Dear GhanaWeb: My wife is a victim of Female Genital Mutilation and she never told me about it

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Kwam 1 year ago

But seriously, is the clitoris the only area you can arouse her? Be a man by exploring other parts of her body. I think you have a point but that shouldn't be the bases to be a lazy husband in bed.

But seriously, is the clitoris the only area you can arouse her? Be a man by exploring other parts of her body. I think you have a point but that shouldn't be the bases to be a lazy husband in bed.
Bissy 1 year ago

She had a traumatic experience. FGM is an act of abuse. Imagine if the sensitivity part of your penis was removed without your consent as a child does that means you don't deserve marriage and companionship. You dated this ...
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She had a traumatic experience. FGM is an act of abuse. Imagine if the sensitivity part of your penis was removed without your consent as a child does that means you don't deserve marriage and companionship. You dated this woman for 4 years, clearly you love her for her character and virtues. Hold on to that and help her feel safe enough to express herself sexually . This is marriage, don't consider divorce until you've tried to help her. She might need counselling to get out of her frigid state . Be patient and kind with her. It's not her fault don't abandon her. Help her with love and respect
Jay 1 year ago

They should have had that conversation before marriage oo. How can she keep something important like this from him before marriage?

They should have had that conversation before marriage oo. How can she keep something important like this from him before marriage?
Kk 1 year ago

Please divorce her, would she had stayed with you If the table had turned, if you couldn’t have an errection?

Life is short, she could have told you during this 4 years and let you make your own decisions, but knowing s ...
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Please divorce her, would she had stayed with you If the table had turned, if you couldn’t have an errection?

Life is short, she could have told you during this 4 years and let you make your own decisions, but knowing she can lock you into marriage with it she waited until all papers are signed so even if you divorce, you won’t go Scot free.

Man divorce her don’t look back. Tweaaaaaa
Jay 1 year ago

True talk

True talk
AB 1 year ago

Masa, no need for divorce at all because of her situation. Those who were subjected to FGM in their infancy mostly feel shy to discuss this issue with others so psychologically their feelings are dead which needs to be resurr ...
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Masa, no need for divorce at all because of her situation. Those who were subjected to FGM in their infancy mostly feel shy to discuss this issue with others so psychologically their feelings are dead which needs to be resurrected. You haven't enev tried to help her in her predicament and you are contemplating divorce or cheating on her. This thought is not a good solution all.

You should rather show love to her now more than ever and coach her to understand how to get her feelings during sex. You see my brother, its no fault of her to find herself in this situation so be considrate and feel for her as if this were done to you and be by her side. You are even blessed and lucky to have a wife who will never cheat on you so your situation is not that bad. I know many people whose wives had this issue but lived happily with them and they have raised great men and women in Ghana here so please don't entertain the thought of cheating on your wife or divorcing her because of this.

Aside of you coaching her to get her feelings during sex, i presume this is church marriage, so you can seek assistance from your marriage counsellor to help her and you as well so that you may live happily ever in your marriage. If you are able to do this, the exitement you are cravig for will come and there will no issues with her on that score, so be a man enough to tackle the problem with your wife head on.

i hope this my little advice help you in your marriage.

Thank you.
AB.
Peace man 1 year ago

Use your TOUGUE to rock the hole at the top I call it resurrection of pleasure she will understand better , use soft cream to finger same hole whiles making sex she will come I have such a lady before she travel abroad stil ...
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Use your TOUGUE to rock the hole at the top I call it resurrection of pleasure she will understand better , use soft cream to finger same hole whiles making sex she will come I have such a lady before she travel abroad still she always remember me.
AB 1 year ago

Ei! eperience will kill you!! this is good a piece of advice for our brother and those whose wives have undergone FGM.

Masa congrats for sharing this useful information with us, i have learnt a useful lesson today. I
hop ...
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Ei! eperience will kill you!! this is good a piece of advice for our brother and those whose wives have undergone FGM.

Masa congrats for sharing this useful information with us, i have learnt a useful lesson today. I
hope our friend reads your goood piece of advice and use it for him to achieve the exitement he is craving for during sex with his wife.

I love that! good advice!!. May they enjoy their marriage and may God bless you for this.
Antenna 1 year ago

Maintain her and take another one or side chick.She has other duties to perform

Maintain her and take another one or side chick.She has other duties to perform

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