes. SmD!
Olla Rinke 8 months ago

A bastard by definition seeking validation. In a decadent and corrupt society. There are countless bastards out there ,a few manage to succeed whilst majority turn out to be criminals and social outcasts. Unless the glorifica ...
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A bastard by definition seeking validation. In a decadent and corrupt society. There are countless bastards out there ,a few manage to succeed whilst majority turn out to be criminals and social outcasts. Unless the glorification of illegitimacy is discouraged by encouraging the authentic African traditional way of life, the number of bastards will continue to increase , leading the collapse of authentic family structure.
Nii 8 months ago

He is a made man and doesn't need validation

He is a made man and doesn't need validation
Amos 8 months ago

NPP piglets and fucking!

NPP piglets and fucking!
S A 8 months ago

An emotional story full of lessons.

An emotional story full of lessons.
Kay 8 months ago

Let us also blame our mothers who followed married men. Some like to tie men down with unwanted pregnancies.

Let us also blame our mothers who followed married men. Some like to tie men down with unwanted pregnancies.
Sister Soulja 8 months ago

This story sounds fishy, a classmate of the learned Professor says his father used to visit him regularly when they were in Amass.

This story sounds fishy, a classmate of the learned Professor says his father used to visit him regularly when they were in Amass.
Sagacious shaggy 8 months ago

Who then is your wicked father by name I guess he is well known

Who then is your wicked father by name I guess he is well known
Leo 8 months ago

Senior man, please do not blame your biological father, but rather your way-ward, morally corrupt & a slut -like mother, who had numerous abortions before age (21) . Her character and ill- motives, were the "reason", your f ...
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Senior man, please do not blame your biological father, but rather your way-ward, morally corrupt & a slut -like mother, who had numerous abortions before age (21) . Her character and ill- motives, were the "reason", your father abandoned you.
GhanaBeyond Aid 8 months ago

There is wickedness and sicknesses in our blood that we treat our own child this way.....

There is wickedness and sicknesses in our blood that we treat our own child this way.....
Kwesi George 8 months ago

What benefits the public with this kind of story?We have more than hundred years to achieve what the Asian countries have done and this what we are talking about.Blind Ghanaians

What benefits the public with this kind of story?We have more than hundred years to achieve what the Asian countries have done and this what we are talking about.Blind Ghanaians
VERY SAD STORY 8 months ago

SAD STORY AND IMPACTFUL

SAD STORY AND IMPACTFUL
Vivian 8 months ago

Children shouldn't suffer for the stupidity of two adults

Children shouldn't suffer for the stupidity of two adults
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Aba Sam 8 months ago

His mother sold her clothes and jewellery to cater for his schooling. How can a polytechnic student get money to buy those items?

His mother sold her clothes and jewellery to cater for his schooling. How can a polytechnic student get money to buy those items?
Mus 8 months ago

Only weak men run because they have impregnated someone outside their marriage.
Real men don’t.

Only weak men run because they have impregnated someone outside their marriage.
Real men don’t.
Jon J 8 months ago

NO PROB WIV DSS. Women chaw pass men

NO PROB WIV DSS. Women chaw pass men

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