Dear GhanaWeb: My sister now performs marital duties in my matrimonial home

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Naa 1 year ago

My dear pray more and ignore them. Allow God to reveal things to you as they are. Draw closer to God, attend more church services and programmes and focus on Him. Ignore them as much as you can.

My dear pray more and ignore them. Allow God to reveal things to you as they are. Draw closer to God, attend more church services and programmes and focus on Him. Ignore them as much as you can.
Oaei 1 year ago

The best advice

The best advice
Boss 1 year ago

Not the best of advice. Pray more I agree but do not ignore. Please going after church services and programs will only worsen your situation. Seek counselling on what to do to. Bring in your other counsellors on your fears. D ...
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Not the best of advice. Pray more I agree but do not ignore. Please going after church services and programs will only worsen your situation. Seek counselling on what to do to. Bring in your other counsellors on your fears. Do what is humanly possible to restore your marriage. Most importantly evaluate yourself in the marriage - are there things you can improve on yourself to spice things up. Do not ignore but start to take action to save your marriage.
agbelimawoe 1 year ago

while fooring in church they are chopping each other some more lol

while fooring in church they are chopping each other some more lol
u joe 1 year ago

NA TRUE ADVICE

NA TRUE ADVICE
rUSSIAN WOMANS 1 year ago

your best advise to suspected infidelity is to ignore? ghanaians really do got brains of a pea!! no wonder ya'll would be getting pummelled and beat up in marriages and still remain. IMBECILES!!!

your best advise to suspected infidelity is to ignore? ghanaians really do got brains of a pea!! no wonder ya'll would be getting pummelled and beat up in marriages and still remain. IMBECILES!!!
Hmm 1 year ago

Insults makes everything better right? You've said nothing to help the situation rather pushing the person done well done miss. He who knows better should do better in all regards.

Insults makes everything better right? You've said nothing to help the situation rather pushing the person done well done miss. He who knows better should do better in all regards.
Joy 1 year ago

Really?

Really?
Adio Kiko 1 year ago

Wicked man. He needs to be castrated.

Wicked man. He needs to be castrated.
Ebena 1 year ago

Hack her phone and your husband phone simple becomes everything is possible

Hack her phone and your husband phone simple becomes everything is possible

ebena trumu tantan 1 year ago

we use a burner. you apontsi!

we use a burner. you apontsi!
Auntie Love 1 year ago

Madam, your sister was sent to destroy your marriage. You shouldn't have agreed to your mother's request to bring your sister to your marital home. You have every right to send your sister back to the village to save your ma ...
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Madam, your sister was sent to destroy your marriage. You shouldn't have agreed to your mother's request to bring your sister to your marital home. You have every right to send your sister back to the village to save your marriage.
Do not trust both your mother, and your uncle. Their silence over your sister's repulsive behaviour is very suspicious.
Sister, open your eyesoo! Your family members want to destroy your marriage. "Nipa ne fie fo y3 natanfo."
Please, also pray and fast. The Lord will see you through. Always pray about everything, before taking action. The merciful Lord will show you the hidden plans of the enemy. Experience is the best teacher.
Ahmed 1 year ago

Things like this always happen but it seems most ladies are not ready to learn. God created man in his own image. Anyone who serves a man well naturally get attach to him. No matter the beauty...

Things like this always happen but it seems most ladies are not ready to learn. God created man in his own image. Anyone who serves a man well naturally get attach to him. No matter the beauty...
osofo dadzie 1 year ago

perhaps your sis spreads both holes for the abrantie so allow make dem enjoy sha. I bet spreads even da third hole sef. keep being dead log in bed and you become husbandless

perhaps your sis spreads both holes for the abrantie so allow make dem enjoy sha. I bet spreads even da third hole sef. keep being dead log in bed and you become husbandless
Pk 1 year ago

If you prepared his food and laid his bed, he wouldn't have asked your sister to do it.
You may have to up your game to spice up your relationship.
Nagging and being judgemental will always put a man off and wouldn't want t ...
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If you prepared his food and laid his bed, he wouldn't have asked your sister to do it.
You may have to up your game to spice up your relationship.
Nagging and being judgemental will always put a man off and wouldn't want to touch you

I agree that you should be more prayerful but equally you must be introspective and live like a proper wife.
Good luck
Dr Ba 1 year ago

It's spiritual. Bring a powerful Man Of God and pack her things back to the village. PRAY THROUGH OUT!!!

