Dear GhanaWeb: My baby mama asked me to cancel my wedding and marry her

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Albert 3 months ago

It is sad what has happened. I however find it baffling that you are baffled. `0 years is a long time and many things have happened. One's you have connected, she can't keep your daughter from you. Open up to your finance, af ...
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It is sad what has happened. I however find it baffling that you are baffled. `0 years is a long time and many things have happened. One's you have connected, she can't keep your daughter from you. Open up to your finance, affirm your love for her and go ahead and marry her. Don't allow the manipulative blackmailer to destroy your marriage before it begins. If you decide to marry your baby mama, you will ABSOLUTELY REGRET IT. because the foundation points to a many who is weak and unresolved in his decision. Also, the tool of your weakness is in her hands and she will use it against you. Also, take DNA test to be sure you are not going to support another person's progeny deceptively.

Be advised, be wise. Baby Mama and daughter need you and cannot deny you access.
Kwame 3 months ago

Have you done a DNA test to confirm the child is yours?

Have you done a DNA test to confirm the child is yours?
White Guy loving Ghana 3 months ago

You betrayed yourself: "Access to your daughter..." If you're capable of saying or even thinking something like that, it means nothing other than that you're not really interested in true love, but rather in "having access to ...
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You betrayed yourself: "Access to your daughter..." If you're capable of saying or even thinking something like that, it means nothing other than that you're not really interested in true love, but rather in "having access to your daughter"...

Being a father is one thing, being with the mother is another thing, lets be real, this is the year 2025, things like this happen. Did you ever "love" the mother? Maybe she was just an affair? For sure she was "history", dont forget, you were able to leave in those days without a word, this tells you everything...

If only you really love your nowadays girlfriend go ahead with HER. Everything else is history. Be damn careful and think twice wether you should let her know about your past, many ladies can't take things like this....
coop-city 3 months ago

You want to tell me she hasn't been with anybody since 10 years. Come one, use your head. Do DNA first and after tell your current girl as you stated here what happened. Don't marry her because of your daughter and I hope you ...
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You want to tell me she hasn't been with anybody since 10 years. Come one, use your head. Do DNA first and after tell your current girl as you stated here what happened. Don't marry her because of your daughter and I hope you have not slept with her. Tell her you will take care of your daughter and is she No please move on. The daughter will look for you.
Yao 3 months ago

My brother don't do something you'd regret for the rest of your life. How do you know the girl is your child? Have a DNA done first and even if she turns out to be your child, go ahead and marry your fiancee but first and as ...
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My brother don't do something you'd regret for the rest of your life. How do you know the girl is your child? Have a DNA done first and even if she turns out to be your child, go ahead and marry your fiancee but first and as quickly as possible, let her know what is happening but assure her if your commitment to her.

You can still have a relationship with your daughter without marrying your baby mama. Ger attitude is a very big red flag. A woman who is using her child as a bargaining chip to force you to marry her will be a nightmare for you. You will regret seriously if you fall for this emotional blackmail. Honestly I'm shocked and even angry at you for being confused about this and going as far as considering cancelling your marriage. Your fiancee will be really angry if she knows what you are considering doing bcos it shows you are somebody who can easily be manipulated.

DON'T THROW AWAY YOUR MARRIAGE FOR THIS SCAM!

Wish you all the best bro.
Kenneth 3 months ago

I personally think you should have dna to see whether she is your daughter or not.if she is your daughter there are legal means you can pursue to havd access to her.if she is your daughter be clear and truthful with her about ...
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I personally think you should have dna to see whether she is your daughter or not.if she is your daughter there are legal means you can pursue to havd access to her.if she is your daughter be clear and truthful with her about the issue.allow her to make her decision on whether she wants to get married to you or not.if she says yes get married to her other than your supposed baby mama.
Prince 3 months ago

Try to do DNA first and if it becomes clear that the said daughter is yours then find ways and means to end your fiancee relationship and get married to your baby mama but if the DNA proves otherwise then go ahead and marry ...
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Try to do DNA first and if it becomes clear that the said daughter is yours then find ways and means to end your fiancee relationship and get married to your baby mama but if the DNA proves otherwise then go ahead and marry your fiancee.getting children with different women if you don't take care you may end up not giving your children better education.A word to a wise is enough!!
Abinziki 3 months ago

First of all, do a DNA test to ensure the child is yours. Then check the 2 women; whom does your heart follow, respect you, honour you,trust you and the vise versa. Your peace and happiness first. The child will always come t ...
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First of all, do a DNA test to ensure the child is yours. Then check the 2 women; whom does your heart follow, respect you, honour you,trust you and the vise versa. Your peace and happiness first. The child will always come to you. Does both families know about the child in question ? Do your homework well.

Gabon Dee 3 months ago

You can forget about the wedding and do the customary rights in so you can marry the two of them,it's not an abomination to take two wives as far as you can take care of them

You can forget about the wedding and do the customary rights in so you can marry the two of them,it's not an abomination to take two wives as far as you can take care of them
Sam 3 months ago

Keep ur head up and go ahead with ur wedding plans with ur girlfriend.Talk to ur girlfriend abt it and also inform ur parents too to go for ur daughter.It will help ur baby mama to have a single life again and be free to date ...
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Keep ur head up and go ahead with ur wedding plans with ur girlfriend.Talk to ur girlfriend abt it and also inform ur parents too to go for ur daughter.It will help ur baby mama to have a single life again and be free to date who ever she chooses to marry.
Fire for fire 3 months ago

A GIRL FOR YOU ? NO PROBLEM!! BUT LET "US" GET A DNA FIRST AND FOREMOST, THEN "WE" CAN DECIDE ON THE NEXT COURSE OF ACTION.
BUT WHY DIDNT SHE APPROACH YOUR FAMILY, AT LEAST YOUR MOTHER, WHEN SHE FOUND OUT THAT SHE BELIEVED ...
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A GIRL FOR YOU ? NO PROBLEM!! BUT LET "US" GET A DNA FIRST AND FOREMOST, THEN "WE" CAN DECIDE ON THE NEXT COURSE OF ACTION.
BUT WHY DIDNT SHE APPROACH YOUR FAMILY, AT LEAST YOUR MOTHER, WHEN SHE FOUND OUT THAT SHE BELIEVED THE PREGNACY WAS FOR YOU?
STRANGE, IS IT?!!! WOMEN! WOMEN!! WOMEN!!!
A bottle of Banku 3 months ago

Bro, you need a DNA test first. If it comes clear, provide the result to her parents through your parents. A sentencing and compensation would be paid to the lady and her family. Once that is done, the laws of GHANA will then ...
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Bro, you need a DNA test first. If it comes clear, provide the result to her parents through your parents. A sentencing and compensation would be paid to the lady and her family. Once that is done, the laws of GHANA will then unite you and your daughter forever.
David Appiah 3 months ago

How sure are you that she is ur daughter? Go ahead with ur married .

How sure are you that she is ur daughter? Go ahead with ur married .
To marry the baby mama? 3 months ago

Go for a DNA test to determine whether or not you are truly the biological father of the said daughter of yours. If you are, make both families aware about it, and start providing for your daughter.
Go ahead and marry the la ...
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Go for a DNA test to determine whether or not you are truly the biological father of the said daughter of yours. If you are, make both families aware about it, and start providing for your daughter.
Go ahead and marry the lady you have planned to marry but make her aware of your daughter.
As for your supposed baby mama, she just want to destroy your planned marriage so never give her that chance.
She was not waiting for you during all this 10 years. All the men she met in your absence, of any of them was serious with her, she would have married before you return.
JULOR CAESAR 3 months ago

You have no choice but to cancel that wedding and instead marry your baby mama. Your baby mama has a court order from a Boko Haram court in Northern Nigeria that calls for you to marry your baby mama.

You have no choice but to cancel that wedding and instead marry your baby mama. Your baby mama has a court order from a Boko Haram court in Northern Nigeria that calls for you to marry your baby mama.

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