It's spiritual. Bring a powerful Man Of God and pack her things back to the village. PRAY THROUGH OUT!!!
We dey 1 year ago

Crap.....

Crap.....
Am 1 year ago

For your own well being, piece of mind and you're sanity, please leave because if he is putting your sister before you then there is something going on. Pray and take action. Your mental well-being is very important.

For your own well being, piece of mind and you're sanity, please leave because if he is putting your sister before you then there is something going on. Pray and take action. Your mental well-being is very important.
Get closer to your sister, be more friendly , go out with her ,fo close markings, she's laying your matrimonial bed , help g 1 year ago

Buy same clothes different colours

Buy same clothes different colours
DM 1 year ago

Lol. Different colours indeed

Lol. Different colours indeed

Efo K?mi Ayigbe 1 year ago

Your husband said no, yet you went on to beg him. You should have probably asked why. He saw this coming that's why he objected to your request.
It seems to me, you have lost control of your home. Your sister lays your bed, ...
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Your husband said no, yet you went on to beg him. You should have probably asked why. He saw this coming that's why he objected to your request.
It seems to me, you have lost control of your home. Your sister lays your bed, cook for your husband and you just sit and watch? I guess, when she came, to make your husband to like her, you asked her to be doing all the chores at home. Truly it worked, or should I say it has overworked? Anyway I can only assume.

Ignore your husband's threat and send her away. You created the mess by bringing her, clean it by sending her back. Just ask her to come along with you for weekend in the village. Don't let her pack all her things to raise any suspicion. Run back to the city and send the rest of her things to her by bus.
Efo K?mi Ayigbe 1 year ago

Your husband said no, yet you went on to beg him. You should have probably asked why. He saw this coming that's why he objected to your request.
It seems to me, you have lost control of your home. Your sister lays your bed, ...
read full comment

Your husband said no, yet you went on to beg him. You should have probably asked why. He saw this coming that's why he objected to your request.
It seems to me, you have lost control of your home. Your sister lays your bed, cook for your husband and you just sit and watch? I guess, when she came, to make your husband to like her, you asked her to be doing all the chores at home. Truly it worked, or should I say it has overworked? Anyway I can only assume.

Ignore your husband's threat and send her away. You created the mess by bringing her, clean it by sending her back. Just ask her to come along with you for weekend in the village. Don't let her pack all her things to raise any suspicion. Run back to the city and send the rest of her things to her by bus.
Efo K?mi Ayigbe 1 year ago

Your husband said no, yet you went on to beg him. You should have probably asked why. He saw this coming that's why he objected to your request.
It seems to me, you have lost control of your home. Your sister lays your bed, ...
read full comment

Your husband said no, yet you went on to beg him. You should have probably asked why. He saw this coming that's why he objected to your request.
It seems to me, you have lost control of your home. Your sister lays your bed, cook for your husband and you just sit and watch? I guess, when she came, to make your husband to like her, you asked her to be doing all the chores at home. Truly it worked, or should I say it has overworked? Anyway I can only assume.

Ignore your husband's threat and send her away. You created the mess by bringing her, clean it by sending her back. Just ask her to come along with you for weekend in the village. Don't let her pack all her things to raise any suspicion. Run back to the city and send the rest of her things to her by bus.
Agy 1 year ago

My dear sister with God all things are possible. Continue praying to God he will answer your prayers one day.

My dear sister with God all things are possible. Continue praying to God he will answer your prayers one day.
Hmm 1 year ago

Are staying for some kind of financial security or because you want catch them in the act. Either ways is not worth it, for your one sanity and health leave and start and focus on yourself. Going to church programs and gather ...
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Are staying for some kind of financial security or because you want catch them in the act. Either ways is not worth it, for your one sanity and health leave and start and focus on yourself. Going to church programs and gathering does nothing. That is where your vulnerability will be used against you and end up being a bigger fool.
Vicky 1 year ago

Why do you have to allow your sister to stay with you in your matrimonial just because your mother asked you to and you didn't reason with your head?
Madam, the 100th century has passed.
Sorry but next time.

Why do you have to allow your sister to stay with you in your matrimonial just because your mother asked you to and you didn't reason with your head?
Madam, the 100th century has passed.
Sorry but next time.

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